IronBear
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Joined: 6/19/2005 From: Beenleigh, Qld, Australia Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: slaveHIS slaveHIS is throwing this subject out for any Master to comment on. In a BDSM setting such as a munch or play party, et cetera, do you wish to be referred to sas Sir or your given name? Master received an email from the moderator of our local area group. She called Master by his given name, and Master and slaveHIS think this is wrong. In her reply email, she said it is easier for her to do this in meetings and in social gatherings, and also she indicates her Master is linient in this manner. Perhaps, she does not know it is proper etiquette. So, would you prefer to be called Sir or your given name if attending meetings or social gatherings that include munches and play parties? Primarily I prefer to be addressed politely. generaly I am addressed as either "Bear" or "Iron Bear" those non Goreans who wish to add an honorific, usualkly come up with Master or Sir and occasionally Mr. Gorean slaves will of course use Master when addressing me (Protocol). I have on one occasion been addressed by a very suprised person as Col. Sir! Whilst I am very laid back mostly, I will not tolerate rudeness or disrespect from either Free or non free (Gorean or non Gorean). a non free who becomes offensive and is collared, finds that the owner of her collar is informed poste haste in a quiet and polite manner. If th offenderod uncollared there are always Moderators who will be informed as well as theoffender is informed again quietly that I am displeased and why. If it is a Free who is offensive, they are so informed andoften enough they will leave thelocation. I'm told that when i become angered that you can see the icey chill forming and my eyes become cold, pale and souless.
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Iron Bear Master of Bruin Cottage http://www.bruincottage.org Your attitude, words & actions are yours. Take responsibility for them and the consequences they incur. D.I.L.L.I.G.A.F.
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