NihilusZero
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ORIGINAL: Lucienne No, sir, it's an intellectual disagreement. I disagree that Jeff's usage of the term literally was proper or accepted. Although someone (a strict descriptivist) accounting for every manner in which the term "slave" is used might honor the literal usage of the tiny subset of literal slavers within the tiny subset of BDSM folk, I don't think your numbers are significant enough to guarantee that. And since I believe it is a bad idea to go along with that semantic drift, I, as someone who cares about language, feel free to point out exactly what that semantic drift entails. The word describes a status of interaction. Of three main online dictionaries (Dictionary.com, Merrian-Webster and the Princeton) only one even remotely includes the concept of consent (the first introduces the word "involuntary" when delineating synonyms). Despite the predominant historical flavor of slavery, it is also not listed anywhere that the act itself has any necessary moral/emotional value as positive or negative. It is merely a description of the roles two people play in relation to one another. So, it doesn't matter if the subset of people living M/s relationships, compared to the vast amount of people who have been involved in other types of slavery since the inception of civilization until now, are far outnumbered because the prerequisites do not include needing to be part of a majority. People who are 98 years old do not cease having an "age" because of how uncommon it is for people to be 98. quote:
ORIGINAL: Lucienne You may find that odd or incurably dorky, but it isn't something driven by me me me and my feelings any more than any human action beyond reflexes could be asserted to be. It isn't a particularly emotional reaction, and it very much isn't an emotional over-reaction. The charge of emotional over-reaction is particularly strange in the context of some of the negative responses to my comments. The reason the accusation was thrown out is because you used an indirect appeal to emotion to substantiate your point, claiming that M/s partners using "slavery" as a term to describe their relationships was faulty somehow because of how it supposedly belittled the hardships of people who were victims of non-consensual slavery. quote:
ORIGINAL: Lucienne I'm making an intellectual point and some people are freaking out because my point is taken as attacking their very identity. And maybe it is. I didn't intend or anticipate it as such. Perhaps this point does have validity in some cases (I won't speak for others) but it certainly doesn't for me. Also, it is a (intentionally or not) subtly disguised argumentum ad hominem, because you're now trying to suggest that the points some people are making are questionable because you have supposedly attacked something personal to them rather than addressing the topics themselves. quote:
ORIGINAL: Lucienne But having apparently done so (challenged some people's identity), I'm not going to apologize because I strongly disagree with their literal usage of "slave" and I value my educational experience more than I value preserving their comfort or, really, my own. Just backing off at the first sign of resistance and saying "my bad!" means that I don't get all the additional information I gained by pursuing the issue. Let's play this on your court, then: Please tell us what prerequisites a true slave (in your notion of the proper terminology of the term) must have in order to actually qualify as one. Then show us which of the prerequisite(s) s-types in M/s relatonships fail to qualify for, making them linguistically inapplicable for the title. quote:
ORIGINAL: Lucienne Lastly, I don't know if the continued inability of some people, yourself included, to use the correct (female) pronoun in reference to me should be attributed to bad reading comprehension or an attempt to irritate me. I can only state that every time someone does it, it makes me giggle imagining a poster with little familiarity with french names whose only encounter with a similar sounding name (Lucian) is the movie Underworld. You guys are fucking hardcore, man. Good job. You've deduced that French is not the primary language of most of the posters here. As a bonus point scored, you've shown how inept a job I personally did at committing any grammatical rules to memory from my 5 years of studying French. Also, I do happen to own the first two Underworld movies on DVD and have yet to acquire the third to complete my collection. Feel better that you caught me and others in the horrendous faux pas of not either perving your profile to attain further insight into your gender and/or not having spent enough time and effort studying French etymology?
< Message edited by NihilusZero -- 9/30/2009 9:29:27 PM >
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