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ORIGINAL: Punkt

When you text "It is so hot and I forgot my water at home." to your Master, do you expect him to understand that you would like to buy some drink?

After you texted that, what if he didn't reply you back, what would you think?

Would you think that he is not concerned about your needs even though you didn't ask him to buy a drink?

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ORIGINAL: baddaddy2009

Quotes like this are kind of getting under my skin, "Why is water on a hot day NOT among things that are allowed to be purchased?" For one, I am reasonably sure that this 3 liter of soda a day sub was in no real danger of dehydration and this was not a matter of health as so many have suggested. Secondly, you forgot your water at home and now you're thirsty? Go back home and get the damn water and curse your own forgetfulness! Too lazy to go home, then go find a damn water fountain somewhere. The idea that buying water was the only possible solution here is ridiculous and I promise, no sub of mine that stupid AND lazy is going to last long!

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ORIGINAL: thishereboi

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ORIGINAL: baddaddy2009

Quotes like this are kind of getting under my skin, "Why is water on a hot day NOT among things that are allowed to be purchased?" For one, I am reasonably sure that this 3 liter of soda a day sub was in no real danger of dehydration and this was not a matter of health as so many have suggested. Secondly, you forgot your water at home and now you're thirsty? Go back home and get the damn water and curse your own forgetfulness! Too lazy to go home, then go find a damn water fountain somewhere. The idea that buying water was the only possible solution here is ridiculous and I promise, no sub of mine that stupid AND lazy is going to last long!

Actually I find the idea that he is getting this worked up because his sub bought some water is even more ridiculous, but I only play with adults, so this doesn't come up often.

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ORIGINAL: Aynne88

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ORIGINAL: thishereboi

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ORIGINAL: baddaddy2009

Quotes like this are kind of getting under my skin, "Why is water on a hot day NOT among things that are allowed to be purchased?" For one, I am reasonably sure that this 3 liter of soda a day sub was in no real danger of dehydration and this was not a matter of health as so many have suggested. Secondly, you forgot your water at home and now you're thirsty? Go back home and get the damn water and curse your own forgetfulness! Too lazy to go home, then go find a damn water fountain somewhere. The idea that buying water was the only possible solution here is ridiculous and I promise, no sub of mine that stupid AND lazy is going to last long!

Actually I find the idea that he is getting this worked up because his sub bought some water is even more ridiculous, but I only play with adults, so this doesn't come up often.

Yep. Perfect. I mean really? Permission for water?

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ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

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I am reasonably sure that I am an adult and that I am also intelligent and competent. I know that I have very good organizational and planning skills and good at thinking ahead. With all that, I am required to ask permission to have pop/soda and required to ask permission to spend money. Many people would look at my life and perceive that Alandra and I are highly micromanaged and yet permissions are given at his leisure and not necessarily when we ask for them.

My understanding of the OP's situation:

The slave had access to an allowance that she could spend however she wished
The slave had access to emergency money for things that were a need (i.e. water)
The slave was told that the master did not respond to text messages
The slave often texted the master giving him information about her day
The slave went out on a hot day
The slave forgot her water and texted the master with that information and that it was hot
The slave then became upset that the master did not text her back giving her permission to buy a soda with her emergency money

I am trying to figure out where some of the opinions are coming from that he is a bad master. I guess his mind reading skills suck cause he didn't know "I forgot my water bottle" meant "Can I have a soda?" I will also have to remember to tell my Lord that he sucks as a master because he doesn't often respond to text messages and Alandra and will often ask permission for a pop or a dessert and he will not answer. He would laugh his ass off if I told him that because he set up these rules that it means he is now at my beck and call and has to make himself available to give permission for my desires whenever I want to ask for them.

Sometimes I forget how strictly he rules our lives and then it takes a thread such as this to remind me and make me thank God that I am in a relationship where he is actually in charge. I have to have permission to have certain things. I can ask for them and if he doesn't respond to the question, that means I still don't have permission. I don't even like to contemplate his response if I started assuming that by asking I am automatically entitled. It would not be pretty.

Knight's Kyra

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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There are 4 pages of responses to this thread, and I understand there are language issues (English not being the OPs primary language), but really, does it take much to understand that if someone is thirsty they should get a drink of water? It really isn't that complex of an issue. I see this entire going over this "well, did she have blanket permission to drink when she wasn't in your presence?" kinda comical... thanks for the thread, sincerely it has been interesting.

Want to micromanage, that is your kink.... Yay!!! I am happy for you, but this just seems so over the top to me, that a person would need to question that they could have a drink of they needed it. I am NOT saying that this is the OPs fault, not at all. I am saying I cannot believe it is still being talked about after so many pages. Maybe it is my mood or something, it just seems pretty common sensical to me... thirsty means I drink, hungry means I eat, having a deal with my dom means I ask first, if he doesn't respond to my text and I think I may indeed become dehydrated means I drink anyways, and if he doesn't like that he can find a new submissive.


After all is said and done, it sounded like this person wanted soda, so she "left" her water at home so she would have an excuse to buy one knowing she had spent all her money on junk food already... in essence it sounds like someone suffering from a terrible sugar addiction. A childish person with a sugar addiction is a dangerous thing

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ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

using fast reply feature:

I am reasonably sure that I am an adult and that I am also intelligent and competent. I know that I have very good organizational and planning skills and good at thinking ahead. With all that, I am required to ask permission to have pop/soda and required to ask permission to spend money. Many people would look at my life and perceive that Alandra and I are highly micromanaged and yet permissions are given at his leisure and not necessarily when we ask for them.

My understanding of the OP's situation:

The slave had access to an allowance that she could spend however she wished
The slave had access to emergency money for things that were a need (i.e. water)
The slave was told that the master did not respond to text messages
The slave often texted the master giving him information about her day
The slave went out on a hot day
The slave forgot her water and texted the master with that information and that it was hot
The slave then became upset that the master did not text her back giving her permission to buy a soda with her emergency money

I am trying to figure out where some of the opinions are coming from that he is a bad master. I guess his mind reading skills suck cause he didn't know "I forgot my water bottle" meant "Can I have a soda?" I will also have to remember to tell my Lord that he sucks as a master because he doesn't often respond to text messages and Alandra and will often ask permission for a pop or a dessert and he will not answer. He would laugh his ass off if I told him that because he set up these rules that it means he is now at my beck and call and has to make himself available to give permission for my desires whenever I want to ask for them.

Sometimes I forget how strictly he rules our lives and then it takes a thread such as this to remind me and make me thank God that I am in a relationship where he is actually in charge. I have to have permission to have certain things. I can ask for them and if he doesn't respond to the question, that means I still don't have permission. I don't even like to contemplate his response if I started assuming that by asking I am automatically entitled. It would not be pretty.

Knight's Kyra

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ORIGINAL: agirl

She needed no permission. How many times does the guy have to say that?

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I'm actually a bit surprised that so much was misconstrued.

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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida

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ORIGINAL: agirl

She needed no permission. How many times does the guy have to say that?

Apparently a lot!!

And to this:

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I'm actually a bit surprised that so much was misconstrued.

So am I.