BitaTruble
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Joined: 1/12/2006 From: Texas Status: offline
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I know this flies in the face of conventional wisdom that she knows herself best, but she doesn’t, she needs the close guidance of a watchful dominant. I have to say one more thing about this, and I cut this out separately because it's been eating at me since I first read it. First, a question - are these posts meant to speak to submissives who are fairly new in D/s? As someone who has been on this path for 24 years, there is simply no one, Master included, who knows me as well as I know myself. I've been with 'me' for 46 years, active in the search of self via BDSM for 24 of those 46 years and I met Master almost 10 years ago. I will grant he knows me very, very well.. but better than I know myself? I've spent 24 hours a day 7 days a week with 'me'.. Himself does have a job, his own life and interests that are beyond the scope of BDSM and D/s and I am not the be-all end-all of his existence. Self-discovery at this point in my life comes in spurts which are few and far between and are appreciated to the nth degree when I stumble across something new of myself. On the other hand, Himself is amazed at how much he discovers of me, almost daily. The journey will never be complete for either one of us, but my own path is much further along when it comes to 'me' than his own is.. as his knowledge of 'him' is much further along than my knowledge of him. Celeste
< Message edited by BitaTruble -- 3/16/2006 12:25:09 AM >
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"Oh, so it's just like Rock, paper, scissors." He laughed. "You are the wisest woman I know."
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