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RE: SUB DROP - 5/18/2012 12:48:33 PM   
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Master told his sweet one, that we must leave the City soon, back to the second City of our Land,


I could give a shit about sub-drop ------> ^^^^ THIS IS WHAT WAS AWESOME ABOUT THAT WRITING. It really doesnt get better than that. Really !!!!


You saw that too!

It made me think he was taking her back to her parents/dorm and returning to his wife who has no clue he's living a fantasy life.


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RE: SUB DROP - 5/18/2012 6:40:44 PM   
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congrats, MisterSpeaksStrangely. You did an unattributed copy of BDSM 101. Be so kind to source your stuff, eh?

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RE: SUB DROP - 5/18/2012 6:46:23 PM   
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congrats, MisterSpeaksStrangely. You did an unattributed copy of BDSM 101. Be so kind to source your stuff, eh?


He plagiarized the OP from somewhere else?

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RE: SUB DROP - 5/18/2012 6:55:56 PM   
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To you my Master, who I love so much with all I have you give me everything I need and support me so well, but there is one pain that you neglect within us, your slaves, that is Slave Drop also called Sub Drop, please understand this is real pain different to the pain that I suffered in my submission, this is as hurtful to the mind and continues so I give to you a message written by Bea Amor that means so much to me as if written to me,



I think the lack of paragraphs made us miss the attribute.

From the search function:

Does subdrop actually exist.

Subdrop and subzone

Do male subs get subdrop

When to back off - morning brats

Sub drop - see post 4 for a bunch more links to search results





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RE: SUB DROP - 5/18/2012 7:43:30 PM   
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So who's sock puppet is this thing?

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RE: SUB DROP - 5/18/2012 8:01:47 PM   
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I already got a special gold letter for saying who I think it is so I'll be very quiet now.

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RE: SUB DROP - 5/18/2012 8:11:22 PM   
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I already got a special gold letter for saying who I think it is so I'll be very quiet now.


Share?


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RE: SUB DROP - 5/18/2012 8:15:41 PM   
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RE: SUB DROP - 5/18/2012 10:49:22 PM   
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Okay, personal opinion...and if it gets pulled it gets pulled. I think he is Bob Dole. You know Bob Dole talks in third person. And Bob Dole talks about himself often. And Bob Dole knows everything....because Bob Dole knows what Bob Dole knows.....just as Bob Dole if you don't believe me.

As for the actual topic...anyone want to talk about it? I have seen sub drop a few times. I think I have seen it more in women than in men. I rarely spend time with women but it seems (IMHO) that women go there more often than men do.

Anyone have an opinion about this?

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RE: SUB DROP - 5/18/2012 11:10:23 PM   
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I think he is Bob Dole.


LOL!

Or maybe Bo Jackson....

http://vimeo.com/14145097

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RE: SUB DROP - 5/18/2012 11:21:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

I already got a special gold letter for saying who I think it is so I'll be very quiet now.


Share?


May I have mail too, LW?

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RE: SUB DROP - 5/18/2012 11:38:11 PM   
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As for the actual topic...anyone want to talk about it? I have seen sub drop a few times. I think I have seen it more in women than in men. I rarely spend time with women but it seems (IMHO) that women go there more often than men do.

Anyone have an opinion about this?


My crash tends to coincide with the physical intensity of the scene so the harder the climb, the harder the crash, usually around 30 mins or so after the chemicals start dropping. I love that time of 'after play' but before my feet have completely touched down to Earth again .. the part where I get to start actually feeling the pain my mind blocked out while my body was going into auto-defense mode. Don't get me wrong.. I like the climb, I like the flight.. but equally enjoyable is the parachute ride back, then the hard landing and the subsequent release - a definite perk and a reason in and of itself to indulge and engage in SM in the first place. For me, it wouldn't be as good without the crash. Once I spend the emotions in whatever manner they are spent and I have not had anything like post-session drops days later so can't speak to that sort of issue. Pure physical for me and an absolute pleasure in almost every regard.

Love me some SM.

It does seem logical to assume that gender would play a role in sub drop given the connection between hormones, pain sensitivity, mood etc. I would be more surprised if I learned gender did not play at least some sort of role in the matter.



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RE: SUB DROP - 5/18/2012 11:46:09 PM   
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Okay mystery novelists - I have been wondering about this all day.

Whats with the ICE CREAM CONE? Shouldnt he have a double handcuff at this point? I DONT GET IT.

I am confused !!!

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RE: SUB DROP - 5/18/2012 11:54:08 PM   
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I use ananda yoga techniques on my partner (and myself) post-scene to re-balance. While he is usually very tired and spaced out, I'm hyper-energized with adrenaline and won't sleep for two days if I don't do this. We both do a series of supported side twist (beginning on the right, ending on the left), child pose, then an extended (30 minutes or more) savasana or legs at the wall (my personal favorite.) I will do the last pose in a dark, quiet, separate room. It helps me disengage from the scene and return to myself, quieting the synapses still firing.

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RE: SUB DROP - 5/18/2012 11:59:26 PM   
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I usually sub drop after a hard session. For me it's just the crash of the endorphins and all that, just like a runner's high. I get those "withdrawal" symptoms...clammy skin, hot and cold at the same time, glassy eyes, and I just want to be quiet and just sit next to him for awhile until I recover. I'm usually functional by the next day but it takes me about 2 to 3 days to really recover.

Master gets Dom drop quite often so he usually likes me give him a massage because he likes the touch, the connection and intimacy during that time. Personally I think it takes him just as long to recover as me.


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RE: SUB DROP - 5/19/2012 12:23:32 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain

Okay, personal opinion...and if it gets pulled it gets pulled. I think he is Bob Dole. You know Bob Dole talks in third person. And Bob Dole talks about himself often. And Bob Dole knows everything....because Bob Dole knows what Bob Dole knows.....just as Bob Dole if you don't believe me.

As for the actual topic...anyone want to talk about it? I have seen sub drop a few times. I think I have seen it more in women than in men. I rarely spend time with women but it seems (IMHO) that women go there more often than men do.

Anyone have an opinion about this?


Well I was thinking the first name but not the last.

As for drop, in my last relationship I would have terrible drop, at times lasting for days. I was expected to self-recover, and I did, but it was very difficult. Sometimes I'd go spend the night at my cousin's (she's my closest friend) and she would take care of me.

Now we both get exhausted, but don't drop.

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RE: SUB DROP - 5/19/2012 2:47:23 AM   
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It's hard to imagine anyone taking you seriously.

That said, sub drop is hardly a fresh topic. BDSM 101.


This.

Do you speak in third person to your subs? That could be a reason for her getting so exhausted. Could explain the sleeping too.

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RE: SUB DROP - 5/19/2012 5:51:59 AM   
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Congratulations. Growth is progress!


Very true words.

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RE: SUB DROP - 5/19/2012 5:54:03 AM   
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ICE CREAM CONE?


Maybe this Master is thought of as a child, only worthy of an ice cream cone, you recall Elmo who became public enemy number one, a red muppet who spoke just like this Master.

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RE: SUB DROP - 5/19/2012 6:00:44 AM   
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I think he is Bob Dole.


LOL!

Or maybe Bo Jackson....

http://vimeo.com/14145097

Wanna hear one of life's great all-time ironies.

Yeah, Bo talked about Bo in 3rd person....and many many athletes have imitated Bo since, which has led to third person talking becoming a standard part of first the sports landscape, then entered the MSM...but Bo only talked about BO that way because Bo was a massive stutterer.

So all these cats who do it to be cool are really just imitating a handicapped person :-)

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