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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 6/14/2012 6:43:26 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissKittyDeVine

The answer to them has to be:

WHAT WOULD YOU KNOW ABOUT GIVING SOMEONE A GOOD FUCK!!!


quote:

ORIGINAL: Delilya

I get messages from Doms wishing to convert me. Most say all I need is a good fuck.





Yaaaaaaaaaaay, Miss Kitty!

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 6/14/2012 10:32:13 PM   
artemiss


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady

Long, long ago, when we were still using Compuserve and AOL chat rooms to connect, I was chatting with this guy.  Mind you, I was VERY new to this at this point in time.  He started talking about how he wanted to stick the shower head up my ass, and shoot hot water in my ass.  I basically told him, I didn't have a death wish, and ended the conversation.

Then a few years back, when I was still ok with play dates, I had a play date with this guy that I had played with before.  He decided he wanted to fist my ass.  Now this was not something new to me, and it is something I enjoy.  However, he didn't have a clue what he was doing.  He thought he could dry fist me.  Hell no.  I told him to stop, he didn't listen.  Told him again, still not listening.  No "three strikes" in my book, I swung around and punched him in the jaw!  Needless to say, that ended everything and he was so shocked I had actually hit him.  Honestly, I was probably more shocked.  I had never hit anyone in my life before, and haven't since.  But I did give him a good right hook and I was quite proud of myself, lol.



Haha, I had a similar reaction once during a threesome.  I had made it very clear that penetration without protection was off limits.  The top tried to take me from behind while I was distracted playing with a gorgeous young air force boy.  Swung around so quick, my elbow connected with his jaw and dislocated it. 

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 6/15/2012 12:42:44 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Online the worst were the ones who decided that since they didn't share my hard limit, the first thing they would do was break it. Like being totally untrustworthy and causing me panic attacks is how to promote trust.

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 6/15/2012 1:05:51 AM   
ClassIsInSession


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Status: offline 		There are some real nut jobs out there no doubt. I wonder sometimes though, that some seem to like suggestive enticements, others immediately say game over at the first mention. I'm not talking about overtly grease ball comments, like the "great tits, can't wait to play with them" comment, but I think individually, there are some temperament differences that are worth discussing here. That alone might make for an interesting thread. It is funny to see how many men expect you to miss totally their complete insecurity as much as it oozes through the cracks of their psyche and believe they have the golden penis.

Personally, I'm more consumed with my art than with relationships or sex for that matter, so...

Sometimes I think women need to be reminded though, that no one has the monopoly on vagina either. There's a lot of that mentality floating around as well.

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 6/15/2012 1:49:00 AM   
Aim2Plea


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Status: offline 		God.. those types of Doms seem to be the only ones who are interested in me. My first interaction on this website was some old guy who wanted to pay for lip surgery, facial surgery, breast implant surgery, and any nip/tuck that might be required in order to turn me into his personal ts love fuck slave.

Then you've got the financial domination ones. "Your bank account belongs to me now, as do all of your wages." Sure. That's like an awful lot of women out there in general. I didn't realize that so many women were BDSM-lite FM.

Next are the ones who are all "YOU WILL SUCK MY CLIT/COCK/ASS/TOES/BALLS/TAINT AND YOU WILL BEG FOR MORE."
Those are the most hilarious.

God forbid they I dunno... engage in... conversation?

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 6/15/2012 4:07:56 AM   
kalikshama


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lizi

Another Dom told me after a few weeks of seeing each other that it was time for me now to give him my financial assets and he explained the concept of financial slavery to me. I laughed at him and dropped him like a hot potato.


quote:

ORIGINAL: kalthus

Financial slavery is fucking hilarious. Who the hell would fall for that? You'd have to be a total idiot!

Oh - hang on - thats 'marriage'...


quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

you'd be surprised


quote:

ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

This.^ There are some houses where the "Head" runs everything, finances included. And yes, that would be marriage as well,lol.


Note lizi's mention of financial slavery was in the context of having seen each other for a few weeks, not in a marriage.

To paraphrase JeffBC, one should not seek absolute authority without assuming absolute responsibility.

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 6/15/2012 4:08:07 AM   
Deliena


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when it comes to people and data I have the memory of a London cabbie. It's served me well.
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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 6/15/2012 5:30:06 AM   
mons


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Mons (Are the rooms still there?)

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 6/15/2012 5:36:53 AM   
Deliena


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From: Darlington, United Kingdom
Status: offline 		I have no idea if they are but suddenly I'm gripped with a desire to find out LMAO

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quote:

when it comes to people and data I have the memory of a London cabbie. It's served me well.
LadyHibiscus 13th June 2012 shamelessly stolen and will not be returned

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 6/15/2012 6:18:45 AM   
smartsub10


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam


quote:

ORIGINAL: smartsub10


"Wow, what great tits!!! I'm going to have so much fun with them!!"



You say that and yet there's not even a clothed pic of em on your profile. *SIGHS*


I'm pretty sure I posted a pic of my bewbage on the "keeping abreast" thread from last year. Maybe you can find it there.

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 6/15/2012 8:34:48 AM   
Delilya


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissKittyDeVine

The answer to them has to be:

WHAT WOULD YOU KNOW ABOUT GIVING SOMEONE A GOOD FUCK!!!


quote:

ORIGINAL: Delilya

I get messages from Doms wishing to convert me. Most say all I need is a good fuck.





Exactly!!


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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 6/15/2012 2:32:50 PM   
Soyokaze


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Status: offline 		Met one person (was trans) who started out pretty awesome, but then some little things were weird where it was obvious she was disconnected from reality... Then she started talk about wanting me to do self-surgery and that the emergency room visit (to fix inevitable mistakes) + psych ward trip would be cheaper than getting it legitly done...

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 6/15/2012 6:41:40 PM   
Deliena


Posts: 623
Joined: 6/16/2007
From: Darlington, United Kingdom
Status: offline 		You are feckin kidding??? That's some serious kind of dangerous. Huzzah from escaping that one!

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Team UK
quote:

when it comes to people and data I have the memory of a London cabbie. It's served me well.
LadyHibiscus 13th June 2012 shamelessly stolen and will not be returned

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 6/15/2012 10:07:54 PM   
landrezy


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Status: offline 		Just reading profiles on this site gives one a lesson in how many horrible D's there are out there.

I have often woke up in the morning and been happy I was not born with a vagina, but after reading some of the "don't send me messages calling me names and assume I'm going to be your slave, don't demand things of me if you haven't met me" crap I am both happy I possess a penis and sad at what it seems to do to my fellow man.

This is a cerebral game. You can fake the looks, you can fake the tools, you can fake the physical side of this, but you can't fake the brain game. Either you have it, or you don't.


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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 6/16/2012 1:06:48 AM   
kitkat105


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From: Eating dutch crunch in the Silicon Valley
Status: offline 		I learned a very important early on the other side. I hadn't realised I had all categories checked.. thinking I was looking for friends of all kinds. I had a "Dominant" who even though he knew I was in a relationship was completely convinced that I would change my mind and casually play. And by casually play, they meant fuck him. And by him, I meant them.

Oh wait. I just described every HNG on the other side. I can't stand men using BDSM as a way of procuring NSA sex. Luckily, only 2 of them got possessive (yes, really!), leading to them both being blocked.

I'm just really grateful that I accidently found someone so lovely they've made this journey an absolute joy.

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 6/16/2012 5:39:21 PM   
WinsomeDefiance


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Status: offline 		I wouldn't call him a dominant, but the worst I came across was one who couldn't get aroused unless he was piercing someone's flesh (ignorning hard limits and safewords) and became physically abusive when he couldn't get hard even with needles and safety pins.

Not even in the worst category but honorable mentions:

The Dom who threatened to "out" me to my children when I told him after meeting him, that I was sorry, but I wasn't really interested in him.
The Dom who wanted to finger me under the table at our first coffee meet, which happened to be at a family restaurant with kids all around.
The Dom who stalked me after meeting me at a munch. The day after the munch I looked out of my kitchen window (I was doing the dishes) and there he was, in my driveway staring up at me.
The Dom who said we were meeting at a public place, and the address turned out to be a motel.
The Dom who told me he loved me and wanted us to get married while we where having our second 'date/meeting'.

Yep, I've been put off dating/meeting dominant men for a long time now.

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 6/16/2012 6:38:29 PM   
kalikshama


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quote:

The Dom who told me he loved me and wanted us to get married while we where having our second 'date/meeting'.


I had one of these! He added, "I WILL impregnate you."

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 6/16/2012 6:40:14 PM   
WinsomeDefiance


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kalikshama

quote:

The Dom who told me he loved me and wanted us to get married while we where having our second 'date/meeting'.


I had one of these! He added, "I WILL impregnate you."


LOL, so did he. I forgot about it, because I barely heard him through the laughter (mine.)

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 6/16/2012 7:08:27 PM   
OsideGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

The Dom who told me he loved me and wanted us to get married while we where having our second 'date/meeting'.



I've had a few 'nillas that did that to me. Among my friends I hold the record for marriage proposals at 11 times. Including some middle eastern guy who said he was in the oil business and left one his business cards in case I was interested in becoming one of his wives. I keep trying to explain to my friends that creepy, stalker proposals don't count.


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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 6/16/2012 10:50:51 PM   
hlen5


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Status: offline 		New contender:



Dear Hellen, This Gentleman would love to use you as his personal lick slave. Please enjoy my profile as I have enjoyed reading yours. You have a place beneath my throne where you will be commanded to savor my every crevice. I have lived in Europe for three years and have a civilized and intelligent way of being dominant.

My reply:

I can see that. Inviting me to lick your taint in your first message to me is very civilized and intelligent.



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