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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

i am am i taking any money off that Domme and using it for my own benefit no, my services are free of charge, Her money is being used to pay the bills correct, Her money pays for food correct, but its going to companies, ie electricity and gas board and shopping centre ltd not me
kevin

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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

Back up the truck love, park the bus, You need to stop and think about what you just said, its rather immoral, i think that s going a bit far dont You, i havent judged You why should you judge me, i dont think there is anything immoral about helping out someone else free of charge even if claiming unemployment benefit was involved, and i never mentioned anything about that, where our the words unemployment benefit anywhere in this tread except now since you v e raised it, as for fraud, give me a break, my job was taken off me, thats fraud
kevin

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ORIGINAL: Epytropos

Feminism, as I've noted before, is an entirely different bag. Many self-styled feminists are in reality far closer to the ideals of women's liberation than true feminism, but those who actually adhere to it are of rather a different bent. A simple etymological reduction (femin=female, ism=doctrine of) will demonstrate that the intent of that movement and the intent of the women's lib movement are different. Feminism is essentially the advancement of the feminine, which is an inherently open-ended affair to which the only logical conclusion is matriarchy. Again, most self-styled feminists do not necessarily see that as a desirable goal, but such are the vagaries of language. Those who do adhere to a true feminist ideology are never going to be satisfied - they really DO want everything men had along with the old perquisites of their gender, which is a laughable and unrealistic goal which will only continue to exist for another 10-20 years until the pendulum stabilizes and we move past the penalty phase.

The moral of the story is this: Do not conflate these two ideologies. The difference between them is the difference between equality allies and white supremacists.

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If you weren't there, she wouldn't have to pay as much. The difference in the amount she spends is how much YOU are costing her to pander to your fantasies of house slave.

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Beyond being reasonably attractive

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ORIGINAL: LiveByYourNature
What you have failed to point out is where they are absolutely the same. See, in the relationship where the dominant male is in charge of the submissive female, he almost always provides her with financial security so that she is able to provide him with the sexual freedom and /or emotional security, time for obedience training, etc. that he craves. And, in the relationship where the woman is dominant, he almost always provides her with the financial secuirty she needs, so that she is able o provide him with sexual freedom and/or emotional security, time for obedience training,etc. that he craves.

In both cases, it is about one person doing more of the work, for the sake of having their fantasy fulfilled. Ideally, this will mean a reversal, and, the other person doing more work in some respects and also having their fantasies fulfilled, in some other way, as well.

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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

i would work much longer than 5-10 hours per week, it would be more like 5-10 hours per day or whatever number of hours the Lady in question wants
kevin

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

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