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BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OLD TO... - 8/11/2009 11:40:13 PM   
TexasMaam


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Status: offline 		I get so very weary of reading the tired old lambasts against 'tribute' here on these boards.

I'm usually not one to brag or boast, because I like to keep My sub's cards close to My chest, but I just had to share tonight's experience for those Dommes who are bombarded by whiney, wimpy, pathetic drips who have NO clue what it is to support the kind of woman they long to serve.

Tonight, when I entered the room where he sat cooling off from a much deserved shower, (for, you see, he'd been at My best 4ever g.friend's home fixing her AC earlier this afternoon....at his own expense...) I traipsed into the room to find a collection of 5 brand new floggers arrayed on the bed for My approval.

Long falls, short falls, thick falls, razor thin falls, heavy floggers, light and easy to handle floggers, leather handles, steel handles, split hide, full grain hide, elk hide.....each with a bite or pummel or caress all it's own.......and next to these beautiful new floggers were arranged three pyrex glass dildos for My pleasure, along with two double ended dildo's for anal/vaginal mutually satisfying penetration, next to a double set of leather paddles, one light, one heavy, ....all brand new presents just to make Me smile and to enjoy having some adult fun with WIITWD.

I still had the dog food and cattle feed in the trunk of My car that he picked up yesterday, for My/our animals, at his expense, along with money he provided for the ever skyrocketing light bill, and for groceries, that he sends Me every single month, without complaint. 

That, in addition to the funds he'd provided to help a family member who was out of a job relocate for a lifeline in a new town with a new chance at a new career. 

Not to mention the monies he contributed in July for prescriptions and copays for that elderly relative turning senile who needs medical care 24/7. 

Not to mention the new suit on My back, the hairstyle he paid for, the matching (or contrasting) shoes, or the purse, or the lingerie I'm wearing beneath today's ensemble....all gifts from My manthing.

I clasped My hands with delight at the sight of the collection of floggers on the bed, while he whispered, 'what's that fragrance You're wearing, it's wonderful?!' even though he knows full well it's the Burberry Britt he brought back from the duty free shop in Dubai just a few months ago. 

He passionately kissed my cheek and nuzzled the earlobes where his gold earrings glittered, the ones he brought back from that Dubai trip.

I touched his gold necklace, the heavyweight symbolic collar he wears to denote his service to Me, and I greedily, hungrily picked up first this flogger, then that one, and tried them out, each one in turn, on his tender skin.

He rolled his shoulders forward and stood motionless, mesmerized by the anticipation of a painful but stimulating session in the offing.

I must have orgasmed 20 times, between the floggers and paddles making me hot as melted wax and the new toys that found every g spot we could both possibly discover.

Afterwards, in a heap of exhausted bliss, he whispered to Me that the 'car deal' went through, and tells me while nuzzling My breasts that the new high-mileage-import-mini-SUV-I've-been-dreaming-of-as-the-perfect-dog-show/cattle-show/handicapped-relative-transport-vehicle has been approved and finalized and is on it's way to My door for My exclusive use and possession next week, while he makes the payments, pays the insurance, tax, title and license for Me.....

I could never thank you, manthing, for everything you do for Me, every day, in every way, to let Me know how much you care, how much you love Me, how much you appreciate and cherish our relationship.

I love you.

Thank you, from the bottom of My heart.

....and the rest of you whiney, petulant, selfish, self absorbed limpdicks can sit up and take notice of how a 'real man' pays tribute to his Domme!

That's how it's done. 

Texas Maam

....oh, and if you're some broken winged pigeon that this manthing happens to pay a compliment to online,  please,  don't email Me, just consider yourself lucky, and be sure you keep your distance.....

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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/11/2009 11:46:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		So, some Domme's are golddiggers/harlots whose time can be bought just like any other chick on craigslist erotic services.  Got it.  ;D

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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/11/2009 11:52:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		There is nothing that I can say but thank you for the tale.

I do hope the boys pay attention.


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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/11/2009 11:54:08 PM   
TexasMaam


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Status: offline 		lolol nooooooo stupid, I loved him years ago, when he couldn't, or wouldn't, (you'll have to ask him that question),  give Me flowers on Valentine's Day!

Come back to the boards when you're not stoned or drunk and re-read it, these are not the gifts of a silly man to some shallow gold digger. These are the gifts of a cave man bringing meat back to the cave, beating his chest and then laying his precious face on the breast of the woman he loves.

You, and limpdicks like you, have so very much to learn!

lololololol

TM

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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/12/2009 12:00:25 AM   
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Status: offline 		It still just reinforces the idea that to be successful and happy in life all a woman has to do is hold sexual power over a man.  It's rather disgusting if you ask me, and merely propagates the idea that some women only want a man for his annual salary.

Sorry, but bragging about all the nice little expensive "toys" someone buys you makes you look like a gold digging harlot rather then someone who claims to "love" the actual man they're with.


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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/12/2009 12:02:50 AM   
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Status: offline 		So no male in a relationship could potentially buy Me something as a gift that I might enjoy?

After eight years of marriage to MP, I'm glad he doesn't believe that.


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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/12/2009 12:04:31 AM   
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Status: offline 		lolol watch the replies and learn something.

I am so proud he takes care of Me as he does.  I want him to know and I don't give one ratz damn what you think about it.

Tell Me something, is that Mommy and Daddy's swimming pool behind you there in Canada? Or did you have a girlfriend snap a photo of you at some Condo you rented?

lolololol ni ni

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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/12/2009 12:06:06 AM   
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Status: offline 		There's a difference between that, and what TexasMaam is going on about.  Sounds like everything she owns right now that's of any value whatsoever was a "gift" to her by her pet.  I have and will go out and buy gifts, but it sounds like this is nothing more then a Sugar Daddy.

Also, that's a river. ;)

See the difference is that gifts are supposed to be nice pleasant surprises and expressions of fondness. Not an expectation in exchange for sex.  That is what makes a gift a gift, and a tribute a nice fancy way of soliciting.


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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/12/2009 12:09:52 AM   
TexasMaam


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Status: offline 		They are all gifts, precious ones at that, and all tribute.

And you're right, anything I own that I value right now has been a precious gift from him. 

He takes pride in providing, I take joy in receiving ~~with gratitude.

TM

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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/12/2009 12:11:41 AM   
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Status: offline 		Good on you both then. =)

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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/12/2009 12:11:45 AM   
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ORIGINAL: VanIsleKnight

There's a difference between that, and what TexasMaam is going on about.  Sounds like everything she owns right now that's of any value whatsoever was a "gift" to her by her pet.  I have and will go out and buy gifts, but it sounds like this is nothing more then a Sugar Daddy.

Also, that's a river. ;)

See the difference is that gifts are supposed to be nice pleasant surprises and expressions of fondness. Not an expectation in exchange for sex.  That is what makes a gift a gift, and a tribute a nice fancy way of soliciting.



There are as many different types of femdoms as there are women. For as long as I can recall, I have wanted to be a self-made, successful business woman who would not rely on a man for money, but control the money.  I'm married to a man that does not have a career, he works for me, he is a 'housewife', and I run my own business.  I have always been the one making the money and he will not be taking over the role of breadwinner.

But it's not an easy dynamic to make work. It works because I'm 10 years older than he is and when he was getting out of college I was already in my career and moving up. It also works because we do not have and will be having children, so we can live on one income comfortably.  It works because I do not have a single domestic bone in my body, but he loves to cook and is amazing in the kitchen and he keeps the house in total order.

I associate money with power.  I have always enjoyed being the woman who pays for things.  My husband, however, is NOT cheap.  He's constantly pampering me and buying things for me.  Granted, it's my money, but who cares.

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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/12/2009 12:19:48 AM   
TexasMaam


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Status: offline 		Oh yes, I made that mistake. The one where My former spouse convinced Me, even as I convinced Myself, that our separate businesses, separate accounts, and separate revenue was an independent, self reliant way of living.

I learned the hard way that two mules, hitched to two different wagons, headed two different directions, seldom arrive at the same destination at the end of the day.

Believe Me, this is a joyful, thrilling surprise, and I'm not too proud to accept his generous support with heartfelt gratitude and bliss.

I'm going to be the one to make his evenings easier (ahem, or more miserable, as the case may be... lololol), at the end of his day.  Wherever we might be.

Together.

TM

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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/12/2009 12:23:24 AM   
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Status: offline 		Hmm. Interesting.  I think I shall continue to read the responses and learn.

I think I'm a bit jaded due to the types of women I've met and see in profiles.  They project a really one-dimensional, materialistic image that frankly irritates me, even more so when they constantly find men to sucker in.

Apologies for my initial knee-jerk reaction.  My grandmother in particular is one -horror- of a woman who has gone through more men then years on this earth, and sucked each and every one of them dry.  Whenever we hear about her being with a new man we know that he's going to blow -all- of his money on her and when he's out of cash she'll just move onto the next one.  We warn him ahead of time but somehow she just manages to manipulate them into thinking we're lying or something.  She's rather good at that actually, managed to avoid the courts and legal system for decades and has gotten away with physical, emotional, and mental abuse of her kids and grandkids, and then there's my dad's ex-wife (also my elder sister's mom) who does the exact same thing.  Oh, and then there was my co-worker who used her looks and sex to lie, cheat, and steal from countless men including my boss and manipulated the -hell- out of this one poor guy who was absolutely in love with her, and she flat out told me she was just using him.

Thus, I was projecting on you TexasMaam.  For that I am sorry.

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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/12/2009 2:22:00 AM   
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Status: offline 		Thanks for sharing this...   Nothing unusual sounding to me, when a MAN really cares for and lives to serve you.
It brought a smile to my face, and a warm and fuzzy congratulatory wishes that you may enjoy one another for a very long time to come.     M

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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/12/2009 2:58:25 AM   
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Status: offline 		I loved your post TexasMaam. It was heartfelt and touching and any Lady worth anything would be THRILLED to call a man like yours her own.

I truly believe that when someone gives you something or does something as a tribute, it is a big compliment and an act of affection. Only the unworthy would miss the heartfelt emotion of what you wrote.

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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/12/2009 3:01:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		It's just sad that so many women take advantage of that and rid themselves of those loving men after their coffers run dry.

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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/12/2009 3:06:59 AM   
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Status: offline 		VIK, read your previous post. You are again projecting, and it is not helping you. 

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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/12/2009 3:11:20 AM   
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Alright.  But it seems nobody is accepting that fact that there are many, many women out there that see men as dollar bills and nice things and nothing more.  It's irritating that all a woman has to do is look hot and give good sex for a lifetime of security, and it's even more irritating that men fall for that.  I worked for what I have, and was naive enough to give "gifts" to a couple of friends of mine who decided to turn around and toss me out because it would have meant that they'd have to admit to something they didn't want to admit to.  TexasMaam and her mate are lucky and hurrah for them both.  Myself and several people that I know weren't so lucky and found ourselves as "marks" after the fact.  So, yeah. I'm a bit jaded.  They're the type of women that I'm upset with, but I suppose nobody who posted in this thread seems to know anyone at all like that.

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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/12/2009 3:14:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		Millions of male subs try to treat Mistresses like whores to be used as THEY see fit VIK. It happens across the board, not just with women.

That said, you made a nice apology and explanation, then ruined it by continuing to rant about golddiggers. Let it be.

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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/12/2009 3:18:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		PS, Maybe I've been lucky, or maybe you see every women as your grandmother. I personally have never in 48 years come across a golddigger man or woman.

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