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The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops wer... - 10/30/2009 9:33:55 PM

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But thank god I was gone and so was DAddy and my dad, my real one not ageplay talked to them and told them it was a huge misunderstanding I was not a victom of abuse, because we don't want him arrested just us to get therapy, and the cops seemed to be happy and left.

RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops... - 10/30/2009 9:38:01 PM

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I'm so confused.

There's a title of the thread...... And then like a continuing sentence..... and I'm just having a hard time following the post.

Imp who is totally and utterly clueless.

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RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops... - 10/30/2009 9:45:12 PM

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irish, It's what happend today after I went to get help and therapy.

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RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops... - 10/30/2009 9:47:47 PM

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Imp sorry spelled your name wrong.

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I'm so confused.

There's a title of the thread...... And then like a continuing sentence..... and I'm just having a hard time following the post.

Imp who is totally and utterly clueless.

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RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops... - 10/30/2009 9:50:17 PM

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irish, It's what happend today after I went to get help and therapy.

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SO PROUD OF YOU YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!

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RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops... - 10/30/2009 9:51:28 PM

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I just realized there are like two other threads I hadn't read that applied to this thread.

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RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops... - 10/30/2009 9:55:30 PM

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Thank you Gypsy I am so happy, I'm not scared any more or feeling alone any more because I'm getting help.

My whole famly is behind me and rootin for me feeling good again.

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went to get help and therapy.

SO PROUD OF YOU YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!

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irish, It's what happend today after I went to get help and therapy.

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RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops... - 10/31/2009 6:53:04 AM

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The cops are obligated to come out and talk to you both and make a report. There is probably a report on the call from your doctor as well as their talk with your father. I don't believe they would have arrested your guy unless there is a specific incident wherein they can prove something and have evidence to make a complaint. I am surprised however, they left at the word of your father and didn't leave a card asking you to call.

From what you have said though, you are just as abusive in nature as he is with your violent rages you have spoken about and from how you describe them i doubt it only erupts when he has somehow physically done something, but have come out against him without a physical provocation from him. So its a good thing you both are looking to get help. I would check out the DV facilities in your area, if you don't have information on them call your local State or district attorney's office and ask to speak with teh DV advocates. As far as i know, most if not all State's Attorney's offices will have these, if they don't, ask for the Victim Witness division. These are people who help people in DV type situations or potential ones they are more than likely from independent facilities that are not governmentally run but are just contracted with these agencies to help people. They will have information on meetings, counseling and things you both can do to help yourselves as well as where you may find some of this stuff for free. Also, have you both thought about entering a anger management type course?

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RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops... - 10/31/2009 7:35:01 AM

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I am surprised however, they left at the word of your father and didn't leave a card asking you to call.

This surprises me as well.

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RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops... - 10/31/2009 12:03:41 PM

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Both of you need anger management. You're too volatile, and physically fighting in the car will lead to someone dying, probably an innocent in another car.

I'm glad you're getting help. Keep at it.

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RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops... - 10/31/2009 12:56:11 PM

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There's times I haven't done much, but yes I have been bratty or tired or rude and I've pushed his buttons with my behavior, so I'm just as much a problem as he is. I do n't hit unless he's touched me first, I scream and yell and get red in the face and I start loosing my voice. I can control myself as long as nobody touches me while I am enraged, When he pinches me or pokes me or hits my hand to try to get my attention I will fly into a physical violence.

I had a course once and blew it off because we were not violent at the time, but we had been, and now I'd get the classes an not blow them off cause we need stuff like that.

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From what you have said though, you are just as abusive in nature as he is with your violent rages you have spoken about and from how you describe them i doubt it only erupts when he has somehow physically done something, but have come out against him without a physical provocation from him. So its a good thing you both are looking to get help. I would check out the DV facilities in your area, if you don't have information on them call your local State or district attorney's office and ask to speak with teh DV advocates. As far as i know, most if not all State's Attorney's offices will have these, if they don't, ask for the Victim Witness division. These are people who help people in DV type situations or potential ones they are more than likely from independent facilities that are not governmentally run but are just contracted with these agencies to help people. They will have information on meetings, counseling and things you both can do to help yourselves as well as where you may find some of this stuff for free. Also, have you both thought about entering a anger management type course?

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RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops... - 10/31/2009 1:43:46 PM

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he doesn't always do it to get my attention I mean to say he does it sometimes to try to stop the screaming.

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RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops... - 11/1/2009 7:27:49 PM

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This relationship, from what you've said across several threads and absolutely regardless of dynamics, is unsafe. People can not have a healthy relationship of any sort the baseline need for safety is not there.
You mentioned a host of issues. You may not like the directiveness of what I am about to say as you will likely perceve it as harsh but you need to take responsibility for your life.
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RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops... - 11/1/2009 7:30:40 PM

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I think I'm more worried about the poor dog.

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RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops... - 11/6/2009 12:25:07 PM

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I think you both need to grow up. You are leading an un healthy lifestyle on 2 fronts, mentally and physically.

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RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops... - 11/6/2009 3:06:24 PM

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Topping, I wonder.....when you told your doctor about this what did you imagine happening? I'm asking because you seem surprised that your doctor actually called the police. I'm also wondering why you told the doctor in the first place if you didn't want anything done.

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RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops... - 11/6/2009 8:54:02 PM

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She told her doctor because deep down, she knows that she is going down the wrong pass. My first suggestion. Get rid of "daddy". He is a bad influence. Next, go to a healthy lifestyle. No soda. No fast food.

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RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops... - 11/7/2009 8:28:00 AM

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I was imagaining she'd document it she'd tell us where to go to get help and yeah cops may come out but she told me he'd be arrested and I was terrified of him being arrested and loosing his job an then the anger would get worse. I was told by every one she could advise of of domestic anger classes an where we could get free therapy ext ect.

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Topping, I wonder.....when you told your doctor about this what did you imagine happening? I'm asking because you seem surprised that your doctor actually called the police. I'm also wondering why you told the doctor in the first place if you didn't want anything done.

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RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops... - 11/7/2009 8:29:50 AM

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me too lol/

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I think I'm more worried about the poor dog.

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RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops... - 11/7/2009 4:42:21 PM

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Ah okay, thank you Topping. Slight miscalculation, huh? How are things going with managing you tempers?

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