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RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? - 2/19/2011 6:23:18 PM

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This is one of those times I love objectification. If he's got no control over what's happening, and I'm the one fucking him (with my vagina), then how does he have any power? He is a rod, an instrument, a device that I'm using for my pleasure. I cum on him, leave him messy and wanting. That's power, not simply having a protruding body part.

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RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? - 2/19/2011 6:37:48 PM

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See Reform... that's how I would've thought of it. Even without the objectification it can still be, "he's a man I'm using for my pleasure." The important part is your dominant head space.

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RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? - 2/19/2011 6:40:57 PM

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Well, I have always enjoyed them because being a lesbian, I don't have a penis and I love to fuck women and I love being fucked by them. It works out well because the women I have been with also seem to enjoy it.

I have never really thought about it from a power situation but that could be because I was a lesbian long before I learned about BDSM. Interesting topic. I look forward to seeing the responses.

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RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? - 2/19/2011 6:43:05 PM

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My vagina doesn't "eat" anything,

Mine doesn't either, but I had to give my Mistress warning if I was going to have a coughing fit while she was fisting me. It's never a good idea to crush your Mistress's fingers. Makes for a mean Mistress.

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RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? - 2/19/2011 6:44:43 PM

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I am not a Domme but I have always felt my pussy power.

How else can we explain men wanting to be in there so much?

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RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? - 2/19/2011 6:44:53 PM

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LMAO sneezing is fun too:)

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RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? - 2/19/2011 7:31:16 PM

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My vagina is definitely powerful. It bends spoons like Uri Gellar, although it does it better than him because it makes them spell out rude words rather than just bend them in half. It has a smutty sense of humour, does my vajayjay. Unsurprising though really considering the life it leads.

I think it also might be a bit telepathic, but I haven't properly tested that hypothesis yet.

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RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? - 2/19/2011 7:40:47 PM

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.....The dick is active - it *does* something, it penetrates; the vagina is passive - it has something done to it, it gets penetrated.

It's a matter of perspective. What if we were to speak of sex in terms of envelopment vs penetration??

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RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? - 2/19/2011 8:25:08 PM

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I would assume that the mindset of dominance would transform the act and associated body parts just as it does everything else.

The thing is, I've got the impression from a few femdoms that though they're powerful, and feel it, they don't feel that about their vaginas. That's something I find difficult to get my head around. I was quite taken aback a while ago by a femdom friend who said, quite in passing, that she 'didn't do penetrative sex' because she couldn't relate it to her dominant feelings. (I think that was roughly how she put it.)

I know Dommes who say that ... but in my opinion, that's their loss. Sex in general is powerful - I know the historical backing behind the whole "being penitrated" thing, and I'm well aware that swords were meant to be at least generally phallic in shape, etc. *shrugs* So what?

As I dust the cobwebs out of my brain, I think my feeling was that I "take" when I have sex. They aren't penitrating, they are giving ... I'm taking - I'm taking what I want, when I want, how I want ... I'm taking what is mine.

Edited to add: On a side note, and totally a personal pet peeve of mine. WTF is up with the word "vajayjay"???? What is wrong with a group of normally mature, intelligent adults that suddenly we have to use silly sounding words for body parts. And for the record, I also cringe at a lot of the silly things that penises get called. It makes no sense to me that people do that.

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RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? - 2/19/2011 8:34:51 PM

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Oh, well, Pussy Powers!

Like Plastic Man, it can increase or decrease.
Like Hyro-man, it can liquify a solid.
Like Amazing Man, it can transform substances I touch
Like Magik, it can summon beings.
like Wolverine, it can recovery rapidly,
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Like Pyro, it can generate heat.
Like Storm, it occasionally queefs.
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Like Morpheus, I can project my consciousness into the another.
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Like Nura Nal, it can communicate with the dead,
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Like Nemesis Kid, it can recognise superpowers,
Like Rogue, it can absorb another powers, and like Sage, it can bestow power,
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Like Immortal Man, after la petite morte, I come back to life stronger than ever!

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RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? - 2/19/2011 10:46:28 PM

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My vagina is eight miles wide... I can eat a lot.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Agfhgn1_yKE

I'd actually like to think my power is between my ears... but then some think I am crazy... that can be powerful too I guess. I'm flexible.

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RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? - 2/19/2011 11:23:02 PM

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The thing is, I've got the impression from a few femdoms that though they're powerful, and feel it, they don't feel that about their vaginas.

I don't want to say I feel powerful, because I have a vagina. I don't even want to say I feel powerful, because I don't care about power. I care about authority in my relationships, because that is what works for me, revs my mind and vagina up. I love the fact that I have a vagina, and that it does bring myself and another to fabulous place, when we are well matched.

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I was quite taken aback a while ago by a femdom friend who said, quite in passing, that she 'didn't do penetrative sex' because she couldn't relate it to her dominant feelings. (I think that was roughly how she put it.)

I suppose if one doesn't enjoy penetrative sex, than it would make sense that conceding to it, would be associated with submission. I enjoy using my submissive, doing things I enjoy, and among them, is the missionary position (unless he has no rhythm, than it's moi on top.
E.T.A. As to using strap on; I have, and mostly it has been to role play husband and wife (in terms of housework), after the wife has done such a good job, she deserves a good phucking reward.

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RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? - 2/20/2011 2:07:54 AM

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The dick is active - it *does* something, it penetrates; the vagina is passive - it has something done to it, it gets penetrated.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vagina_dentata

And note the RAPE-aXe; what a cool invention :)

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RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? - 2/20/2011 2:31:39 AM

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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vagina_dentata

And note the RAPE-aXe; what a cool invention :)

Link of the day goes to RapierFugue.

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RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? - 2/20/2011 3:39:32 AM

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There's a great description of a sex scene in a book called Smilla's Sense of Snow that i've been trying to find so i can quote it for this thread. Alas, i have not been able to find it yet.

In the mean time, here's something else.

eta: If you're a horror movie fan, i recommend the movie Teeth.

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RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? - 2/20/2011 7:07:55 AM

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perhaps the 'clit-fuck' scene about penetrating his urethral slit with her engorged clitoris?

I've tried it. Kinda poky. Bring lotsa lube.

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RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? - 2/20/2011 8:54:13 AM

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Edited to add: On a side note, and totally a personal pet peeve of mine. WTF is up with the word "vajayjay"???? What is wrong with a group of normally mature, intelligent adults that suddenly we have to use silly sounding words for body parts. And for the record, I also cringe at a lot of the silly things that penises get called. It makes no sense to me that people do that.

It's an awesome happy word. I love vajayjay! (at the very least it's a million times better than 'clunge'). Why should these apparently 'normally mature intelligent adults' be obliged to limit their vocabularies to clinical terms? Seems rather daft.

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RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? - 2/20/2011 9:32:32 AM

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Peon, I have to admit this topic has baffled me as well.

Especially when I observe nights when many are doing a "mating" dance!

We men seem to be the ones "falling over" ourselves to try and impress .... just attempting to get into a vagina!

Strikes me, that we are the weak ones!

And I know I am a "sucker" for the vagina, too!

As you have already talked through the historical and social implications ad nauseum, I will simply say ...

I am enjoying reading the Ladies responses!

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RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? - 2/20/2011 9:39:05 AM

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Vagina’s can be very powerful it seems. I went out with a dancer once and while we were having intercourse she asked me if I wanted to see how tight she could make it for me and I said sure why not. At the time I had no idea how tight she really could make it, wow! When she pulled tight it hurt very badly and I beg her to release me. Peonforher, you know the cartoonist Shel Silverstein did a cartoon on that and it was called, he was never seen again. He has a little man crawling up to a very large vagina and poof he was gone.

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RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? - 2/20/2011 9:49:37 AM

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........ (at the very least it's a million times better than 'clunge'). Why should these apparently 'normally mature intelligent adults' be obliged to limit their vocabularies to clinical terms? Seems rather daft.

I've never heard this word before. Thanks! I think vajayjay is pretty funny too.

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