EbonyFtshGoddess
Posts: 446
Joined: 1/1/2006 From: Hollywood Hills, CA Status: offline
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MstrssScarlet: if you read EVERY thread .. then you'd have seen clearly where i said that being useful in ANY manner matters to use.. i didn't say anything about bottomless wallets. sorry, those words were foisted in my mouth by a random slave. i can only type what i say.. i have NO control over the twilight zone or place where lost socks go in the dryer between what i typed and how people view said words on their screen. so perhaps you've misconstrued what i said. i said many times MANY times that i have broke slaves, i have blue collar boys and yes.. most of my slaves are in sr. exec positions or white collar. i never said their money replaces their submission.. i said it AUGMENTS it.. difference. i don't value someone's wallet more than their bank account. i stated several times that they are here to contribute WHATEVER experiences they can.. be that buying toys.. offering legal services if they're a lawyer (ie.. incorporation, real estate law for investments or whatever.. webskills if they are a designer).. the list goes on and on. i have slaves that their way to contribute to my house is doing chores, or watching my pets when i travel. i think you missed something there with all due respect. MsDominiquenz: good to see we're on the same page. the difference between lifestyle dommes whom are accustomed to a certain level and calibre of attention/care/contribution and someone that demands things BEFORE THEY EVEN HAVE ANY RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU--- are two different balls of fur. that's not right to demand things from anyone.. they should wnat to do it on their own. if someone doesn't then either i move on or evaluate how they can be useful to me (in addition to their flesh).. if i can pick someone that can do chores, work on cares, walk dogs, take care of pet rats, procure toys/equipment for us ETC then i'm gonna do it. sometimes i have diarrhea..sometimes i shit a turd.. at the end of the day.. it's ALL shit. just tlike some of the small minded and monochromatic views of things. like you said.. it's all a shade of grey.. nothing is black or white but we as humans feel more comfortable reducing things/situations into their OWN itty bitty, eensie weensie.. baggage handling view of what they have experience and translate that into the way ALL of us should live.. it's hard to seperate the forest for the trees- especially when some are so close minded. tsk tsk tsk. the mind is like an umbrella.. it doesnt work lest you open it. i think some of the males responding to this thread would be all wet. openmindedslave: quote:
Lets also express another factor in Prodoming if we can...Something so many here forget to mention...Men or slaves or subs blah . blah . blah don't always want to create a lasting relationship. Some really do not care about anything except getting what they seek. We know ( in fact you know probably) some men do not read profiles , they look at the pictures . So if your dealing with men who just want an hour here or there and really can't commmit to a long term relationship as someone stated before , then what is wrong if a Mistress caters to these kind of slaves .That she expects a tribute or gift for her time and investment .Her experiences are what a sub is asking to use. So because money is involved somehow it makes it worst. For me , my view is many slaves .subs really are not getting everything they could with tribute. My opionion is if you can't touch my mind, then neither of us will get the most out of time.. that's what i mean when i say if someone isn't capable of living up to what i expect:. full micromanagement control (yes that means their diet, weight, travel, free time away from work, financial scrutiny [ie monitoring their spending/saving habits], full time chastity, contribution to our fetishes and toy collections, regularly scheduled travel, no sex, no contact with any other females other than me..i could go on and on. if someone is NOT willing to submit to that.. but he obviously has super intense rubber fetish scenarios.. then by all means he may session with me. that doesn't negate the fact that i have personal slaves that tend to my life day to day. like i said.. i'd rather someone approaches me being REAL and stating.. look.. i can't submit to what you require for XYZ reason... but next time you're in norway.. or germany.. or austria.. may i meet with you to experience a session.. and we are compatible.. YES i'm going to session with him because it's totally NO strings attached.. that's rare. but do i NEED their tribute to live or maintain my upkeep?..naah.. not really.. sorry.. i don't, but does it compensate me for my time rather than leaving me feeling pissed off and empty because i trained someone monthly for 5 months just to later find out he's married and can't serve in the capacity i expect... fucking right it makes it better if they admit they aren't willing to put in the full lifestyle slavery work but still want the experience of serving an Ebony Rubber Goddess. MarinaBlack: i wholeheartedly concur with everything in your post.. Benji: quote:
Glad you assume I have no experience. If you had taken 30 seconds to read my profile, as I did yours, you would see I say I HAVE NO EXPERIENCE. Nothing I have said has to do with experience. They are personal opinions about economics, where I do have experience, and things you've said that contradict themselves. Glad you have the ...... ummm..... huevos.... to attack a poor, penniless, pathetic, innocent, inexperienced little slave, who only wanted to make his mark in the big boy world. Feel free to message me on the other side. I always love a good laugh! Yours, benji like i said.. hit me up when you've actually logged offline and served for real. OBVIOUSLY brainchild i've read your profile lest i wouldn't have been aware of the fact you're 22. duh.. with that being said.. even BEFORE i read your profile i assumed you had no REAL experience. without REAL lifetime servitude/ 24/7 TPE contractual and chastitized servitude. then you have NO clue what i'm speaking about.. and that's ok we ALL start out as a novice. no one was born with 14 years bdsm experience under their belt. the difference is.. the ones whom have no experience should quiet their mouth and observe to learn... rather than interjecting inconsequential randomness. nothing is wrong with being novice.. you should just realize that you lack practical experience in this lifestyle. and anything in this lifestyle cannot be correlated to things you experience in the vanilla world. a hairbrush in the vanilla world is just that - a hairbrush.. a hairbrush in BDSM can be used to kick your ass. you can't take your vanilla experiences with economic as unilaterally comparable to anything apparent in BDSM. and darling..lol i'd rather slit my wrists than message you...you can laugh all you want, but at the end of the day dear.. you're still an inexperienced novice whom shall probably remain that way for a while wondering WHY you're a novice. nothing personal. you simply aren't in my league. i go for boys that have the REAL time experience to back up their assertions. so worry not about me contacting you. oops... i just vomited into my mouth a little thank you and try the veal. *edited to add*
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