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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/21/2012 11:09:51 AM   
chatterbox24


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ORIGINAL: ancilla1

At one point you say " He would just have a fit if he knew I was on here again lol. " and then further on you blab on about how honest you are.

If you start of this relationship lying to him, then why are you bothering in the first place? Or perhaps being collared and owned is merely a fantantistical whim for you?

Incidentally, I do have children. I still think you are coming across as playing a little game. Never would I have had a Master while I was married - for any reason what so ever. No relationship deserves to be treated so badly and with so little respect.

Still - I can at least move on from this thread knowing the following:
There is no need for me to attention seek
I absolutely do NOT lie to my Owner (who also happens to be my De-Facto Partner) nor do I have anything to hide from him
I don't pretend to be anything other then myself
I'm damn lucky I don't seek drama as some obviously do.

As you were sweetheart....


Incidently, I dont care how you do it. I would make a guessimate You dont even have a man. My husband is the one who wants to stay married, so dont tell me about respect. ANd as far as your list, it screams LOOK AT ME, SINGLE MEN.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/21/2012 11:26:07 AM   
Iamsemisweet


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Status: offline 		This whole story is so awesome.

I have practiced law for about 20 years, in a relatively small community.  Every once in a while, there is a family law case that is so epic, involves so many crazy characters, and crazy stories that it becomes the talk of the legal community.  Attorneys who aren't involved, and don't even practice in the area, make it a point to attend court hearings for these kinds of cases, because they are so entertaining.  You just know that there will be screaming, stories of crazy sexual practices, anger, resentment, lunacy, and the court hearings will turn into circuses.  Occasionally, cases like that will even make their way into stories in the newspapers, because the participants start acting so crazy.  Probably pretty embarrassing if you happen to be involved, but for the rest of us, stuff like this is way more entertaining than watching TV.  It also gives us lawyers something to talk and laugh about over drinks at happy hour.

I have often wondered how the hell these kinds of crazy situations get started.  How can people make such bad decisions?  Were they always nuts, or did the situation just evolve?  Well, OP, thanks, because now I know the answer to those questions. Certainly in your case, you are making such bad decisions BECAUSE you are nuts. 

I have no doubt that this whole situation is going to blow sky high, sooner rather than later, much to the entertainment of your local bar, and, I hope, those of us on CM.   Please, please, PLEASE post an update about the blow up.  I mean, you have subjected us to your lunacy at the beginning, now the middle, so please, don't forget to keep as informed at the end also.   

The people I feel sorry for are, of course, the poor kids.  You talk about how well dressed and well taken care of they are.  All the stuff money can buy.  Maybe what you should be thinking about instead, though, is between your job; popping off to your new Masters to clean his house and blow him; your responsibilities at home, and your constant attention seeking; when do you have time to actually be a parent?  Children need more than just nice clothes and a ride to soccer practice, you know.  They also need emotional support, stability and attention from their parents.  I sincerely doubt that your poor kids are getting that.  I have to hand it to you, though, in all of your posts you have never tried to portray yourself as a good parent.  I think that is very honest on your part.


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Alice: But I don't want to go among mad people.
The Cat: Oh, you can't help that. We're all mad here. I'm mad. You're mad.
Alice: How do you know I'm mad?
The Cat: You must be. Or you wouldn't have come here.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/21/2012 11:31:28 AM   
OsideGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Iamsemisweet


I have no doubt that this whole situation is going to blow sky high, sooner rather than later, much to the entertainment of your local bar, and, I hope, those of us on CM.   Please, please, PLEASE post an update about the blow up.  I mean, you have subjected us to your lunacy at the beginning, now the middle, so please, don't forget to keep as informed at the end also. 
Well, don't forget the "Dom" is a well known public figure. I'm sure he's going to enjoy testifying at the custody case about how he's involved in a D/s relationship with the mother.  I'm sure the local lawyers will LOVE showing up for that circus. 




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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/21/2012 11:34:16 AM   
shadowbright


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Status: offline 		With every post you make on this thread you entrench yourself further into looking as though you have serious mental illness issues. The qualities you portray about yourself are looneytunes. I honestly don't understand what you are doing here as everyone is rightfully pointing out the unbelievable parts of your story and you veer wildly from one emotion to the next - if anything is out of control you are the one leading that brigade.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/21/2012 11:35:44 AM   
Iamsemisweet


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Status: offline 		Good point.  Yes, a famous person being involved definitely adds to the entertainment value of those soap opera type cases.
quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: Iamsemisweet


I have no doubt that this whole situation is going to blow sky high, sooner rather than later, much to the entertainment of your local bar, and, I hope, those of us on CM.   Please, please, PLEASE post an update about the blow up.  I mean, you have subjected us to your lunacy at the beginning, now the middle, so please, don't forget to keep as informed at the end also. 
Well, don't forget the "Dom" is a well known public figure. I'm sure he's going to enjoy testifying at the custody case about how he's involved in a D/s relationship with the mother.  I'm sure the local lawyers will LOVE showing up for that circus. 





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Alice: But I don't want to go among mad people.
The Cat: Oh, you can't help that. We're all mad here. I'm mad. You're mad.
Alice: How do you know I'm mad?
The Cat: You must be. Or you wouldn't have come here.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/21/2012 11:38:04 AM   
jennileigh8182


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Status: offline 		Exactly my point...unless maybe she's looking for that kind of media attention? This is going to get ugly...really ugly. Between the massive custody battle that will ensue and the 'Dom' being a public figure with a lot of media attention?

Messy...very messy.



ETA:

OH! Maybe she'll become one of those reality show stars as a result, and not have to work anymore?

< Message edited by jennileigh8182 -- 2/21/2012 11:39:06 AM >

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/21/2012 11:45:59 AM   
ancilla1


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Status: offline 		Hey. You're quite unstable. Just the thing needed to provide some amusement on this rather droll eve.

Ooops - am I meant to respond with indignant replies of dramatics?

You're views of myself and my relationship are of no consequence to me. But reading your mental mumbo jumbo is surely bringing a grin to many a persons face tonight I reckon

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/21/2012 11:58:34 AM   
chatterbox24


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Status: offline 		I didnt even ask for advice. I posted an update. I have read several different threads where you all attack people. Calling them psycho for different behaviours that are totally normal. Instead of being supportive stable people and telling them why their behavior might cause somoene else to act the way they do, you put them down provoking anger or try to make them feel bad.

I do not mean this to all people on here and the ones I mean it toward will know who they are.

Your unstable, hateful, bitter, have zero control, and until you get it under control what you search for will never transpire. You know the type, have to point fingers at others because well it makes them feel better, look better when its them who actually have the huge problem. You are incapable of having a stable relationship. Closed minded, non compassionate, weak, argumentative, cant stand alone. I think Administration will allow this, since You are allowed to consistently belittle people on a regular basis.
There are about 10 of you who this site should be banned because your value is only negative remarks.

END OF SOAP OPERA.

continue on with your negativity and comments. I have a positive life to go live. Good luck to all the good ones out there!




< Message edited by chatterbox24 -- 2/21/2012 12:06:28 PM >

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/21/2012 12:05:56 PM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24
You are incapable of having a stable relationship.


I've known Master for 15 years. I've been with Master for 12 years and I've been married to him for 11 years. I think that qualifies as stable.


< Message edited by OsideGirl -- 2/21/2012 12:06:22 PM >

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/21/2012 12:07:03 PM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24

It's cool! I'm finished posting about it.


Apparently not...

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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/21/2012 12:09:39 PM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24


END OF SOAP OPERA.






Ohhhh I don't think so...

It's the gift that keeps on giving.

And...RE: the self control issue. You are in zero condition to pass judgement on others in this regard.

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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/21/2012 12:13:54 PM   
fucktoyprincess


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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24

I didnt even ask for advice. I posted an update. I have read several different threads where you all attack people. Calling them psycho for different behaviours that are totally normal. Instead of being supportive stable people and telling them why their behavior might cause somoene else to act the way they do, you put them down provoking anger or try to make them feel bad.


chatterbox24, my first post on this thread was a neutral one. I will give the same advice which my father gives to me, even now, when he is not in agreement with something that I do. I think you are entitled to your own decision on this - but by the same token, you must take full responsibility for what happens afterwards.

I agree that people do not need to be rude to you, but by the same token, your expectation that people will be supportive of you, seems to be expecting too much of others. I do not see why anyone has to be supportive of you if they genuinely feel that based on the facts shared, that a bad decision is being made.

Again, you are free to do whatever you want to do. You are an adult. This is a free country. But you should not expect support from people who disagree with your decision. I think the rudeness is coming from the fact that you are ignoring many people's advice, and sometimes that is difficult for people.

I will say this as I read through this thread. I think even those who are being rude in the way they frame their responses, are actually trying to be genuinely helpful to you. Please go and do what you want to do. And in a few years time, however things go, I hope you will update us. I think everyone here knows what the odds of success are for a situation like this. But you never know. Once in a while, someone beats the odds.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/21/2012 12:17:59 PM   
chatterbox24


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Status: offline 		Yep, time to move on. Cheerio.

I am closing the account.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/21/2012 12:18:55 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		How are we to get updates?  Tell us where you live, we'll watch the nightly news....

Tonight, Crispen Glover was taken into custody.....

< Message edited by mnottertail -- 2/21/2012 12:19:34 PM >

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/21/2012 12:19:33 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		The only time I've seen poly work is when there is complete transparency. No lies, no hiding stuff. All parties involved are working together towards a common goal and are serving the relationship.

Since the OP has said she is not being transparent I don't think the odds for success are very good.

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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/21/2012 12:20:53 PM   
jennileigh8182


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

How are we to get updates?  Tell us where you live, we'll watch the nightly news....

Tonight, Crispen Glover was taken into custody.....



You crack me up.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/21/2012 12:30:18 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		I'm funny IN bed too, honey.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/21/2012 12:32:54 PM   
jennileigh8182


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Is that so? I adore a man that can make me laugh, especially in bed.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/21/2012 12:42:45 PM   
BitaTruble


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ORIGINAL: jennileigh8182

laughs

Is that so? I adore a man that can make me laugh, especially in bed.

There you go, Ron.. there's your in. Good luck my friend!

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"Oh, so it's just like
Rock, paper, scissors."

He laughed. "You are the wisest woman I know."


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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/21/2012 12:44:06 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Yeah, but her profile says no cockshots, and I am out of other jocular based material now.....

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