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RE: Big difference between master and mistresses lookin... - 9/5/2011 10:38:35 AM

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When i talk about housework i mean gardening, heavy duty yard work, farm labour, hard labour as well as housework, not just washing dishes, much more than that
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How many Dommes actually need farm labour and heavy duty yard work?

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RE: Big difference between master and mistresses lookin... - 9/5/2011 10:40:08 AM

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and i dont resent Women. i am offering my services FREE of charge to prospective Women

Your services? Kevin, who are you trying to kid? The only things you have to offer are an overdeveloped sense of entitlement and a complete lack of responsibility. Good luck finding a woman on this planet who finds those to be attractive traits.

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RE: Big difference between master and mistresses lookin... - 9/5/2011 10:43:36 AM

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stef.. I am now officially a fan ;)

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RE: Big difference between master and mistresses lookin... - 9/5/2011 10:50:39 AM

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stef.. I am now officially a fan ;)

Only NOW? Sheesh.

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RE: Big difference between master and mistresses lookin... - 9/5/2011 10:52:55 AM

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why would post history be relevant. History after all is just that history. it s past and gone
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As I said earlier to someone else; "from the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks"

In other words, your past words give an indication of who you are, or at the very least an indication of how you arrived at who you've come to be. I'm afraid it does not paint a very attractive picture, and I can't see any self-respecting domme putting up with your shenanigans.

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RE: Big difference between master and mistresses lookin... - 9/5/2011 11:13:49 AM

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What i mean by reasonably attractive is that the Woman is well washed soap doesnt cost much , good grooming, ok granted , haircuts for Women cost more but nothing more than that would i expect, and by the way i looked at Your profile Ma'am and am very attracted to it, very nice profile, and i especially like the Authority it exudes Your Authority Ma'am, yeah more and more im beginning to think that this kind of discipline especially the way you laid out a programme for a former servant, very impressive , is what i need
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PERFECT! Can we arrange this? I for one would be very happy that the one with ten profiles a month with the guy with multiple personalities, all bitter, misjudged and falling apart because of women, got together. Problem is Kevin dear... is she would expect you to pay for the toys and all that, plus be a slave. She is exactly what you bitch about constantly and she would have you going to church on Sunday and supporting her family!

OMG... this is good.

Can we now get back to the topic and the topic isn't the Kevin cartoon...

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RE: Big difference between master and mistresses lookin... - 9/5/2011 11:14:45 AM

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oh there are some around believe me
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RE: Big difference between master and mistresses lookin... - 9/5/2011 11:16:38 AM

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well if that was the case and i doubt it as i have no interest in toys just serving Women , but if that was the case i would politely walk off the stage
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RE: Big difference between master and mistresses lookin... - 9/5/2011 11:22:03 AM

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...in the relationship where the woman is dominant, he almost always provides her with the financial secuirty she needs, so that she is able o provide him with sexual freedom and/or emotional security, time for obedience training,etc. that he craves.

I guess that counts as agreement with my point.

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RE: Big difference between master and mistresses lookin... - 9/5/2011 11:28:57 AM

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Now I have seen everything... the life... any life... described by Kevin and Livebyyournature! (JWriter and all her profile nicks.)

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RE: Big difference between master and mistresses lookin... - 9/5/2011 11:36:45 AM

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ok getting back there is indeed big differences between masters and Mistresses looking for slaves. in some cases according to what the Ladies have said here Ladies expect their slave to financially pay their way if not support them financially or even give most of their money to the Mistress, in all cases the Master provides for the financial security of the female slave and the female slave expects this of the master. So there is quite a difference. What is the difference? ill let other board members surmise on that
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RE: Big difference between master and mistresses lookin... - 9/5/2011 11:50:25 AM

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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

ok getting back there is indeed big differences between masters and Mistresses looking for slaves. in some cases according to what the Ladies have said here Ladies expect their slave to financially pay their way if not support them financially or even give most of their money to the Mistress, in all cases the Master provides for the financial security of the female slave and the female slave expects this of the master. So there is quite a difference. What is the difference? ill let other board members surmise on that
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Not sure how you came to that conclusion. No where in the posts did I read the Dommes want the man to support them financially. So your posts really does not make any sense.

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RE: Big difference between master and mistresses lookin... - 9/5/2011 12:04:26 PM

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I am trying to think of the female submissives who are fully supported by their doms...and the list is short. They are also married to their doms. I have this goofy notion that married couples share their finances, so that's not strange.

Most of us work for a living. And are not surprised about it.

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RE: Big difference between master and mistresses lookin... - 9/5/2011 12:51:31 PM

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Hey now.....when I was married she always told me "what is mine is mine and what is your's is mine".

But I did end up with the garage that I could arrange however I wanted LOL!

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RE: Big difference between master and mistresses lookin... - 9/5/2011 1:05:14 PM

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Did i extrapolate wrongly but i got my information on this here from LivebyYourNature's post earlier, maybe a wrong extrapolation as i say on my part but to me reading the below looks like SOME i emphasise SOME Dommes expect financial security to be provided by the sub and where the male is Dominant the financial security is provided by the Master in this case the male, see below

What you have failed to point out is where they are absolutely the same. See, in the relationship where the dominant male is in charge of the submissive female, he almost always provides her with financial security so that she is able to provide him with the sexual freedom and /or emotional security, time for obedience training, etc. that he craves. And, in the relationship where the woman is dominant, he almost always provides her with the financial secuirty she needs, so that she is able o provide him with sexual freedom and/or emotional security, time for obedience training,etc. that he craves.

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RE: Big difference between master and mistresses lookin... - 9/5/2011 1:16:56 PM

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I am trying to think of the female submissives who are fully supported by their doms...and the list is short. They are also married to their doms. I have this goofy notion that married couples share their finances, so that's not strange.

Most of us work for a living. And are not surprised about it.

I agree that it's a short list, Hib. Then again, isn't that the way of things? Most households aren't supported by just one income. I don't understand why folks think we're 'different' or 'special' in our place in the world.

What's being missed on this thread is that nobody is looking at what the male is doing in life the day before the dynamic starts. You know. The adult stuff of having his own place, paying his bills, and being a grown up. Why in the flying hell would I want a boy who isn't already a man?

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RE: Big difference between master and mistresses lookin... - 9/5/2011 1:34:18 PM

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What's being missed on this thread is that nobody is looking at what the male is doing in life the day before the dynamic starts. You know. The adult stuff of having his own place, paying his bills, and being a grown up. Why in the flying hell would I want a boy who isn't already a man?

If you go back to the OP

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In most womens they have something to the effect of how the slave must have a income or work outside the home.

Does it show what is really important? Women want the men to make money

The day before the relationship starts if the man isn't making a living the woman, domme, isn't interested.

Who is JWriter?

Now that Lockit has seen everything what will she do?

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RE: Big difference between master and mistresses lookin... - 9/5/2011 1:44:50 PM

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There was a question posed to women and I wish I could find the link, so that you could see it. The questions concerned the economy and high unemployment and whether women were willing to date someone that was unemployed. A great number of them stated that they would date someone that was unemployed, but that he had to be employed before the crisis and be willing to be employed by actively seeking employment.

I have dated, seen and been with unemployed men from the start and during the relationship. I would do it again if I believed the man was actually trying to make it in life and wasn't looking for a stupid mama to take care of him, while reaping in the benefits of a stupid mama. I'm not stupid. I am compassionate and understanding... but stupid is accepting a man that has failed to thrive in life with no good reason and by choice.

To say that women are wrong or any different than men, in wanting a substantial partner that holds their own, is rather unfair, delusional and unreasonable.

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RE: Big difference between master and mistresses lookin... - 9/5/2011 1:49:39 PM

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I think (hope) this is the one you are referencing, Lockit.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_3759159/mpage_1/tm.htm

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RE: Big difference between master and mistresses lookin... - 9/5/2011 1:52:40 PM

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Thanks Poise, but that isn't the one. I will keep trying to find it, but I do believe we had a thread on the topic here in mistress and it may have been mentioned there. Let's see if search helps. lol

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