LillyoftheVally
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ORIGINAL: Prinsexx Submission is not a syndrome except when it is not understood. And thjerapy, therapy, therapy... a sure sugn of failing times when mother snad families cannot be the remedy. She is far too intelligent for any therapist believe me. She just happens to be submissive. Innately. Prins, to me it sounds like you are almost sanctioning this as inevitable and it is not, also just because you are submissive does not mean that she is. Indeed 99% of teenage girls are just like you said when they fall in love, it is dramatic, they will do anything for them and they seem unable to draw the line. My sister who is now pretty dominant in relationships had a boyfriend who did precisely what you just said. This guy needs to be arrested, it was assault, she needs you to draw the line for her because she is not. Also being too intelligent for therapy is a cop out! It reminds me of a friend of mine who told her child he was too young to read and so he refused to learn. If you tell a child what will and wont work for them if they look up to you they will internalise it as truth. I am not even sure she needs therapy though to be honest but I do think that if you do not act and get the police involved you will be contributing to it I don't want to be horrible here but I really think what you are doing is not good for your child.
< Message edited by LillyoftheVally -- 8/9/2009 3:10:14 AM >
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