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RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? - 6/13/2010 10:31:16 AM

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Thank you fopr your final comment.

Careful JhonDean, you might be moved to that mind control thread if this works.

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RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? - 6/13/2010 10:33:50 AM

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Ya know what else is interesting LadyH? i wasn't aware he started this thread, or as a mod, had the authority to declare a thread as dead. But i do believe the male art of "peacocking" is alive and well.

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RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? - 6/13/2010 10:40:23 AM

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Careful JhonDean, you might be moved to that mind control thread if this works.

I need only make a few more comments to insure the threads longevity, perhaps 45 pages even. However, that is not my intent.

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RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? - 6/13/2010 10:44:06 AM

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Careful JhonDean, you might be moved to that mind control thread if this works.

I need only make a few more comments to insure the threads longevity, perhaps 45 pages even. However, that is not my intent.

To do that one might have to bring up male on male cock sucking, as I believe that was the longest thread ever to grace the mistress board. Surprisingly or not, it won out over all the professional dominatrix and scammer threads.

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RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? - 6/13/2010 10:47:31 AM

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Careful JhonDean, you might be moved to that mind control thread if this works.

I need only make a few more comments to insure the threads longevity, perhaps 45 pages even. However, that is not my intent.

To do that one might have to bring up male on male cock sucking, as I believe that was the longest thread ever to grace the mistress board. Surprisingly or not, it won out over all the professional dominatrix and scammer threads.

Actually a tribute thread when 9 pages longer.

In my experience on the boards with JhonDean is that if you ask him the tough questions, he's bound to disappear.

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RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? - 6/13/2010 10:56:04 AM

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So a cock sucking thread lost out to a tribute thread? WTH is wrong with the world? We found something more important to the male than their cock? Is this what I am hearing? I feel faint. My world has been rocked and I can't... um... breath!

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RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? - 6/13/2010 11:10:05 AM

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The fact that the tribute and cock-sucking threads stretched for many pages might, just possibly, have had some small thing to do with women having had an interest in both subjects, Lockit.

I feel that I should also point out, re

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We found something more important to the male than their cock?

- We men don't just have one cock that we pass from one to the other, when its use is required. We have one each!

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RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? - 6/13/2010 11:12:57 AM

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LOL Oh hush up Peon! You know I was being my typical sarcastic self! Don't call me on my shit! I'm dominant damn it!

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RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? - 6/13/2010 11:13:51 AM

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In my experience on the boards with JhonDean is that if you ask him the tough questions, he's bound to disappear.

Or elects to not enter into your head game, unlike Locket, it is easy to see the hidden agenda in your game.

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RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? - 6/13/2010 11:14:40 AM

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And yours as well, Jhon.

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RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? - 6/13/2010 11:15:31 AM

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In my experience on the boards with JhonDean is that if you ask him the tough questions, he's bound to disappear.

Or elects to not enter into your head game, unlike Locket, it is easy to see the hidden agenda in your game.

Oh God Lockit! He knows about your Cereal Box Top Plan! Run for the hills!

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RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? - 6/13/2010 11:17:32 AM

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the amount of work it takes to sculpt the body and years of disciplined commitment required are not the product of an attempting to attracting a woman. Neither is the countless dollars spent in apparel and grooming.

That isn't my experience with men at all (whether or not they are submissive). I've generally dated men who were reasonably fit and took care of themselves. Most (regardless of D/s inclinations) were willing to make some changes if I requested them, though (working out more often, trimming hair, stuff like that).

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RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? - 6/13/2010 11:17:34 AM

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Hey! What the hell just happened? I'm going Lucy Ricardo on dementia with this one! hehe

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RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? - 6/13/2010 11:18:41 AM

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Of course you're dominant. You will forever remain the rocket in my pocket, Lockit!

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RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? - 6/13/2010 11:20:41 AM

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Of course you're dominant. You will forever remain the rocket in my pocket, Lockit!

Oh damn... I better check my batteries!

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RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? - 6/13/2010 11:29:28 AM

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RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? - 6/13/2010 12:14:42 PM

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I made no comment in reference to my standards; my comment referenced your arrogance. Men sculpt their bodies and groom themselves based on their own preferences and that has nothing to do with you.

The men I personally own sculpt their bodies and groom themselves to please me, because I own them. That's part of my criteria for being in a D/s relationship. As a human being, let alone a dominant, I have the right to set personal standards for deciding who I want to date, play with or collar. A man who is willing to work hard to sculpt and groom to please me meets those standards. One who isn't, doesn't.

I don't date men who do not feel highly motivated to be pleasing and attractive for me. Duuh, I'm a dominant, and this is my kink. Nor do I want someone in my life who does not willingly choose to join me in workouts and exercise and healthy eating, because those things are an integral part of how I live. Someone who wasn't comfortable with those things simply would not fit well into my life. For starters, we could never eat together, because I refuse to watch someone snack on a cheeseburger while I pop another can of tuna or a whey protein shake. That is really no fun at all, so I only date other conscientious eaters and exercisers who make healthy choices.

I respect the choices that other adults make for their personal lives, and I expect my own choices to be respected also. What other people do is entirely their own business. You can bugger off and do something totally different if you want to. I don't care. But you aren't allowed to call it arrogance unless you believe nobody should have any personal standards or requirements for dating. That isn't even true of vanilla women, let alone dominant women.

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RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? - 6/13/2010 12:15:24 PM

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In my experience on the boards with JhonDean is that if you ask him the tough questions, he's bound to disappear.

Or elects to not enter into your head game, unlike Locket, it is easy to see the hidden agenda in your game.

Except that I'm not playing any games. I don't approach D/s from a passive aggressive perspective, but rather a healthy and balanced one. I don't hold contempt for submissive men nor am I looking to create strife where there isn't any.

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RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? - 6/13/2010 12:25:56 PM

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An interesting attempt to keep the thread alive but in answer to your question, the amount of work it takes to sculpt the body and years of disciplined commitment required are not the product of an attempting to attracting a woman. Neither is the countless dollars spent in apparel and grooming. Nor does deeply held convictions and self-respect find their root in someone else.

Poll a gym full of male bodybuilders as to why they do it, and I guarantee that "sexual attractiveness" is going to score pretty high on their list of motivations. Some do have motivations that have nothing to do with women, of course - some of them are gay.

It's not the only reason to get fit by any means, but it's a significant motivator. And more specifically, the kind of submissive I personally want to date is dedicated to working hard to be an attractive sex object *for me*. He wants to be my eye candy, and he's willing to bust his ass in the gym and in the salon to do it. If you don't want to do those things, that's your business and I don't care, but I also don't want to date you.

If you're really unfit and unattractive, most likely neither does anyone else unless there are other compensations. Said compensations can be in the form of admirable intellect, sparkling wit and interesting personality. If you have none of those things, then we're right back to your probably needing to pay for a date. Welcome to life in the real world, where women have standards and men do have to put some effort into meeting them.

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RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? - 6/13/2010 12:34:14 PM

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That isn't my experience with men at all (whether or not they are submissive). I've generally dated men who were reasonably fit and took care of themselves. Most (regardless of D/s inclinations) were willing to make some changes if I requested them, though (working out more often, trimming hair, stuff like that).

Why would you want to change someone’s appearance, were you ashamed to be seen with them?
I would further ask, what credentials you possess establishing you the ultimate authority on male attire and grooming? You see there is an arrogance there making the assumption I am dominant and therefore know more then you about how you should project yourself, or how you handle your money or what you say think or feel. I reject that arrogance and find nothing dominant in that assumption.

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