littlekitten1
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Interesting thread... Kinda late... I hope you people don't mind if I put in my 2 cents :) I'd say good riddance. He sounds like a childish person. I really, really hate this type of man... The type that seems almost dismissive from the get-go. I mean, he may have seemed nice, but the way you portrayed him, it looked as if he was very dismissive of your wellbeing, and the fact that you're a human with thoughts and feelings. No matter how submissive you are, you will never be able to be happy if you give up yourself for another man. It doesn't have anything to do with with D/s either. I see plenty of vanilla girls give up everything, put in lots of effort, only to have the guy screw them over. No matter how sexy the fantasy is, if he doesn't regard your feelings, then in the end you will end up suffering(in the non-sexy way)... Emotional drainage and such. Punishing you for not doing something he had no right to demand IS childish... And it DOES show an undeserving sense of entitlement, and I associate that with childishness or disregard of ones feelings. Now if this were the sort of thing that made you happy and fulfilled, then no one should stop you from doing it. But it really sounds like it's unhealthy for your psyche.
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