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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

Excuse me, SirVVV -- I have to amend your statement, all PEOPLE are assholes, at least some time. Some are more assholish than others, some can hide that they are an asshole, some have learned to tone the asshole bit down.

Personally I * always* reserve my right to become an asshole if I believe it is necessary.

Speaking of being an asshole . . .

Your gender specific statement is just bullshit to me. Sure some men are primarily assholes, some are not, some women are the pot calling the kettle black. Who gives a fucking shit?

People are what they are, if you don't like them, don't deal with them. If their philosophy does not agree with yours, move the fuck on.

This is the internet; there are assholes. Get. Used. To. It.

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ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

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My sweetie assures me that all men are pigs, and are just looking for sex

Men are pigs.


Women are evil.

It has always been thus.

(in reply to kiwisub12)

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ORIGINAL: fetisheden

i wouldnt say ALL men are assholes,closer to 90%.it is the ones who lie to get you into bed, the ones who cheat, the ones who try to fuck children,the ones who leave when you are pregnant that are ruining it for the rest.don't complain to women about it. talk to other men.ask them to stop making it bad for you

http://goodmenproject.com/

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ORIGINAL: Barbiezz

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ORIGINAL: fetisheden

i wouldnt say ALL men are assholes,closer to 90%.it is the ones who lie to get you into bed, the ones who cheat, the ones who try to fuck children,the ones who leave when you are pregnant that are ruining it for the rest.don't complain to women about it. talk to other men.ask them to stop making it bad for you

http://goodmenproject.com/

This is what I was thinking.. well stated

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Men are pigs.


Women are evil.

It has always been thus.

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ORIGINAL: Kana

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Men are pigs.


Women are evil.

It has always been thus.

No no.

The way I heard it goes
All men are scum, but all women are psycho


Now the real question is, "Are men scum because psycho women drove em to it...ooooor...are women psycho because dealing with scummy men pushed em over the edge?

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

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ORIGINAL: Kana

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Men are pigs.


Women are evil.

It has always been thus.

No no.

The way I heard it goes
All men are scum, but all women are psycho


Now the real question is, "Are men scum because psycho women drove em to it...ooooor...are women psycho because dealing with scummy men pushed em over the edge?

Yes.

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ORIGINAL: Kana

That's just mean.

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ORIGINAL: SirVVV



My intension was to bring attention to the simple fact that nowadays, when it comes to meeting new people, there is no longer any kind of presumption of innocence. Everybody is a creep, crook, asshole or whatever other label you have habdy at the time.

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That was the way I understood it. But, my response is different. Why would a guy want to be with a woman that is bitter enough to think that all men are assholes? Seriously, talk about making your life way more difficult than it needs to be.

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ORIGINAL: cloudboy

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That was the way I understood it. But, my response is different. Why would a guy want to be with a woman that is bitter enough to think that all men are assholes? Seriously, talk about making your life way more difficult than it needs to be.

I see it a little differently. Men and women have completely different experiences in the online kink world. Women really do have to sort through gobs of male attention, much of it: inappropriate, misleading, presumptuous, self centered, ill thought, etc.

Although some women may think "all men are assholes," the truth is more likely that women develop a kind of porcupine-like exterior as a natural defense mechanism to their immediate environment. This confounds men, because we have no need for such outer defenses, and when we see female attitudes so different from our own, we make poor inferences: i.e. she thinks all men are assholes.

To illustrate this consider a woman living in NYC for eight years. She probably half dreads looking in her mailbox b/c she'll have to throw out all the junk mail, sort the bills, etc. She lives in a different world then a man posted to Alaska who gets two letters a month from close friends.

If we asked the man and woman in this world, "what do you think of the mail," we'd get two completely different answers. The problem? Neither would be talking about the same thing.

A guy's job is to get out of the junk mail, monthly bills, solicitations mail stream -- if he can do that -- maybe then he can actually find out if the woman he courts truly hates men...