ChatteParfaitt
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Joined: 3/22/2011 From: The t'aint of the Midwest -- Indiana Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: ProlificNeeds While I understand the purpose of the question, I don't think the question is phrased properly, or, it's asked in a context that assumes we weak little s-types need to see our D types as something stronger or more powerful than us who are 'protectors'? Which is never the case for me, so the question seems nonsensical. Would you think a person, is a lesser person, holds less worth to society or as a friend, or even as a relationship partner because they were mugged? When someone inflicts a violent crime against another person it doesn't make them less anything, if anything it makes them more experienced in the long run with dealing with the ugly side of life. Being a victim doesn't make you weak, or unintelligent, that is the mind frame of abused partners who think their S.O. beat them because of some fault of their own. If you encounter a lot of revulsion to your question, this is why, it's based on an assumed line of reasoning that has nothing to do with reality or common sense, only shallow people would find fault with someone for being a victim... and I would certainly hope no one is ever caught in a relationship with someone who devalues you in such a manner. With a side order of WTF ?? Even if you push the issue of non consensual prison abuse aside, the OP seems to have a case of plain old homophobia, with the additional prejudice against males submitting. It reminds me of a past thread asking how female subs feel about a bi dom or a dom who had had sex with a male. I was surprised how many would reject the dom on that basis alone. I admit it, I don't get that at all. I prefer well rounded human beings capable of embracing the many different sides of their personalities, as opposed to those who find it necessary to live by a preconceived stereotypical notion of dominance (or submission).
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