PeonForHer
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Janices and Submales, Recently, a thread dealt with the subject of strap-ons and why femdoms like to use them. A few femdoms and subs felt that they were enjoyable to use simply for the sensations, but others hinted that their enjoyment was derived from a sense of power. I looked back at various discussions of the subject in the past and found that this was the most commonly cited reason why femdoms got a buzz out of using them. Now, this had me disappointed. Not because I, as a sub, shudder at a femdom getting such a sense of power by using a strap-on on me (far from it), but because of what it seemed to imply about how they felt about their vaginas. That is, that vaginas just can't be 'powerful' as dick-like-implements can be. (And yes, I realise that some people don't recognise strap-ons as essentially 'dick-like' - that any resemblance is merely coincidental; again, strap-ons are designed that way mainly to produce certain sensations. I'm guessing - perhaps wrongly - that the majority do see them as 'dick-like'.) The dick is active - it *does* something, it penetrates; the vagina is passive - it has something done to it, it gets penetrated. Am I wrong? Would femdoms argue, instead, that a vagina can be powerful, but just in a different way to a penis? Never mind the theory (of how we *could* feel, in a society that's unfettered by traditional gender roles), let's talk about how we actually feel, right now. Femdoms: Do you actually feel that your vagina is powerful , that it envelops/consumes (choose your active verb) a dick? Submales - have you been with a femdom who's made it very obvious by her stated feelings, and her actions, that she feels her vagina to be powerful? To both: have your feelings on this changed recently - if so, how and why?
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