DarkSteven
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ORIGINAL: areallivehuman Fast reply to the original poster I'd like to share this story with you. 3 or so years back I divorced my crazy drunk of a wife. I was looking, 50 something, and in somewhat of a unique situation. While I would not term myself as a "lover" of BBWs, neither am I a hater. To me, the mental connection is much more important. So I did not disqualify women who were overweight, hell, that would severely diminish my pool of prospects. I was overweight my whole life. Not severe, not obese, but always a good 50 pounds too heavy. Four years ago, because of health reasons, I became a vegan/health nut. I lost my 50 pounds, and then some. I learned a lot about nutrition, food, and cooking. So, I met a woman, right here on CM. She lived 100 miles from me, in a city I was visiting frequently for work We had dinner one night, just exactly a year ago as a matter of fact (HAPPY ANNIVERSARY BABY). She was overweight, even obese, and diabetic. There was, however, an unmistakable mental connection. To me, where there is a mental attraction, there is physical attraction. We discussed diet in depth, on that first date, as well as many other things. That led to a second date, and then into a weekend only long distance relationship. She began to follow my dietary lead, on her own, at her own pace. You can guess the rest, she lost weight, reversed her diabetes, I moved her in 4 months ago, and we are living happily ever after. I was looking for a mate. Although I did not wish to control someone to the point of telling them what to eat every meal, my personal dietary requirements are quite strict, and take some time and effort to follow. I definitely needed someone who was on board with my "lifestyle". So, I basically put the tools to lose weight at her disposal, it was up to her to pick them up and use them. She still qualifies as a BBW. She could stand to lose 20 or so pounds. Her health is greatly improved. I couldn't love her more, nor could I care if she never lost another ounce. I guess that my point is, there is someone out there for you. Good luck in your search. Excellent post, and a great example of the kind of man that OP should be looking for.
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