BitaTruble
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Joined: 1/12/2006 From: Texas Status: offline
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Hi Punkt.. First, welcome to collarme. I don't know how much experience you have with submissives, but sometimes it is very hard for those of us with a submissive mindset to ask for things. If she were fairly new in her discovery of submission, she might feel too unsure of her status with you to actually ask for what she needs and it's common that we, as new submissives, spend some time in one dimensional mode before re-embracing our complex and complete selves. It's something in the past though, so I wouldn't spend too much time on it. You are not a mind reader, you will never be a mind reader.. but what you can do if confronted with that sort of situation in the future.. is not wait for someone to ask.. but, instead, ask them. Would it have been so hard to write her back, ask if she would like to buy a water.. and if she said yes, then send her back a command to ask for what she wants? No wrong or right way, here.. just pointing out what her thinking might have been at that time. If she was unrealistic in her expectation of you, then she may indeed put you into some sort of All Knowing God mode to know her thoughts and needs better than she, herself knew them. It happens.
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