Kelika
Posts: 56
Joined: 4/25/2006 From: Cincinnati Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: withthesewings Alot of Doms, not all..but quite a few have "Champagne tastes with beer budgets", when it comes to their choice in subs. They want a gorgeous sub...but dont want any part of the "upkeep" and maintance of their "property". Meaning: For instance if I were a single-parent sub, low income, who had to concentrate on paying bills and etc. and did not have the funds for the "extras" that a sub likes to have to please her Master (perhaps, lingerie...hair maintance, nice nails and toes, waxing? etc..) if a Dom of mine appreciated those things and wanted me as his sub to have them, then I would appreciate a little help with the cost of it. So..yea, in that aspect..a stable income would be nice...:) I am not sure that I understood what you were trying to say. Are you saying that the lower a Dom's income, the uglier a sub he gets? That only the richer Dom's get the more attractive subs? I must have misunderstood, for surely you would not be calling the attractive subs gold-diggers. I don't think that was what was being said. There have been times in my life where I can afford to get pedicures and manicures and buy new clothes regularly including $350 corsets and times in my life when I cannot afford that. I don't think I was "uglier" when I couldn't afford those things. Withthesewings was talking about someone's preference for things. If a man has a corset fetish...well guess what...he better be able to afford to buy them. If I have a corset fetish and that is important to me, I would expect the ability to buy them would continue if I was able to before. I think that is what is being said. As far as the OP...yes, I have standards as to what someone needs to make because if he can't take care of himself, I don't think it's fair to take on the responsibility of another. Now mind you, I am thinking as a slave because that is what I hope to be one day. On the flip side, I work very hard in my life to be able to make good money...not because it was given to me or I have been blessed with family support or even a college degree, but because I work my ass off to be the best that I know I am capable off. I would expect the man that wants to own me to be the same way. Well wishes, Kelika
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I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naïve or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman. ~ Anais Nin
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