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What do you think of all the dommes seeking "gener... - 4/4/2009 6:11:24 PM

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Hi all. I've noticed that there are a lot of domme women on this site seeking submissive men who are "generous". I'm not talking about the professional dommes who advertise here, I'm looking more at the non pros. I'm just curious to see what others think about this? Personally, it seems to me that many of these women are on here simply to take advantage of naive men whom they have no intention of actually doing anything with in person. There was even one profile I saw where the girl (she was about 20, so she was a girl!) had a "wish list" of items listed that she was hoping people would buy for her. I don't know... I suppose financial submission is a legitemate form of this lifestyle, but as a sub guy I get rather annoyed and offended by this.

RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 4/4/2009 6:15:00 PM

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It means they want the sub to buy them things and splurge and spend money on them. And if they're up front about it, how is that taking "advantage" of someone naive?

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 4/4/2009 6:19:10 PM

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I don't know much about "professional Dom/Dommes" But I would think it's safe to say, if the word "professional" is used they want your money. Hmmmm I wonder if there are "professional subs"

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 4/4/2009 6:20:27 PM

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was wondering why you use the word "all"?

I don't see any list in my profile, and I just happen to be a person on here.

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 4/4/2009 6:30:31 PM

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I don't see any list in my profile,

You must not be True. True dominants have lists. I, for example, keep a list of all the lists I keep.

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 4/4/2009 6:34:43 PM

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I'm very generous with my time.

Hey............what's with the pushing and shoving?

I said time, not dime.

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 4/4/2009 6:34:49 PM

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<Raises a brow>

Is that so?

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 4/4/2009 6:49:00 PM

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Are there really that many? I see guys bring this up on a regular basis, but I just haven't seen it as all that common myself.

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 4/4/2009 6:59:31 PM

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Don't you just love global generalizations? Mind you the OP did modify the "All" to "A lot of" but the misleading header still leaves a bad taste in my mouth.. Think I'll just pass on this thread.

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 4/4/2009 6:59:35 PM

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Probably because you are looking for someone real and compatible, Panda. Most of the guys making this complaint are seeking a 20 year old supermodel with a whip.

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 4/4/2009 6:59:48 PM

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Are there really that many? I see guys bring this up on a regular basis, but I just haven't seen it as all that common myself.

Have to remember, Panda, that within certain age groups/body types, it can be more common. It doesn't happen so often when one doesn't especially only read the profiles of pin up Dommes.

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 4/4/2009 7:00:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

<Raises a brow>

Is that so?

Oooh, Lady P.... you're on my list now!!!!

...and yes, I agree with you and Wyld completely. The OP is almost certainly executing searches for barbies with whips.

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 4/4/2009 7:14:10 PM

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ORIGINAL: Newsensation

Hi all. I've noticed that there are a lot of domme women on this site seeking submissive men who are "generous". I'm not talking about the professional dommes who advertise here, I'm looking more at the non pros. I'm just curious to see what others think about this?

I think P.T. Barnum was right. But it's their money, and if it makes them happy, more power to them.

I also think this is the internet, and people are drawn to make themselves known to those who might willingly part with a dollar or two.

I also think it's a valid kink, and what I think doesn't really matter in the end.

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Personally, it seems to me that many of these women are on here simply to take advantage of naive men whom they have no intention of actually doing anything with in person.

Undoubtedly that's true. But it's also true that many of the men are willing (even anxious) to be taken advantage of. That's the nature of free choice.

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There was even one profile I saw where the girl (she was about 20, so she was a girl!) had a "wish list" of items listed that she was hoping people would buy for her.

Remember, this is the internet. Don't be so quick to stipulate to their gender, just because they say it's so.

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I don't know... I suppose financial submission is a legitemate form of this lifestyle, but as a sub guy I get rather annoyed and offended by this.

Yeah, it is a legitimate kink. But there's no reason for you to be offended, as another person's kink is no reflection upon you.

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 4/4/2009 7:20:03 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

<Raises a brow>

Is that so?

Oooh, Lady P.... you're on my list now!!!!

...and yes, I agree with you and Wyld completely. The OP is almost certainly executing searches for barbies with whips.

As long as it's not the shit list, I'm good with it.

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 4/4/2009 7:20:52 PM

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I look at it this way, if the guy wants to be generous then that is his decision. He does not have to get involved with a Domme and hand her all his money. We are all adults here and supposedly mature enough to make good decisions.

When I hear people whine about the Pro Dommes or women supposedly asking for money, I cannot feel sorry for the guys who hand it over. They are adults and capable of making up their own minds.

I don't ask my male sub for money or tribute because I work hard and make enough of my own. If he wants to buy me a gift or treat me to dinner, I have no problem with that and neither does he because I do the same for him.

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 4/4/2009 7:28:27 PM

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It's like the male dom who walks into a bar with an ostrich and a cat. He walks up to the bar and and asks the ostrich and cat what they want.

'A gin and tonic' says the ostrich.
'A double whisky,' says the cat, 'but I'm not paying for it'.

So the guy orders himself a beer, a gin and tonic for the ostrich and a double whisky for the cat and they stand there by the bar chatting. Then the ostrich asks everyone what they want.

'Thank you,' says the man, 'I'll have a pint of lager.'
'I'll have a double whisky,' says the cat, 'but I'm not paying for it..'

The barman serves the drinks and the trio stand there by the bar and continue chatting. Then the man looks at the cat. The cat looks at the man through narrowed eyes.

'Fuck off,' says the cat.

So the man orders again, a gin and tonic for the ostrich, and 'a double whisky' for the cat 'who isn't paying..' The barman serves the drinks and calls the man over.

'What is it with the ostrich and the cat?' asks the barman, 'And why won't the cat pay?'

'Well I wrote up a profile on Collarme,' explains the man to the barman, 'and I wrote that I was seeking a bird with long legs and a tight pussy. And this Nigerian witch doctor replied and...'

Which is how I see the OP here... a bit of a joke.

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 4/4/2009 7:31:14 PM

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i suggest quit looking at peoples profiles if they offend you..
personaly i think everyone should have a wishlist,ya never know when kinky Santa might stop by the forums, i better go make one i dont want to risk missing out..

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 4/4/2009 7:36:56 PM

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You've been a member for less than one day. Spend time looking at more profiles. Then go to your local munch and meet real people.

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 4/4/2009 7:37:04 PM

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ORIGINAL: IronBear

Don't you just love global generalizations? Mind you the OP did modify the "All" to "A lot of" but the misleading header still leaves a bad taste in my mouth.. Think I'll just pass on this thread.

Clearly he wasn't refering to ALL dommes under the sun, he was refering to all the dommes who are specifically seeking generous subs.

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RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "g... - 4/4/2009 7:43:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: Newsensation

Hi all. I've noticed that there are a lot of domme women on this site seeking submissive men who are "generous". I'm not talking about the professional dommes who advertise here, I'm looking more at the non pros. I'm just curious to see what others think about this? Personally, it seems to me that many of these women are on here simply to take advantage of naive men whom they have no intention of actually doing anything with in person. There was even one profile I saw where the girl (she was about 20, so she was a girl!) had a "wish list" of items listed that she was hoping people would buy for her. I don't know... I suppose financial submission is a legitimate form of this lifestyle, but as a sub guy I get rather annoyed and offended by this.

Anything wrong with simply bypassing these profiles you find offensive? I wouldn't think it should be that tough to do. Some subs do enjoy being financially generous to their dommes. Just because it ain't your kink, I wouldn't pass judgment in that manner to the ones who's kink is generosity.

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