AthenaSurrenders
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ORIGINAL: Kana Ahem. Not to start any shit or anything (hehehehe, believe that and I have a bridge to sell ya) ut I always find these kinda threads amusing. People like different shit. Some people want skinny, others big, some humungous. Others prefer white, black, asian, short, tall, petite,, hell, maybe they only like cross dressing middle aged plump one armed Chilean fisherman. Who the funk knows. What I do think is that pretty much everyone who howls about why everyone should be accepted also would be quick as fuck to be creeped out if some 95 year old guy was macking on em. We all have certain attractions. We also have things that totally turn us off. And nobody, as in nobody, is open to everyone and everything. So, if someone likes some particular type/age/race/religion, that cool with me. And if they don't have a particular affinity for, oooooooooooh crosseyed lepers, that's cool with me too. But don't be expecting my ass to like everyone. And I sure as hell don't expect the same from others. I agree with this. If you refuse to give someone a job, or invite them to your street-party just because they are fat/black/gay/muslim/a one-armed Chilean, that makes you an ass. In your own intimate relationships, however, you can set any criteria you like. Sure, the more restrictions you place the more chance of you never finding a match, but that's an individual decision. If I want to set an arbitrary limit of 'no one who wears size 13 or above shoes', that's my call. My love life is not equal opportunities and I do not owe anyone a chance. And why would you want to be with someone who didn't find you appealing? Though I will say that personally I'm turned off by anyone who leads with a list of physical criteria. I think by putting it out there all over your profile says that the physical appearance is number 1 priority. There's a line between saving people time by letting them know they're not your type, and just coming across and shallow.
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