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sappatoti -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/5/2010 8:56:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: goalie1801 what is so negative about it? I dont know how to write profile messages. That is what I have gathered from everyone on the board to do. Find someone to help me, so that is what I put If I may add to this... Here's what I'm seeing. I see the OP (that's short for "original poster," which would be goalie1801) not wanting to take total and complete responsibility for her life, for whatever reason. Instead, she appears to be looking for that one special person who will take responsibility for both of their lives. In return, the OP is willing to give up herself to become whatever type of sub her totally controlling Dom would have her be. The advice I have seen given out, which has been stellar in my opinion, may not be appropriate for someone who appears to want to take no responsibility for themselves. It is falling on deaf ears because those freely giving out this advice is assuming the OP wants to take full responsibility for her life and personal safety. It is mismatched at best and possibly futile and frustrating everyone involved. If the OP truly wants to give herself up entirely to her perfect Dom, she needs to be getting advice from others who have walked the same path. Precisely the same path, as in not being responsible for themselves. As far as I know, no others here on this site match that skill set so precisely as to be able to give the OP the advice she obviously needs. I'm at a loss as to where such submissives can be found in real life. I've only found them as characters in fantasy and fiction. Just my less than stellar thoughts.

goalie1801 -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/5/2010 8:58:03 AM)
Well I dont webcam until after meeting face to face and that still a big maybe. And what I am suppose to say ... 'Hey sub girls does anyone want to help one out and in learning how to be a good sub."

VirginPotty -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/5/2010 9:00:35 AM)
That's pretty much what you're saying here/in your profile. I'd delete the woeisme "why isn't anyone writing me" entry. Sounds very pathetic.

LaTigresse -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/5/2010 9:02:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: goalie1801 Well I dont webcam until after meeting face to face and that still a big maybe. And what I am suppose to say ... 'Hey sub girls does anyone want to help one out and in learning how to be a good sub." Okay, now you've just shown me how dense you really are........my last nice straw just broke. Go check all the dark blue emails in your in box and believe every damned thing they say. Even a few of the brand new pink ones because guaranfuckintee there are a few wily fellas that saw that angle too. Trust every fuckin thing they write you. Go meet the ones that actually want to meet because you are just begging for whatever crazy hell they have planned. A clue by four to the head won't help you one damned bit. It would only break the board.

goalie1801 -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/5/2010 9:02:50 AM)
quote: Here's what I'm seeing. I see the OP (that's short for "original poster," which would be goalie1801) not wanting to take total and complete responsibility for her life, for whatever reason. How do I do this? What is this?

sappatoti -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/5/2010 9:03:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: goalie1801 Well I dont webcam until after meeting face to face and that still a big maybe. Do you even realize how backwards thinking that is? Do you? Webcams provide a layer of personal, physical security that you do not have nor cannot get in a physical face-to-face meeting. What you meant by that is that you are willing to go meet with someone, and possibly risk physical harm, in order to figure out if the person is safe enough to talk online with by way of a video connection. That's just plain backwards, to me.

LaTigresse -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/5/2010 9:05:34 AM)
[sm=banghead.gif]

CarrieO -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/5/2010 9:05:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: goalie1801 Well I dont webcam until after meeting face to face and that still a big maybe. And what I am suppose to say ... 'Hey sub girls does anyone want to help one out and in learning how to be a good sub." Stop worrying about being a "good sub" and focus on becoming a mature confidant woman that could be appealing to the right man, if having a partner is your goal. There isn't a rule book that tells you what makes a good submissive. The sooner you accept that, the better. Like the sig line says...This really isn't rocket science.

LaTigresse -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/5/2010 9:06:39 AM)
Apparently to some, it really is.

CarrieO -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/5/2010 9:07:33 AM)
The more time I spend here...the more I'm starting to realize that[8\|]

juliaoceania -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/5/2010 9:08:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: goalie1801 quote: Here's what I'm seeing. I see the OP (that's short for "original poster," which would be goalie1801) not wanting to take total and complete responsibility for her life, for whatever reason. How do I do this? What is this? I am beginning to think that this entire thing is a charade... I am done here

sappatoti -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/5/2010 9:08:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: goalie1801 quote: Here's what I'm seeing. I see the OP (that's short for "original poster," which would be goalie1801) not wanting to take total and complete responsibility for her life, for whatever reason. How do I do this? What is this? You are doing this with every word you type and post. Your words are not coming from one who is wanting to take responsibility for their life. Your words are sounding like those of my six year old niece, who wants everyone to do everything for her. If you cannot see this, then perhaps LaT's clue by four needs to be made of sturdier material... though I really doubt that it would help.

VirginPotty -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/5/2010 9:10:15 AM)
She's either the dumbest bimbette on the planet or....<GASP> [sm=runaway.gif]a troll! Eta, JULIA!! Wait for meeeeeeeee [image]http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/18/18_3_110.gif[/image]

Jeffff -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/5/2010 9:11:04 AM)
And this isn't near as funny as the "No fattie dry cleaner" Jeff

LaTigresse -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/5/2010 9:11:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: ORIGINAL: goalie1801 quote: Here's what I'm seeing. I see the OP (that's short for "original poster," which would be goalie1801) not wanting to take total and complete responsibility for her life, for whatever reason. How do I do this? What is this? I am beginning to think that this entire thing is a charade... I am done here I agree because I cannot imagine that age, with all their faculties, being so effing stupid.

LaTigresse -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/5/2010 9:12:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff And this isn't near as funny as the "No fattie dry cleaner" Jeff Hey yeah!! I take it the arabian nights guy imploded?

sappatoti -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/5/2010 9:12:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VirginPotty She's either the dumbest bimbette on the planet or....<GASP> [sm=runaway.gif]a troll! Then this be a job for Super Slurpy! Where, oh where could he be?

xxblushesxx -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/5/2010 9:13:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sappatoti quote: ORIGINAL: goalie1801 Well I dont webcam until after meeting face to face and that still a big maybe. Do you even realize how backwards thinking that is? Do you? Webcams provide a layer of personal, physical security that you do not have nor cannot get in a physical face-to-face meeting. What you meant by that is that you are willing to go meet with someone, and possibly risk physical harm, in order to figure out if the person is safe enough to talk online with by way of a video connection. That's just plain backwards, to me. Nah ah. She's talking cam not talk on cam...know what I mean?

LaTigresse -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/5/2010 9:13:43 AM)
I just wish that whoever created this thread for a joke had told me before I used up all my good deeds, niceness, stuff for the week.....

goalie1801 -> RE: How to get a Dom? (2/5/2010 9:14:09 AM)
I have had a guy record the cam conversation and share it. That is why I wont do it until afterwards. I am being honest with you all in my responses...I dont understand or just looking for more explaination on things is that so bad?

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