soul2share
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Joined: 12/18/2007 From: somewhere out there..... Status: offline
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Well, guys, not to put too fine a point on it, but remember, this is Tammy. She is a perpetual victim......and before you get on me for being snarky, look at this whole thread. Tammy, you know we are right.....you are well known for posting, and in your own words, WHINING about a situation, yet you rebuff any and all advice. Put on your big girl panties and deal with the issue at hand. Like it or not, Art is a jerk, we've seen proof of that in his posts. Obviously, the current living situation isn't working out, it's causing you stress that you aren't prepared to handle. MOVE OUT ALREADY!!!! Go back home, and let him do his thing with his own kids. Let him see what it's like. As long as you are there, he's not going to do a damn thing. Tell him that until he decides that he IS part of the solution, nothing's going to change. Otherwise, you've made your bed, now you have to lie in it. I don't know, I've had friends who have fibro, one is diagnosed with a severe case, and she functions fine. She has two kids of her own, and worked, and ran the household. There are medications and treatments out there....look into them. There's no sense in living in pain if you don't have to hun. Take care of YOU, then your kids, then deal with Art and his baggage. Sorry if you take this the wrong way, it's not my intention for it to be a slam on you, but I tend to call a spade a spade. Ultimately, we can say whatever here, but it boils down to how you want to be treated, and what you want to put up with. Me, I wouldn't....old Art would have been set straight from the get go if it was me. Good luck, it sounds like you'll need it.
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I have to stop saying "How stupid can you be?"...people are starting to take it as a challenge! *Not a fuck was given.*
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