irishbynature
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Excellent question to pose. I never imagined anyone would use the CM site for "Vanilla" purposes, whatever they may be. Actually, I would hope they did not do so, but in the world of the Internet, people are capable of doing anything. Is it ethical? In my opinion, no. The reason is that (I feel from my perspective) that some persons here believe their D/s or BDSM activities are private, regardless of their status at home or work, etc. To me, it as a safe haven to express my interest in D/s and only the business of others who share the same ideals. I also feel that those who come to CM are seeking something specific and "some" in the Vanilla world would not understand that perhaps? If a person who is Vanilla comes here to learn and understand more, they do it for a specific reason. Furthermore, if one is exposed...let's say by pictures to someone who they work, it could open a "can of worms" in respect to their private lives. This is just my opinion. Respectfully, Irish
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