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what is TPE 24/7? - 9/28/2009 3:53:19 PM   
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RE: what is TPE 24/7? - 9/28/2009 3:57:42 PM   
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When I had that question I solved it by reading this, I'll spice up the link for you:

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RE: what is TPE 24/7? - 9/28/2009 4:14:20 PM   
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TPE 24/7  - Total Power Exchange 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.

You'd have to speak with each person to work out the details

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RE: what is TPE 24/7? - 9/28/2009 4:16:06 PM   
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OK, let me make the really really simple... because, honestly it is simple. Imagine that we lived in some earlier time or different place where slavery was culturally allowed. Got it? Good. Carol is my slave.

There ya go, that's it. There is nothing more to wonder. That's exactly how I perceive her. It is how she perceives herself.

Put differently, it's what happens when you stop making special "bdsm interpretations" of the word "slave" and just go with it literally. At least, that's what it is for me and Carol.

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RE: what is TPE 24/7? - 9/28/2009 4:16:43 PM   
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RE: what is TPE 24/7? - 9/28/2009 4:24:57 PM   
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tpe/24-7 relationships are difficult to define because the consensus on what is or isn't total is heavily debated and largely dependent on what the dominant factor prefers. as such, generalities exist that may not encompass all couples. one might engage this way from a D/s, M/s, or O/p perspective. some utilize these terms interchangeably, i do not. i see marked differences between the three as they apply to my relationships.

the variations of surrender may be partial, total (as defined by the dominant), or absolute. some pairings progress towards the state of enslavement, and choose to do this externally or internally. the latter is typically referred to as internal enslavement, and has its own features and methods employed to bring this about. in regard to residence, some couples live together or may reside apart for a variety of reasons. the term couple is used loosely and may include additional partners or polygamous families.

while the methods for creating the structure will vary from person to person. most are heavily dependent on the dominant's desires, goals, long term vision, character, experience, and the quality and willingness of his submissive/slave to embrace and manifest these things as instructed. it is always a work in progress. my personal leanings are towards Owner/property relationships where absolute servitude is expected and internal enslavement is the goal.

you can find a pretty good description here:
http://www.albanypowerexchange.com/TPE/tpe24_7.htm

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RE: what is TPE 24/7? - 9/28/2009 5:00:05 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: leadership527

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ORIGINAL: OHxSLAVE
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OK, let me make the really really simple... because, honestly it is simple. Imagine that we lived in some earlier time or different place where slavery was culturally allowed. Got it? Good. Carol is my slave.

There ya go, that's it. There is nothing more to wonder. That's exactly how I perceive her. It is how she perceives herself.

Put differently, it's what happens when you stop making special "bdsm interpretations" of the word "slave" and just go with it literally. At least, that's what it is for me and Carol.


Well said brother, jolly well put.  Regards to Carol too..


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RE: what is TPE 24/7? - 9/28/2009 6:43:03 PM   
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It means that it's more than just in the bedroom, more than kinky sex.

It means that 24 hours a day, 7 days a week I am Master's slave and he is my Master. The power dynamic is present between us no matter what is going on, no matter who is around. He leads, I follow...always...no matter what.


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RE: what is TPE 24/7? - 9/28/2009 6:48:06 PM   
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When I was a collared slave, this meant that the Master who owned me and I consented to hand him control over every aspect of my life. Each waking moment was under his authority and all decisions from what time I woke in the morning until the time I had to go to sleep was his decision. This was the nature of my 24/7 TPE with my former owner.

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RE: what is TPE 24/7? - 9/28/2009 7:16:50 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: leadership527
OK, let me make the really really simple... because, honestly it is simple. Imagine that we lived in some earlier time or different place where slavery was culturally allowed. Got it? Good. Carol is my slave.

There ya go, that's it. There is nothing more to wonder. That's exactly how I perceive her. It is how she perceives herself.

Put differently, it's what happens when you stop making special "bdsm interpretations" of the word "slave" and just go with it literally. At least, that's what it is for me and Carol.


I'm sorry, I'm too busy imagining you smacking Harriet Tubman upside the head with an iron weight. How familiar are you with cultures that allow(ed) slavery and how owners viewed their chattel?

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RE: what is TPE 24/7? - 9/28/2009 8:33:30 PM   
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It is nice to imagine a different time and different socially accepted laws. That is the fantasy of role play.

The term refers to one's free choice to surrender to a very high degree to another person. It is not personal power or ongoing consent which is transfered, but rather, the authority to exercize power is delegated.

It is important to understand the distinctions between consent, power, and authority.

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RE: what is TPE 24/7? - 9/28/2009 8:48:54 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lucienne

quote:

ORIGINAL: leadership527
OK, let me make the really really simple... because, honestly it is simple. Imagine that we lived in some earlier time or different place where slavery was culturally allowed. Got it? Good. Carol is my slave.

There ya go, that's it. There is nothing more to wonder. That's exactly how I perceive her. It is how she perceives herself.

Put differently, it's what happens when you stop making special "bdsm interpretations" of the word "slave" and just go with it literally. At least, that's what it is for me and Carol.


I'm sorry, I'm too busy imagining you smacking Harriet Tubman upside the head with an iron weight. How familiar are you with cultures that allow(ed) slavery and how owners viewed their chattel?



Slaves, historically speaking, weren't treated in as across-the-board poor fashion as you would suggest, Lucienne: it wouldn't make sense from an even baseline investment standpoint.  A stupid owner treats his property poorly.
And the smacking Harriet Tuman upside the head with an iron weight comment is darkly amusing but way off-base related to the person to whom you are addressing your comment. 
  Davan


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RE: what is TPE 24/7? - 9/28/2009 9:36:15 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DavanKael

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ORIGINAL: Lucienne

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ORIGINAL: leadership527
OK, let me make the really really simple... because, honestly it is simple. Imagine that we lived in some earlier time or different place where slavery was culturally allowed. Got it? Good. Carol is my slave.

There ya go, that's it. There is nothing more to wonder. That's exactly how I perceive her. It is how she perceives herself.

Put differently, it's what happens when you stop making special "bdsm interpretations" of the word "slave" and just go with it literally. At least, that's what it is for me and Carol.


I'm sorry, I'm too busy imagining you smacking Harriet Tubman upside the head with an iron weight. How familiar are you with cultures that allow(ed) slavery and how owners viewed their chattel?



Slaves, historically speaking, weren't treated in as across-the-board poor fashion as you would suggest, Lucienne: it wouldn't make sense from an even baseline investment standpoint.  A stupid owner treats his property poorly.
And the smacking Harriet Tuman upside the head with an iron weight comment is darkly amusing but way off-base related to the person to whom you are addressing your comment. 
Davan



The fact that it is off-base is the point. I've read enough comments about Carol to know that his attitude towards his wife doesn't remotely resemble the attitude of a "literal" slave owner to their property. It's lovely that he has a relationship that makes him happy. Respecting that doesn't require me to indulge his posturing.  And what he's posturing about is "literally" quite miserable and dehumanizing to those who experience it absent the consent that exists in his relationship with Carol. Women at this very moment are being subjected to real life sexual slavery against their will. To pretend that the freely negotiated situation he enjoys with his wife is "literally" the same thing is an insult to the suffering of real victims of sexual exploitation. What is darkly amusing is the fact that if Carol were "literally" a slave, his dominant self would be in a "literal" prison.

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RE: what is TPE 24/7? - 9/28/2009 9:55:15 PM   
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Lucienne----
Your assumptions and assertions are polar and off-base. 
OP, you'll find a lot of people are rather dogmatic about their ideas and the baggage they associate with certain terms.  I am taking issue with Lucinenne doing this as well as his insulting friends of mine and judging their marital relationship. 
There are some folks on here whose words have a lot of veacity and credibility and others, not so much.  Read some posts and you will likely understand where truism lies. 
Best wishes, 
Davan

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RE: what is TPE 24/7? - 9/28/2009 10:19:06 PM   
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For my Master and I, 24/7 TPE means that He is always in the driver's seat in the relationship.  I defer to Him, I respect Him, and I honor Him and our relationship.  In turn, He loves and respects me and protects me and what we have.  While the love and respect is mutual, the one in charge is not... it is Him.

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RE: what is TPE 24/7? - 9/28/2009 10:21:06 PM   
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In addition to what little Wonder has said, It is a relationship that requires a whole lot of commitment and an enormous amount of trust, which is developed over time and alot of communication

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RE: what is TPE 24/7? - 9/28/2009 10:26:52 PM   
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Lucienne----
Your assumptions and assertions are polar and off-base. 
OP, you'll find a lot of people are rather dogmatic about their ideas and the baggage they associate with certain terms.  I am taking issue with Lucinenne doing this as well as his insulting friends of mine and judging their marital relationship. 
There are some folks on here whose words have a lot of veacity and credibility and others, not so much.  Read some posts and you will likely understand where truism lies. 
Best wishes, 
Davan


Credibility. Ha. Claiming he "literally" owns Carol is like attending a hunger banquet and claiming you have personally suffered third world poverty. I am not insulting or judging his relationship. I am taking offense at his attempt to project his role-playing onto the entire world. Despite the best efforts of some people, slavery hasn't been redefined in the real world as a pretense among consenting adults. To misrepresent it as such is deluded and/or dishonest. You can fancy yourself the Master of a slave without ignoring the reality that people really do suffer involuntary servitude (sexual and otherwise) and what you are doing is not the same thing.

And yes, I'm terribly dogmatic about trivial things like fundamental human rights. If that makes me less credible in your eyes, I can live with that. Also, lazy, polar, assumer of things off-base, I'm a woman.

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RE: what is TPE 24/7? - 9/28/2009 10:34:02 PM   
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sometimes this place is pretty friggin' hilarious.

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RE: what is TPE 24/7? - 9/28/2009 10:36:00 PM   
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Lucienne, how very complientary to yourself and your points: the foolish name-calling, very becoming.  It grieves me that we are of the same sex. 
OP: As I said, take a look around, you'll see what's worth paying attention to and what isn't  ;>
  Davan

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RE: what is TPE 24/7? - 9/28/2009 10:48:44 PM   
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Lucienne, how very complientary to yourself and your points: the foolish name-calling, very becoming.  It grieves me that we are of the same sex. 
OP: As I said, take a look around, you'll see what's worth paying attention to and what isn't  ;>
Davan


Oh, yes. Calling you lazy because you couldn't bother to figure out my gender prior to insulting me is the height of foolishness.  And it's a terrible shame you have to suffer the bearer of a vagina writing things with which you disagree. Great substantive points.

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