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It makes the PeePee go BigBig.

Jeff

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I walk my own path. D/s is just a part of who I am.

I'm being myself. Doing what fulfills me and what feels right. Being authentic. With only one life, I'd be foolish to waste this chance.

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because I'm physically and mentally attracted to them in the same way I'm attracted to men, I'm attracted to tall men, I'm attracted to tall white men who have a nice body and have the same morals, values and views as myself.

He turns me on.

Why is anyone attracted to whatever they are attracted to?

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I guess that means no cookies?

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

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I guess that means no cookies?

laurell3,

That would be affirmative.

CP

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I'm attracted to power and physically, mentally, sexually and emotionally turned on by kink. I grow through discovery and applying what I discover to my life. The combination of all that I am and all that I enjoy is found within the confines of an M/s relationship with a fair bit of BDSM thrown in for good measure. If there was some other way to get all that, I'd probably spend some time at least exploring the options but I have never found anything that works quite so well and is quite so much pure fun as what it is that Himself and I do and how we live and enjoy our life together.

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Why do you walk the path?

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So why is it wrong for someone to know who they are at an early age? I didn't come across the word submissive until I was 48. Think of all the years where things went wrong because I didn't know who I was or how to explain it.

It used to be back when it was illegal to be homosexual for homosexual men to marry anyway. Knowing all the time they hated their life and hated what they were doing to someone they did love, just not sexually. All those destroyed families because it was wrong to say you were gay and bring a same sex date to the prom.

If you can identify what you want when young then not only do you not waste years of your life trying to be someone you aren't, but you also aren't willfully hurting someone else by not telling them what you want and allowing them to decide if they like this or not.

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Normally I would blame my parents but since your question is simplified to... whatever it is that we do.... ism.

I read a little story about a dominant woman and a new submissive male. During the stretch of their relationship he finally caved in to the amount of love she bestowed whilst being a slave. Tears of joy. There were boundaries broken and limits pushed but finally he was conditioned. For her pleasure.

Two years later being 18 I was not looking for a D/S relationship but she literally took me and owned me. I was her prize and I entertained, worshiped, massaged, and cherished her being. And yes I cried because I loved her so much for being the woman she simply is.

Two and one half years later we split for many reasons, one of them being a family that loathed my existence because I am not chauvinistic or manly enough. She needed help and I had no family where I was at.

I am happy for her because she found someone who gives her a sense of security.

Two and one half years later after unconditioning my self I find that I am still struggling from depression. Although I have been depressed for most of my life so far.

I take my medication and wonder sometimes... who is going to want this crazy ass? I am at a point where I want to live because I know someone out there CAN deal with my genius/insane/obsession laden brain and has a vibrant source of consciousness.

And beat my crazy ass in chess.

Sorry that is just one of my qualifiers.

Why am I here right now?
relaxing from dirt and toil and i swear there is some sort of societal interaction process i must complete.

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Well, CP, I agree with you that places like Collarme are mostly kinky dating sites, and most people are here for the kink. That is unfortunate. From the older masters with whom I have spoken, I know that BDSM now is far different than it used to be, and that being a Master used to mean something more than knowing how to tie fancy knots and feeling entitled to "when I want it, how I want it, and where I want it". I was here to meet a dominant man who knew how to lead, who wanted to lead, who was master of his own life and could provide leadership in a relationship. A man of high integrity. As I learned more about D/s, I began to understand more about how kink may fit into a D/s relationship, and I got more curious. I met my fiance here and we are to be married in the fall. He is all that I hoped for. I found that I needed what a D/s relationship provides, and I did not know this about myself until the summer of 06. I did not know that those feelings I had inside me all these years were submissive feelings.

I know I am in the minority here in relation to what I was seeking, and in my orientation to D/s and BDSM. For me, D/s is primary. The kink is, to use the old adage, the "icing on the cake".

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i just need it. NEED. IT.

pam

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ORIGINAL: Firebirdseeking

Well, CP, I agree with you that places like Collarme are mostly kinky dating sites, and most people are here for the kink. That is unfortunate. From the older masters with whom I have spoken, I know that BDSM now is far different than it used to be, and that being a Master used to mean something more than knowing how to tie fancy knots and feeling entitled to "when I want it, how I want it, and where I want it". I was here to meet a dominant man who knew how to lead, who wanted to lead, who was master of his own life and could provide leadership in a relationship. A man of high integrity. As I learned more about D/s, I began to understand more about how kink may fit into a D/s relationship, and I got more curious. I met my fiance here and we are to be married in the fall. He is all that I hoped for. I found that I needed what a D/s relationship provides, and I did not know this about myself until the summer of 06. I did not know that those feelings I had inside me all these years were submissive feelings.

I know I am in the minority here in relation to what I was seeking, and in my orientation to D/s and BDSM. For me, D/s is primary. The kink is, to use the old adage, the "icing on the cake".

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

lizzie,

Well in truth it does seems to prompt more questions then answers.......care to try again?

CP

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

Why do you walk the path?

CP

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

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because I'm physically and mentally attracted to them in the same way I'm attracted to men, I'm attracted to tall men, I'm attracted to tall white men who have a nice body and have the same morals, values and views as myself.

He turns me on.

Why is anyone attracted to whatever they are attracted to?

littlewonder,

laughs,

ok he turns you on, but if he suddenly turned vanilla, as unlikely as that mey be..........what then?

CP

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I am here because I love reading what people write about their lives, their experiences, and their drama. Unlike some here, I am not on this site to meet a d-type, I come here for some fun and laughs. I definitely do not take this as seriously as most people, so I have a different perspective on it.

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