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ORIGINAL: mikeyOfGeorgia

Just as odd as it is for people to go out and pay for something that they can find elsewhere...FOR FREE!!! Imagine that...you don't actually HAVE to pay for it. What a novel concept...huh?

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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

At the risk of a Modspank... who the hell moved the rock you were hiding under, az? Your assumptions about female immigrants are disgusting. 

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What assumptions?

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ORIGINAL: ReginaMirus

Bottom line...if you wanna play, it's gonna COST you something...

Your time, your devotion, your allegiance, your skills, your facilities, your heart, soul and spirit.
Or for those of you who don't really want to, or can't make such of an investment because you're owned by someone else (ie. married)...

...your money.

NO ONE, I repeat NO ONE does this for free. NO ONE does this "out of the goodness of her heart". It will COST you something, otherwise, there's nothing in it for us.

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

It's well known that Hollywood celebrities (most famously Hugh Grant and Charlie Sheen) make regular use of escort services.  They aren't paying for sex.  They are paying for a lack of complications after sex.  These are men who can get sex anytime they want.  But lawsuits, stories sold to tabloids, etc., are a big hassle.  A prostitute does a job and leaves.

Many clients of escort services are financially successful and highly intelligent.  You may choose to criticize their morals, but calling them "fools" makes you look ignorant.

Beyond that, there's something else I'd like to say.  I have told only a few women in my life that I loved them.  One fled her house at a young age, afraid for her life, and became an escort for a while in order to survive on her own and get a stable apartment.  She had a different career by the time I met her, but I won't say which, because people who follow my posts might figure out a little too much.  The important thing is that I've loved a woman who at one time was a prostitute.  However, I have never allowed a cheap son of a bitch into my circle of friends.  Cheap is selfish, cheap is uncaring, and cheap is ugly.  I want it nowhere near me.

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ORIGINAL: Andalusite

mikey, like I said, I don't pay for it, and don't charge for it. I *do* currently have a rather casual playpartner interaction with someone who isn't my girlfriend, but she *is* my friend. We hang out and do vanilla stuff together as well, she's intelligent and fun! You say you have a vanilla girlfriend, but does she know and approve of your BDSM activities and desires? My playpartner is married, and I'm in a relationship with my Master, so *all four* of us met up and talked things over before we did anything together. Lots of people engage in this without any money being exchanged, but not at Pro-Dommes' places of business! A friend of mine might help me with my car for free, even if he's a professional mechanic, but I'd still expect to pay if I went to an auto repair shop. If *you* can get it for free, and your girlfriend is fine with that, go for it! If she's not ok with it, you're a liar and a cheater. If you can't get it for free, whining about it won't make you more attractive to anyone.

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Just as odd as it is for people to go out and pay for something that they can find elsewhere...FOR FREE!!! Imagine that...you don't actually HAVE to pay for it. What a novel concept...huh?

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ORIGINAL: azjojoba

If they are young and beautiful they are pros.

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ORIGINAL: thishereboi

Is that the same line you use, when you are trying to explain why it's better to go to her house and have her cook for you, than take her out to a nice restaurant? 

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

This line alone is an insult to the many beautiful young women on this board. Most of your posts come across as an insult to women in general.

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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious


If I can interject as someone young and good-looking (sorry if that sounds arrogant but I can get back-up from people on the boards who've met me, if you want independent corroboration...)

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ORIGINAL: MissAsylum

been in a situation recently that has got me wondering(not second guessing- just wondering)- are my rates for ProDomme sessions too high?  Don't know. i'm entering my 3rd year of the art of domination and for certain things, i charge a certain amount. feet- $75/hour (you charge $75.00 an hour for feet ????  I have feet...I don't charge anything for feet!!!!  What the hell do you do for "feet"????  What does that mean????), oral on me-$100  (I charge nothing for oral on me), strap on- $150/hour (I actually pay for that....life must be good), the list goes on, and for combinations (combination's) of things i combine the prices and take like 15 dollars off (I give a Starbucks coupon...but then again, I'm inordinately generous). keeping that in mind, a wanna-be client told me that i was charging way too much and he kind find prettier girls for less(that made me laugh to be honest)...at least you're honest, and tried to hound/pressure me (bastage) into dropping the price for strap on and to give me oral to 100 for both. so for those who have dabble(d) in ProDomme(ones who are pro and ones who have gone to a pro) what do you think? was he just trying to get his fantasy off for cheap or am i being to pricey?