myotherself
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Joined: 3/9/2006 From: The cold bit of the UK Status: offline
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For me, I couldn't be submissive and content if I wasn't a feminist. Feminism is all about having choices - the same choices that a man has. You choose to be in a submissive relationship, you choose to allow him to control what you do, you choose to exercise your sexuality in the way that works for you. At any time you can say 'sod this!' and walk away. You also choose who you submit to. I would only submit to one man - every other man is judged on his merits and upon my own personal standards. For example, my boss is a man. He's also a bit of a dick. I do what he asks because I'm a professional, but I do not submit to him - I submit to the terms of my contract with my employer. I don't believe that all men are superior to me - heck, I probably wouldn't believe that my partner was superior to me! I would give him the right to control aspects of our/my life, but only because I don't WANT to control them for myself. So in reality, I'm controlling the situation anyway, albeit in a more passive manner
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