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RE: My thoughts on why some sub men are still single - 2/1/2011 10:26:03 PM

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You've written off your next few relationships before even having them?

No baggage there...

I haven't written them off. I'm being realistic. I'm a young man in the prime of my life. If the next one is "the one" then great, but I'm not going into anything looking for that. I'm just having fun. I went into my last relationship for fun. Thought she'd be the one, got depressed at the thought of her being the one because I thought "If I have to live the rest of my life like this hang me the rope", bailed, and am happier for it. I'm excited about who the next girl will be.

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RE: My thoughts on why some sub men are still single - 2/2/2011 11:01:04 AM

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I think there's some confusion over what definition of "mistress" they're using...

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Nope, single women and married men live longest, so all men should marry, no woman should ;-)

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RE: My thoughts on why some sub men are still single - 2/5/2011 6:58:05 AM

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I'm still single cause I'm shy and don't know how to talk to woman and I'm a bit desperate. I think I am a nice guy, I really like to please women and make them happy. But desperation and shyness aren't good traits I guess

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RE: My thoughts on why some sub men are still single - 2/5/2011 7:09:30 AM

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desperation is not. shyness can be a plus.

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RE: My thoughts on why some sub men are still single - 2/5/2011 6:58:30 PM

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I think it's just because it's such a taboo world. I think alot of people worry about how it will all reflect to the outside world and so forth and because of that alot of guys are scared to REALLY go what they're after. Its good to have webpages like this where you can openly seek someone with similar fetishes and fantasies, but often when you find the one who is perfect for your needs, theres often other boundaries to overcome. Distance could be one, or shyness. You've found this great girl. You don't want to stuff it up so you have to make sure you say the right thing, but what's the right thing to say?

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RE: My thoughts on why some sub men are still single - 2/10/2011 7:59:11 PM

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You know whitedragonx was BS'ing when he said he was desperate. There are no desperate people on here.

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RE: My thoughts on why some sub men are still single - 2/11/2011 4:28:53 AM

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I'm sure there's a few

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RE: My thoughts on why some sub men are still single - 2/11/2011 12:29:11 PM

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Nope. If you dont believe me read all of the post. If you can do that then you are desperate.

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RE: My thoughts on why some sub men are still single - 2/12/2011 12:14:09 AM

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I can't do that. Not even I'm that desperate. But I do think there are desperate people around whom we may not be aware of. I think they are everywhere. I think they are the 'nice guys' who always complain about why they are single.

Not to offend anyone, (but probably will everyone), I think everyone here is a bit desperate in some way or another, myself included. Otherwise we wouldn't be here. We all came here to find something whether we have found it or not. Some of us are fortunate enough to live out our fantasies in reality and tell the whole online world about them, others aren't. Some are desperate for attention, others are desperate for a different kind of attention. I have no doubt people will write about how un-desperate they are now and how, intact and happy and fulfilled they are but, hey, it's the internet, that's what it's for :D

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RE: My thoughts on why some sub men are still single - 2/12/2011 3:52:04 AM

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I can't do that. Not even I'm that desperate. But I do think there are desperate people around whom we may not be aware of. I think they are everywhere. I think they are the 'nice guys' who always complain about why they are single.

Not to offend anyone, (but probably will everyone), I think everyone here is a bit desperate in some way or another, myself included. Otherwise we wouldn't be here. We all came here to find something whether we have found it or not. Some of us are fortunate enough to live out our fantasies in reality and tell the whole online world about them, others aren't. Some are desperate for attention, others are desperate for a different kind of attention. I have no doubt people will write about how un-desperate they are now and how, intact and happy and fulfilled they are but, hey, it's the internet, that's what it's for :D

Untrue.

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RE: My thoughts on why some sub men are still single - 2/12/2011 4:03:07 AM

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So you came here for absolutely no reason? You didn't come here to find community or like minded people? You didn't come here to find, a sub or slave or mistress or domme or anything? You didn't come here to find friendship or decent conversation?

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RE: My thoughts on why some sub men are still single - 2/12/2011 4:08:38 AM

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We all came here to find something whether we have found it or not. Some of us are fortunate enough to live out our fantasies in reality and tell the whole online world about them, others aren't.

this statement would imply that folks are here looking for relationships.

Not everyone is.

I did come here for the forums, but I am a participant on other sites cahtrooms and forums.

My fantasies have nothing to do with participation on website forums or chatrooms.

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RE: My thoughts on why some sub men are still single - 2/12/2011 4:45:48 AM

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Incorrect. That statement would imply that you missinterpreted it in a sexual context. There was no sexual context assosciated to it.

Me personally, I don't know what I'm here for yet. If I find a friend, great. If I get laid, fantastic. If I find my soulmate, then thank you CollarMe.com. But I didn't just come here for no reason. I came here to find 'something', I'm just not sure what it is. I also participate elsewhere. If I find a friend elsewhere, great. If I get laid elsewhere, fantastic. If I find my soulmate elsewhere, then thank you to the other webpages.

You came here for the forums, so, I would say you came for discussion, knowledge maybe? Insight? This is the information superhigh way. For everything that has a reason there is someone searching for that reason. There is a reason why each and everyone of us is on this webpage. Whether we have found that reason or not. Not all of us want to read these pages and masturbate to them. Some do. If thats their reason, let them find it. But it's their reason and they are entitled to it.

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RE: My thoughts on why some sub men are still single - 2/12/2011 4:52:12 AM

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We all came here to find something whether we have found it or not. Some of us are fortunate enough to live out our fantasies in reality and tell the whole online world about them, others aren't.

this statement would imply that folks are here looking for relationships.

Not everyone is.

I did come here for the forums, but I am a participant on other sites cahtrooms and forums.

My fantasies have nothing to do with participation on website forums or chatrooms.

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Incorrect. That statement would imply that you missinterpreted it in a sexual context. There was no sexual context assosciated to it.

Incorrect. Your statement would imply that all relationships are of a sexual nature. They are not.

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RE: My thoughts on why some sub men are still single - 2/12/2011 5:06:48 AM

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Why does saying "we all came here to find something" have to be interpreted as "we all came here to find dick and pussy"? "We all came here to find something" means that we are all searching for something. Be it sexual or otherwise, however, my first thought wasn't to sex. All relationships are not of a sexual nature true, but we are all here to find something. Either relationships (Sexual or other, friendships perhaps), or knowledge (as far as I can think of right now.) but my point is, we don't come here for absolutely no reason what so ever.

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RE: My thoughts on why some sub men are still single - 2/12/2011 5:13:38 AM

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Why does saying "we all came here to find something" have to be interpreted as "we all came here to find dick and pussy"?

You tell me. You are the one that said it.

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RE: My thoughts on why some sub men are still single - 2/12/2011 5:32:53 AM

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Now I'm just confused. Bed time I think. Have fun everyone and, don't go looking too hard for hidden dicks and pussies and all that

Thanks all for your insights. It has been much appreciated.

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RE: My thoughts on why some sub men are still single - 2/12/2011 6:07:29 AM

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Why does saying "we all came here to find something" have to be interpreted as "we all came here to find dick and pussy"? "We all came here to find something" means that we are all searching for something. Be it sexual or otherwise, however, my first thought wasn't to sex. All relationships are not of a sexual nature true, but we are all here to find something. Either relationships (Sexual or other, friendships perhaps), or knowledge (as far as I can think of right now.) but my point is, we don't come here for absolutely no reason what so ever.

What they are trying to tell you is that some of us just really aren't here to "find" anything. My pet (at the time) introduced Me to the site four years ago. Back then, I was playing a lot more in Atlanta and there were a number of folks on the site that were active on the forums from that community as well as some where I lived.

This isn't to say that I haven't had the good fortune to make friends and such through the site. I've met a number of folks over the years through the forums and they are fantastic people. I've had a lot of good times with some of the members here. That was just a bonus.

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RE: My thoughts on why some sub men are still single - 2/12/2011 6:35:43 AM

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Why does saying "we all came here to find something" have to be interpreted as "we all came here to find dick and pussy"? "We all came here to find something" means that we are all searching for something. Be it sexual or otherwise, however, my first thought wasn't to sex. All relationships are not of a sexual nature true, but we are all here to find something. Either relationships (Sexual or other, friendships perhaps), or knowledge (as far as I can think of right now.) but my point is, we don't come here for absolutely no reason what so ever.

I just come here to meet people for lunch. It really puts me in a good mood for the day

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RE: My thoughts on why some sub men are still single - 2/12/2011 3:46:00 PM

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hehehehe good one.

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