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Because I want to.

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Yeah, I am thinking about the time I am thirty. I might be ready for a relationship.

It is asexual city, population single. Until I get that starfish gene I can't reproduce by dismemberment yet.

Darn.

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People have been kinky since the dawn of time... seriously, no one owns kink. This site always was a kinky dating site for the largest part, although you will find other sorts of people here.

Most people involved with Bondage, Discipline, and Sado/Masochism have done so largely in their bedroom. Hell, my boyfriend was tying me up when I was 18, and lightly spanking me. Just because I didn't belong to some group of people that "lived" this way all the time did not change who I was or who I later became.

I like dominants that are high functioning professionals who have "mastered" life, and that engenders respect from me, and those sorts are the ones that see my submissiveness....

Why do I walk the "path"? What path? I am kinky and I like men that I want to follow out of my deep profound respect... My soul path isn't about the BDSM community, and my ideal relationship is based on far more than kink or D/s

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

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I guess that means no cookies?

laurell3,

That would be affirmative.

CP

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince


DesFIP

Was there an answer to all that?

While I did not say so in the original post as to teens coming into CM, I will go on the record as saying in the vast majority of instances such young people simply do not have sufficient life experiences under their belt to to walk the path without causing problems for themselves, others and the reflection of the path itself. Just my opinion.

CP

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julia

"what path" how about being kinky! oooooorr perhaps you can only fing your type of male on the path.
Thanks for your thoughts.

CP

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ORIGINAL: domiguy



I came here so I could be questioned.

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania
People have been kinky since the dawn of time... seriously, no one owns kink. This site always was a kinky dating site for the largest part, although you will find other sorts of people here.

Most people involved with Bondage, Discipline, and Sado/Masochism have done so largely in their bedroom. Hell, my boyfriend was tying me up when I was 18, and lightly spanking me. Just because I didn't belong to some group of people that "lived" this way all the time did not change who I was or who I later became.

I like dominants that are high functioning professionals who have "mastered" life, and that engenders respect from me, and those sorts are the ones that see my submissiveness....

Why do I walk the "path"? What path? I am kinky and I like men that I want to follow out of my deep profound respect... My soul path isn't about the BDSM community, and my ideal relationship is based on far more than kink or D/s

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

Why am I here? I am on Collarme because:

a: I have been into BDSM since age 16
b: I have fun on the message boards
c: I like to meet like minded people
d: I like to hear differing opinions and often learn something new, and I think I have things to offer through my experiences
e. I don't feel like this is a "path"; it is just another facet of me, as a complete, complex and interesting human being.

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince


While I did not say so in the original post as to teens coming into CM, I will go on the record as saying in the vast majority of instances such young people simply do not have sufficient life experiences under their belt to to walk the path without causing problems for themselves, others and the reflection of the path itself. Just my opinion.

CP

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

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Because I am kinky and kink and bdsm sexually fulfill me, and makes me happy.

I find conventional relationships extremely boring, dull and quite lacking.

Topping,

Well that is straightforward enough but that mbegs the question ......what is "kink" to you?

CP

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince
Why do you walk the path?

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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ORIGINAL: domiguy



I came here so I could be questioned.

Into interrogation? It is kinda hot

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path?

im here because:
(yes a list)
1. my luck with traditional relationships has been, poor. the main reason is i hate to compromise on my end, yet on the other end i expect my partner to compromise.
for some reason it seems that everything just works out perfectly in a bdsm lifestyle for me, as most of what i seek most subs/slaves already have that as an interest. way i see it is never having to go through all that awkwardness of i need you to... (fill in the blanks) is a huge bonus. here its more of an ask and you shall receive.

2. what got me interested in exploring the (real life aspect) is when i started learning that there are submissive people like i have fantasized about. even to the point that i could have never imagined.
actually it started out as a casual chat in irc, where i happened to be at the right place at the right time, and got to act out a highly intense series of kinky dom/sub roleplay. (i was there and right in the room the whole thing starts to unfold as sort of a kinky group text rp.) so i just kept exploring and digging deeper and what i found is that basically i can have my cake and eat it too.

3. (sort of continued for 2.) all my life (and i always though that i was creepy because of it) i had various master/slave fantasies. oddly even before i was old enough to understand sexual things, i was having fantasies where i would have control of another to torment in whatever way i pleased. i just figured a fantasy is just that, so just keep it tucked away or whatever. but the idea of actually owning a slave or even multiple slaves, its perfect. (honestly im still going through the sort of "are you serious shock" that this even exists)

4. romance is for some people, but i think maybe someday i might find someone that i can have a traditional relationship with, but really im not worried about it so much (or really at all) anymore. i say that once i own a slave for a couple years or whatever, just see how it works out.

i hope that doesn't make me sound too creepy. (i don't think im that bad) [/quot

mastertizzi

1st Welcome to CM and especially the boards.

2nd Thanks for a clear and complete view of why you have come into the world of D/s. The reasons are probably true for many here. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

CP

(in reply to mastertizzi)

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In an acknowledged D/s relationship who I am is not apt to be abused. Therefore, this is probably a safer place for me to be than in a vanilla relationship with someone who doesn't understand how D/s works. Yes, I can still submit in a non-D/s relationship but if the person has any narcisstic tendancies, I'll end up abused. BTDT more than once. I need someone who can make decisions after considering the implications and probable outcomes of that decision so that *I* am not harmed. Used properly I can keep going for a long time quite happily. I am apt to obey even if it ends up hurting me because I am that much of a pleaser. This is very dangerous, so I'm more careful now. Does this answer the questions?

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It is how I express love. I spent most of my life pretending that all of this wasn't in my brain. But it was.
I remember control fantasies when I was young. Searching the classifieds in the Village Voice in high school, yet never having the nerve to follow through.
Trying to get any kind of kink in my marriage more than once a year.
Then I realized that I had every right to try and be happy and I knew that the only way I could was to pursue a bdsm power exchange relationship.
And here is where I find myself...

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