clitwhipscream
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Joined: 10/23/2010 Status: offline
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So we are prey and predator eh? Dominant is stronger because dominant is predator and seeking prey (is) our nature because damn, a dominant is most typically is a man right? Not in my world it isnt, and where in my posts whould you even find that assumtion? Did I forget to genderfuck a pronoun? If I did, I apologize. I knew the Dom I play with now for four years before anything went down. He got it, becasue hes a damn nice man, and he prooved it over time, just by being his sweet self, not because he is a dom. That dosent mean he dosent make me nervous, he does and always has. I fucking love it and thats why one day I went to his house and deliberately ran across his path. (I gave him my safeword within two minutes of walking in the door). I asked him during the conversaton, several times, to push me over my own resistance and he pounced. Lucky for me. Now I have this great friend who fucks me silly once a week or so. And he is georgeous. His housemate (a super funny super slutty Domme) keeps an eye on things so we dont get to rough and break all the furniture and in effect acts as a spotter, FOR HIM. Because right now, I could go to the cops and report him for rape, and he would at minimum have his reputation trashed at worst get jail time. Im not that kind of girl, but on original pounce, he did not know that. That took kahoonas. I wouldnt call a cop if I were raped, a lawyer and a reporter yes from the er, but not a cop. Oh Im sure they would stick thier nose in it and I would employ them, to help me track down my own rapist (becasuse I owe him one). But I like cops only slightly less than I like rapists. Im just funny that way. I take care of me, no one else. In my experience, crawling into the arms of a patriachal legal system is not the best path out of gender oppression in fact, it is designed to reinforce it. Thats why rape vicitms speaks so much of being re-raped by the system. The person best qualified to take care of you is yourself. That is not required becasue you are a woman in 'mans world', but becasue you are a human and you live in the real world.
< Message edited by clitwhipscream -- 11/15/2010 1:18:19 PM >
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