PeonForHer
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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt This conversation has gone in some interesting directions. First, that the males were imprisoned is only important to the scenario b/c it means they were penned and therefore would have limited means to flee from their attacker. *I* don't believe the OP meant to infer that females would find them unacceptable due to their prison time itself, but what happened to them in prison, (i.e., rape). Second, if you are not attracted to a certain group b/c of looks, then actually it is prejudice. I, for instance, am not attracted to Middle Eastern males. For some reason they just squeak me out. I have no idea why, but I am aware this means that despite my intentions of being open minded and non-prejudicial towards all, my reptile brain (I love that term) says: No! That's what prejudice IS. I am not saying prejudice is correct, I am saying it can't be entirely eradicated, b/c our reptile brain wants or in this case doesn't want what it doesn't want. Sexually I do not like skinny men. I prefer a larger man with good musculature and some real meat on his bones. I am in fact prejudiced against thin men. I understand it is not PC to say so, but in my mind, that's the truth. Now, how much of our reptile brain comes from nature or nurture is perhaps fodder for another interesting thread. See, this for me gets to the root of my own biggest concern, which is entirely selfish. Prejudice or 'hard-wiring', or 'orientation' (to the opposite sex, the same sex, tall people, short people, people with dimples on their chins, whatever) - I don't much care which word we use - How is it possible to change it? Because, if it were possible for me to flick a switch and find most women attractive rather than just a small percentage, I sure would flick that switch. But if it isn't possible beyond a certain small degree, what's the point in this argument? I mean, recasting 'reptilian-like preferences or dislikes' as 'prejudices' doesn't help much, does it?
< Message edited by PeonForHer -- 9/17/2011 11:21:20 AM >
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