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Why do Doms...???? - 7/25/2010 7:24:20 PM

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Question of the day...why do Doms send photos of themselves with other submissives? (Chained, roped, masked..etc...?) Is that for their benefit or mine? I honestly hope to find a Dom that respects that the only person I want to see chained to him, well, is me:))
Respectfully,
Sultry

PS. Any advice would be awesome:))

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/25/2010 7:29:29 PM

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Because Men are visual creatures, and they think women think like they do and dont seem to understand how the female mind works?

Because they have the insane need to say look at me i could get someone to do xyz with me....?

Because they are idiots?

Because they lack common sense?

Because they dont like you and want to scare you off?

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/25/2010 7:35:43 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: southernsultry

Question of the day...why do Doms send photos of themselves with other submissives? (Chained, roped, masked..etc...?) Is that for their benefit or mine? I honestly hope to find a Dom that respects that the only person I want to see chained to him, well, is me:))
Respectfully,
Sultry

PS. Any advice would be awesome:))

The same reason they do this on vanilla sites, they are asshats

Edited to add, I just tried to call you, and it went to your voicemail

Call me baby!

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/25/2010 7:35:50 PM

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If you are curious, ask the Doms involved. The reasons a Dom might send those pictures are too numerous to even begin to name.

If you find the pictures a big turn off, tell the Dom that you are not interested in him and why. Then get on with your life.

My advice is to find your local munch group. Plan on attending some events. Meet a variety of Doms in safe places like at a local dungeon or at a munch. Also meet other submissives. Make friends.

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/25/2010 7:39:02 PM

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Maybe it's all of the above you mentioned:) Made me giggle* Thanks!

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/25/2010 7:40:26 PM

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Ive always wished to know as well, and have asked several males on the other side in the past, and have gotten answers from its how i treat my property and im just letting you know what to expect to Really girls dont like that?

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/25/2010 7:41:28 PM

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I agree with you...attend some events and such...as far as the pictures..I just wonder if the submissive even knew she's posted on the Internet (hard feelings there, because it happened to me, only once)

Thanks:)

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/25/2010 7:43:31 PM

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You got it miss julia...sistah sub:)

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/25/2010 8:02:31 PM

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the same reason they show themselves in pics with their cars, motorcycles, etc...to show off their property.

They think it makes them look like a big bad boy or important in some way.

It's a status symbol.

complete turnoff to me.

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/25/2010 8:03:43 PM

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They're insane and I don't get it either. I've sent email after email back to those men saying "sorry I'd prefer my own naked body NOT be plastered all over some website one day." They never get it and are usually really mad. Then I block them. *sigh*

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/25/2010 8:11:30 PM

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Male submissive do the same thing! They will send the most obnoxious photos of themselves and a previous Domme gettin' busy. It's disgusting to me and a great turn off.

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/25/2010 8:16:00 PM

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I'm not a dom, but i have a huge ego, and I think anyone who likes the feeling of having control over someone tends to think they are better than the person. the picture of them controlling someone or having them chained up is sort of like a showcase they can showoff.

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/25/2010 8:18:51 PM

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the same reason they show themselves in pics with their cars, motorcycles, etc...to show off their property.

They think it makes them look like a big bad boy or important in some way.

It's a status symbol.

this

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/25/2010 8:20:05 PM

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I just wanted to thank the OP for putting an earworm in my head

Why do doms suddenly appear...every time I show my rear? Just like you...they want to beat...all of me...
Why do doms bend down when I cry...just like you... they want to see... how I feel...

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/25/2010 9:06:22 PM

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quote:

n the

quote:

ORIGINAL: OneSeason

quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

the same reason they show themselves in pics with their cars, motorcycles, etc...to show off their property.

They think it makes them look like a big bad boy or important in some way.

It's a status symbol.

this

exactly why they deserve my snarkiness. I am officially done with checking email. DONE!

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/25/2010 9:58:09 PM

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perhaps just showing them self's in there natural environment. I've never sent picture of my self to anyone ever. Absolutely no one Ive meet has been remotely close to interesting enough but if I did chose to they better be dam happy they got anything at all if they couldn't be happy getting to see me then they can move on I would have no further need of them I wouldn't send anything vulgar mind but if theirs a girl in it even on a leash so the fuck what it means nothing and as far as I can see it should affect nothing.

not trying to sound aggressive though it might but I don't really care so... meh

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/26/2010 2:29:33 AM

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You mean Male Dominants actually do this? I'm astounded....Nay I am profoundly shocked and disappointed they let the team down .. Don't know how many times I've told them such things are reprehensible Just not cricket..... Sheesh don't they know the 11th Commandment "Thou Shalt NOT get Caught!!!!"

Actually I stand by the Ladies on this.. There is no way and of the Men and I do mean Men would do that and risk embarrassing others their families and themselves.. You never know when some sneaking little piece of excrement will toddle along with his cell phone cam recording and the erstwhile Dome ends up on You Tube for his kids to see....

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/26/2010 3:10:10 AM

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I don't know which makes me

more, the ones with photos of them with other women or the ones where you only see the hair or a disembodied arm or what must have been a past lover. My all time favourites though are when it is their wedding photo that they have cropped

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/26/2010 6:12:45 AM

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*Awesome answers from everyone....I was beginning to think it was "just me" but sending me pics of your former subs, cars, bikes, boats...)..major turnoff for me too. It's as if we are so shallow that all we are submissives for is because of material items or seeing how the were with another sub? Men are from Mars, we, Venus:) That simple, lol

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RE: Why do Doms...???? - 7/26/2010 7:32:51 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: adx

perhaps just showing them self's in there natural environment. I've never sent picture of my self to anyone ever. Absolutely no one Ive meet has been remotely close to interesting enough but if I did chose to they better be dam happy they got anything at all if they couldn't be happy getting to see me then they can move on I would have no further need of them I wouldn't send anything vulgar mind but if theirs a girl in it even on a leash so the fuck what it means nothing and as far as I can see it should affect nothing.

But... a bunch of women just said that it *does* affect something- it's retarded and pathetic.

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