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RE: Shaved - 2/6/2010 8:52:18 PM

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Been a la naturale, shaved, trimmed, and points in between. Makes no difference to me one way or another, although I usually compromise on trimmed (mainly because nilla man isn't into the shaved looked).

You could consider making it a point of negotiation- he wants you bare, he keeps you in wax jobs, eliminates the shaving bump/ingrown hair problem.

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RE: Shaved - 2/6/2010 9:19:34 PM

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ORIGINAL: CNJDom
It is rumored that some lesbians of a more rugged nature, often decide that NOT shaving their pubes and pits, provides a more "masculine" demeanor not only in their personal feelings, but also in their physio-psycho-social behavior in interacting with others.

Butch queer women aren't the only ones who don't shave. I'm pretty femme -- at most, I have an andro-butch streak -- and I only shave my pits because the hair's itchy and tends to drop sweat in uncomfortable places if I don't. I only shave my legs in the summertime because of issues with dry skin (shaved skin absorbs moisturizer slightly more effectively). My girlfriend is femme-er than me, and she shaves her legs when she feels like it, which is once in a blue moon. Neither of us shave anything else. We feel it's a lot of trouble for very little benefit, plus there's the whole troublesome bowing-to-pressure-from-a-patriarchal-society thing.

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RE: Shaved - 2/6/2010 9:23:44 PM

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You just completely ruined all my chauvinistic lesbian sex scene fantasies about you and your cute GF by telling me it's really a furfest.

Thanks a lot!!!

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RE: Shaved - 2/6/2010 9:37:40 PM

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You just completely ruined all my chauvinistic lesbian sex scene fantasies about you and your cute GF by telling me it's really a furfest.

Thanks a lot!!!

All my past girl subs and I shaved all but a little patch. Feel better now? ;-)

- LA

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RE: Shaved - 2/6/2010 10:29:50 PM

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You are always the helpful and friendly Domme!

Maybe found a kind of Domme Scouts?

HWK
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RE: Shaved - 2/6/2010 10:38:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

You just completely ruined all my chauvinistic lesbian sex scene fantasies about you and your cute GF by telling me it's really a furfest.

Thanks a lot!!!

Always happy to oblige! *g*

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RE: Shaved - 2/7/2010 3:02:01 AM

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

You just completely ruined all my chauvinistic lesbian sex scene fantasies about you and your cute GF by telling me it's really a furfest.

Thanks a lot!!!

All my past girl subs and I shaved all but a little patch. Feel better now? ;-)

- LA

"a little patch"

. . . OMG, not Hilter’s mustache.
How can you focus on blowing a woman when you know it looks like you’re kissing Hitler?

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RE: Shaved - 2/7/2010 6:06:53 AM

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

You just completely ruined all my chauvinistic lesbian sex scene fantasies about you and your cute GF by telling me it's really a furfest.

Thanks a lot!!!

All my past girl subs and I shaved all but a little patch. Feel better now? ;-)

- LA

"a little patch"

. . . OMG, not Hilter’s mustache.
How can you focus on blowing a woman when you know it looks like you’re kissing Hitler?

Oh gosh no!!! Did I say 'stache? No. Not a Hitler 'stache! Ewww.. I said patch! A triangular patch. Come on! ;-)

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RE: Shaved - 2/7/2010 7:21:30 AM

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I prefer shaved, I enjoy the ritual of it, the looked and the added skin exposure. My privates are also shaved. Has nothing to do pre-pubescence to me. I prefer mature woman 30+ myself. LM

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RE: Shaved - 2/7/2010 7:25:24 AM

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Why is a naked pussy a MUST in any relationship? Every Dom i talk to insist that I be shaved.
What is it about having a hairless pussy? If it was meant to be hairless God would have made it that way.
Am i wrong in thinking that maybe they have a wish to be with a girl who has not reached puberty?
Im just trimmed nice and short...wont get any hairs stuck in your teeth if you go down on me.
We dont ask our Masters to be clean shaven do we? We accept them with their overgrown jungle and we still suck them off.

Evidently you don't eat much pussy. so hint, I prefer my floss come from the dentist.

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RE: Shaved - 2/7/2010 8:43:51 AM

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I myself dont ike the shaved look, I like women to look like woman not little girls. But each to his own. alwis go slow and be safe.

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RE: Shaved - 2/7/2010 12:20:15 PM

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I much prefer being shaved, to me it's much cleaner. For some strange reason this hasn't come up with Master Tim, although I have come to him freshly shaved so I assume it's what he likes.....certainly he hasn't objected

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RE: Shaved - 2/7/2010 12:58:24 PM

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Maybe some of those who "insist" on shaving should listen to the first of the Vagina Monologues.

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RE: Shaved - 2/8/2010 2:50:57 AM

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FR~
anybody who has the same hairdo all the time... or insist on it the same always... is very boring or obsessed in my opinion... i vote for freedom and diversity, be adventurous and go for a change every so often... it is refreshing....
at the moment i am growing mine... i aim for little pigtails

last week i saw a lady in the changing rooms in the swimming pool who had all the top shaved off but a big black hairy bush below on her lips... it looked topsy turfy... strangely interesting...

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RE: Shaved - 2/8/2010 4:21:06 AM

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i started shaving when i was owned because He desired it. i was always annoyed at the trouble it took to do it because i do get ingrown hairs and bumps no matter what i have tried and what methods i have used. But when i asked to be released and found myself unowned, i continued to shave. .

Even before i came into the lifestyle, i kept it closely trimmed especially during hot weather. It was cooler and easier to keep clean and fresh without the wild bush, especially during my period.

Besides, it does itch when it grows back in!

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RE: Shaved - 2/8/2010 8:49:42 AM

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quote:

so mote it be.

Amen to that!

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RE: Shaved - 3/25/2010 3:16:13 PM

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Personally, I prefer shaved. But its not a "YOU MUST BE" thing, at least with me.

But the reason I prefer shaved is multifold.

First, I just love the look. To see the lips, the folds, the clit, the wet flesh without any covering...delicious. Trimmed close works, too. But if she's open to it, I prefer to have her shaven. But in all fairness, I'm shaven, too. My former girlfriend was "natural" when we first started dating. One day, I joked about her shaving. She was like "WHAT?" We talked about it for a little while and she agreed to let me shave her. And that leads me to the next point...

Second, I think the sex is a whole lot better. Its bare flesh to bare flesh. The sensations are much more intense, in my opinion, when its skin on skin during sex. That first time after I'd shaven her, she was shocked at how much more she felt during intercourse. How she could feel me against her, especially after she was really wet and had me quite slicked up as well.

Third, I am a very oral person. I love getting blowjobs and I LOVE EATING PUSSY! And that is just so much better when you don't have hair in the way, let alone having to pick it out of your teeth if its falling out. And my former girlfriend agreed when she would go down on me. So we stayed clean.

With respect to a Dom specifically, it could be many reasons. Wax play comes to mind. In some respects, hair can act as a "cushion" and when a Dom is flogging/cropping, etc her pussy, it could change the impact ever so slightly...making shaven, especially when wet a little more "impactful."

Then there is the aspect of specifically taking time before your meeting to "prepare yourself." The sub taking time, before hand, to get ready for the night, her Master or Mistress and the mental preparation that she will be doing through contemplation as she shaves.

Those are the thoughts I had. The first points were of my own experience. The others being speculation.

Of course, this is just my opinion...

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RE: Shaved - 3/25/2010 6:22:55 PM

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I can shave my pits in minutes with no ill effects. Well, unless you include the time I shaved them and then had freeze spray applied to them 2 hours later.

Shaving the coochiesnorter? A whole different story. I tried all the tricks and none of them prevented evil bumps and rashes. So those who like it close and velvety smooth have to settle for real close and not velvety smooth (beard trimmer set on 0). Or just trimmed at 1 or 2.

I do like trimmed ball hair on men, but don't ask for shaving.

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RE: Shaved - 3/25/2010 6:29:09 PM

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I don't mind hair-it gives me something to yank out when peeling the wax off.

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RE: Shaved - 3/25/2010 7:30:00 PM

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~Fast Reply~
Before my involvement in bdsm, none of the 'nilla men i was with cared one way or the other. Enter bdsm and only one Man (a switch actually) ever told He preferred it neatly trimmed or natural. He said it's nice for a change when most of them out there are bare. Master Sir insists on bare and NOOOOOO stubble or punishment is forthcoming. i'm bi, and i have to say that i prefer not to floss when i'm eating pussy.

~kitten~

~editing for spelling~

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