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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/14/2010 1:56:41 PM

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...she wants to put things other than poo in my butthole.

Why the fuck would anybody want to put poo in your butthole? Those things are designed to be operated in the other direction. Never mind, I don't think I actually want to know if somebody somewhere is masturbating to this.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/14/2010 4:51:30 PM

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Is this a bad time to ask for "Buy one, get one free ?"

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/14/2010 6:24:21 PM

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mikeyofGeorgia, I'm a little puzzled/confused. It's not *impossible* to find someone who is both a pro-Domme and a lifestyle Domme and be able to get involved with her for either a relationship or free casual play, but it does seem fairly unlikely, and booking a session and expecting it to be free is downright odd. Wouldn't it make more sense to seek out women who don't charge in the first place, or at least attending lifestyle events where no pro-Domination is allowed to take place? I've played with two pro-switches for free. One is a good friend of mine who I met through vanilla circumstances, who was engaged to her Dominant and had a live in male-submissive. We were friends well before she started working there part-time, and we played at her home, not at her workplace. The other was at a major BDSM event - I had planned to play with someone, and she also asked him to play, and he had a DM shift. So, the three of us got together that morning and hung out and talked throughout the day, and did a scene with the three of us rather than trying to squish in both back-to-back. I'm not at all interested in pay-for-play, on either side of the coin. I'd never have gone to their respective workplaces and expected a freebie - they were on company time there, and needed to either earn their fees.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/15/2010 3:53:38 AM

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you make a very good point. there are plenty of fabulous lifestyle dommes out there who dont charge- so why deal with me if you dont want to pay for a session? i'm a bit lost on the logic for that one.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/15/2010 4:35:04 AM

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Cuz he's a cheap guy with an entitlement problem and wants to mask it all under the veil of "submission".

Just sayin...

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/15/2010 7:37:51 AM

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entitlement? never heard that one before. not saying you're wrong...i just never heard it.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/15/2010 7:43:28 PM

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No, it sounds like they are selling pussy.

i knew it!!!

The wonderful thing about pussy: you sell it and you still got it.

You guys have me lmao.....thank you.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/15/2010 7:45:15 PM

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No, it sounds like they are selling pussy.

i knew it!!!

The wonderful thing about pussy: you sell it and you still got it.

You guys have me lmao.....thank you.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/15/2010 7:53:52 PM

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*FREE* would be nice (provided their heart is truly into it)

**Edited for spelling**

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/15/2010 7:55:53 PM

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*FREE* would be nice (provided their hear is truly into it)

And now all I hear is "CHEAP"

CHEAP is better than PROSTITUTE...don't you think?

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/15/2010 7:58:03 PM

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No, it sounds like they are selling pussy.

i knew it!!!

The wonderful thing about pussy: you sell it and you still got it.

You guys have me lmao.....thank you.

The original Horn of Plenty, without the fruit.

For the right price....you can have your fruit and eat it too.

I'm fairly certain any activity for fee involving sex organs would be considered prostitution. It is legal in Nevada, not in MD. That said, if I were a pro-domme in any other state I would definitely NOT offer organ service.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/15/2010 8:02:40 PM

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mikeyofGeorgia, I'm a little puzzled/confused. It's not *impossible* to find someone who is both a pro-Domme and a lifestyle Domme and be able to get involved with her for either a relationship or free casual play, but it does seem fairly unlikely, and booking a session and expecting it to be free is downright odd. Wouldn't it make more sense to seek out women who don't charge in the first place, or at least attending lifestyle events where no pro-Domination is allowed to take place? I've played with two pro-switches for free. One is a good friend of mine who I met through vanilla circumstances, who was engaged to her Dominant and had a live in male-submissive. We were friends well before she started working there part-time, and we played at her home, not at her workplace. The other was at a major BDSM event - I had planned to play with someone, and she also asked him to play, and he had a DM shift. So, the three of us got together that morning and hung out and talked throughout the day, and did a scene with the three of us rather than trying to squish in both back-to-back. I'm not at all interested in pay-for-play, on either side of the coin. I'd never have gone to their respective workplaces and expected a freebie - they were on company time there, and needed to either earn their fees.

Just as odd as it is for people to go out and pay for something that they can find elsewhere...FOR FREE!!! Imagine that...you don't actually HAVE to pay for it. What a novel concept...huh?

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/15/2010 8:13:59 PM

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I was a pro and never did anything at all for less than one hundred,. My usual rate was 150 - 200 an hour but (I have made up to 400 an hour those were few and far between). He had it good! I never let them in my pants or bra for oral or anything either, I was too scared of prostitution charges. If I wanted them to touch me in any way in my more intimate places I made them personal slaves instead of customers. If you ask me you should raise your price a bit.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/15/2010 8:16:26 PM

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*FREE* would be nice (provided their hear is truly into it)

And now all I hear is "CHEAP"

CHEAP is better than PROSTITUTE...don't you think?

No one is telling you "you have to pay for it." What's being said is, everyone knows you're lonely and unhappy about it. Everyone already knows you don't want to pay a Pro-Domme and have nothing constructive or even entertaining to add here. Why must you come and repeat the same, "please give it to me for free" line. You and Kevin are not gonna get it for free and one of these days you'll both realize that there is a financial commitment that goes along with the physical and emotional commitment to being a servant. You may not pay by the hour for it but you will pay and you will pay financially far more than if you were just getting a session because Dommes don't look for broke, lame guys who want to be pampered or taken care of as servant material. That is your free clue for the day.

Secondly, no "cheap" sounds like "entitlement" to me. "Prostitute" sounds like a person willing to go out and earn what they want and deserve rather than sit around and complain about not having it. I've always found myself enjoying the social company of a sex worker (or prostitute) far more than the company of a cheap bastard. For some reason, I'm sure I'm not the only one.

Just hoping to clarify.

Have a good night.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/15/2010 8:20:27 PM

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What's being said is, everyone knows you're lonely and unhappy about it. Everyone already knows you don't want to pay a Pro-Domme and have nothing constructive or even entertaining to add here. Why must you come and repeat the same, "please give it to me for free" line.

#1. i am not lonely or unhappy...i have a lovely vanilla gf.
#2. even if i were excessively wealthy, i wouldn't pay for it...also, i am not talking about what i want or don't want...i'm merely stating that fools pay for such things

{hence the term: "A fool and his money are soon parted}

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/15/2010 10:11:30 PM

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It's well known that Hollywood celebrities (most famously Hugh Grant and Charlie Sheen) make regular use of escort services. They aren't paying for sex. They are paying for a lack of complications after sex. These are men who can get sex anytime they want. But lawsuits, stories sold to tabloids, etc., are a big hassle. A prostitute does a job and leaves.

Many clients of escort services are financially successful and highly intelligent. You may choose to criticize their morals, but calling them "fools" makes you look ignorant.

Beyond that, there's something else I'd like to say. I have told only a few women in my life that I loved them. One fled her house at a young age, afraid for her life, and became an escort for a while in order to survive on her own and get a stable apartment. She had a different career by the time I met her, but I won't say which, because people who follow my posts might figure out a little too much. The important thing is that I've loved a woman who at one time was a prostitute. However, I have never allowed a cheap son of a bitch into my circle of friends. Cheap is selfish, cheap is uncaring, and cheap is ugly. I want it nowhere near me.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/15/2010 11:53:29 PM

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I'm not sure why people think your title is misleading -- I understood it right away. People here are sure fickle!

However, I do have a problem with your profile because I don't see where you indicate you are a pro. That kind of crap makes me real angry but that's one of the reasons I ignore all young women on this site. If they are young and beautiful they are pros. Instead of wasting our time you should put some code words into your profile that indicates you want to be paid. We will get the message.

So, let's talk about money. You are truly beautiful and I have no doubt you are very good at what you do. Your rates seem steep to me because the economy is lousy. It's just your bad luck that when you are physically at your most marketable the customers can't buy the product.

If you find that guys are constantly trying to bid your prices down, and you are lacking for johns, then you should lower rates. Like it or not the economy will determine how much you can charge.

I have said many times on CM that prodommes are charging far too much considering that men just don't have that kind of cash to throw around anymore. They are just not being realistic thinking that men are going to pay as much as they used to. Not only is the economy working against you there is another problem you have to deal with -- IMMIGRATION! The fact is that millions of young women are coming into the U.S. both legally and illegally. They will gladly underbid you for the business. Sex like anything else is priced by the laws of supply and demand.

Like it or not, a hot young immigrant babe probably got used to the idea that her services were worth $10 in her homeland (and that is probably when she was in peak demand at age 12). If she gets $30 now she will be happy and you will be out of luck. American females are used to a lifestyle that they aren't going to be able to support by selling sex or adult services. It's just the same deal for textile workers, engineers, or whatever. Blame all of this on globalism if you want, but it's real and it's not going away.

Of course the Victorians on this site have pilloried me for saying such things, so I understand your frustration about how judgmental they are. They are the ones that have never cheated on a spouse, never sold their bodies, and well ... you get my point.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/15/2010 11:59:04 PM

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Just as odd as it is for people to go out and pay for something that they can find elsewhere...FOR FREE!!! Imagine that...you don't actually HAVE to pay for it. What a novel concept...huh?

As usual, you miss the point. Nothing is free in this life, albeit the "price" may not be thought of in that way, or have anything to do with money. That said, if you know of a place where 'do-me' subs can get their cbt, strapon play, feminization, and scat fantasies filled FOR FREE, please post it, as I think most of the Ladies here would welcome the reprieve.

Face it- for those male subs who want to be 'dominated' only on their terms, and only in the ways that get their rocks off, the "price" is likely to include a $.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/16/2010 12:06:19 AM

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CHEAP is better than PROSTITUTE...don't you think?

No, I don't think so. The fact that you consider it better says a whole lot more about you than about any prostitute or prodomme.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/16/2010 12:10:44 AM

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At the risk of a Modspank... who the hell moved the rock you were hiding under, az? Your assumptions about female immigrants are disgusting.

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