DemonKia
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Joined: 10/13/2007 From: Chico, Nor-Cali Status: offline
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I'm with you on that one, Des, I want to be able to share most of each of our worlds with my intimate partners. Commonality of interests is important to me. & I have noticed that people who are strongly 'homosocial' outside of support structures that prescribe sex segregation do tend to have some kind of rate of 'marital problems' because of that separation . . . . . For instance, of the women I've known who have a strong 'lesbian socialness', it can be a problem in their heterosexual relationships if their men don't do 'girly' (especially if the guys they like are real 'he man' types), leaving them with a big vacuum in relatibility . . . . . . Again, it's not so much that this stuff is a deal-breaker in one direction or another, but that it increases the amount of work necessary to make the relationship sustainable, satisfactory, etc . .. . Anyways, thanks, Des. Nice conversation. I appreciate the chance to think about this stuff . .. . . .
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