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RE: Woman held captive as sex slave in NYC - 3/13/2011 2:18:53 PM

porcelaine

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Now you see why kinksters are so feared.

I've never felt the same and I've spoken openly with my fair share of people that don't identify themselves in this manner. Many times it isn't what we say but how i'ts articulated that makes the largest impression. I have never sensationalized kink, believed it better/more evolved than relations of different inclinations, and I never ever use that 'v' word. Perhaps that's why I engage all types in thought provoking dialogue. Where others see and continually point out the differences, I look for the common denominators instead.

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How can you prove that we arent't a bunch of Ted Bundys

Ninety-nine percent of the self professed dominants couldn't be Ted Bundy if you gave them a blueprint. He was exceptionally good at what he did. And he invested energy in mastering his trade until it became second nature. Need I say more?

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Anything you do for pleasure gets shut down if they can faind any most remote and infinitesimal reason. Does this make it clear?

I haven't had that experience. But then again, I'm not inclined to ram my desires down uninterested throats. I think the parallels you're attempting to draw haven't been articulated. The situation is messed up because the people involved are sketchy, not because she went traipsing after a man she conversed with on the Internet. It happens all the time and doesn't make the front page.

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RE: Woman held captive as sex slave in NYC - 3/13/2011 4:52:53 PM

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ORIGINAL: porcelaine

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How can you prove that we arent't a bunch of Ted Bundys

Ninety-nine percent of the self professed dominants couldn't be Ted Bundy if you gave them a blueprint. He was exceptionally good at what he did. And he invested energy in mastering his trade until it became second nature. Need I say more?

Bundy was a real pig who kidnapped strangers by force off the street and tortured them to death. By the end he was just breaking into co-eds rooms and beating them to death in their beds. It's true that 99 percent of scene dominants couldn't be Ted Bundy, but I hope that's for reasons of morality more than skill. The major skill he showed was in his escape from prison in Colorado.

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RE: Woman held captive as sex slave in NYC - 3/13/2011 6:13:39 PM

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Bundy was a real pig who kidnapped strangers by force off the street and tortured them to death. By the end he was just breaking into co-eds rooms and beating them to death in their beds. It's true that 99 percent of scene dominants couldn't be Ted Bundy, but I hope that's for reasons of morality more than skill. The major skill he showed was in his escape from prison in Colorado.

It would appear that you mixed the context of the response. The inference was made by the other party and the suggestion posed was wholly inaccurate for the reasons stated. If most were willing to apply themselves in a similar manner you'd have a different breed of dominant. And as it stands a lessened effort warrants results and people will generally follow the path that's easiest. :)

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RE: Woman held captive as sex slave in NYC - 3/14/2011 5:53:49 PM

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this is a perfect example of whats going on on another thread he wants his girlfriend to have more "confidence" to Dom him and his story makes it apparent that shes not into it.I say of course theres more to the story,the girl had got some info about BDSM and met this guy and he seemed like fun,after all just paid her plane ticket,she thought that they would have fun all day doing what people do and when they had sex he would slap her ass and say something like "say you like it" or "beg for more" and that wasnt his style of BDSM.Wonder if the dishes ever got done!

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