quote:

ORIGINAL: Endivius

I've never been into Bowling, it's just not a sport I can respect. If that makes me a dick so be it. And women bowlers? Might as well watch paint dry. It's just as exciting and at least the paint won't make me feel guilty for watching 40 yr old lesbians dressed in men's clothing chest bumb eachother for getting a spare.

quote:

ORIGINAL: JstAnotherSub
But, it also is not impossible that there could be that "twitch" upon meeting a fat chick, and, after discovering her deepest self, you decide that you would be willing to be her cheerleader and motivator, in all aspects, not just health.

quote:

ORIGINAL: AngelinChainz
Doms that do not accept BBWs

quote:

ORIGINAL: DominantTweaker

Mr Focus50 put it simply and to the point. 'thumbs up'.

Myself I get a LOT of obese sub women and men ( I am Bi ) at the beginning want to engender a D/s relationship with Me.

I do not turn them away 'even tho' I am NOT attracted to obese sub's.

Being obese is a facet of Your inner heavy sad self manifesting on the outside , it is one of the few outer manifestations that can change thru a new lifestyle perspective and journey to unfold a completely new person which is GREAT , and I want anyone who is very obese to know that You CAN be kind of 're born' so think positive.

I have never connected completely with a very obese sub to the point of placing a collar on her or him, why , because of all the obese sub's I have met they do not want Me to literately train them all the way, and they have not been realy ready to put in the hard personal work 'themselves' under My tutelage / leadership to be the high standard human being they can be. Mostly they want Me to save them and no one can save another person from Your own adult responsibility to look after Your own health.

*Sigh, I am what You mite call a 'positively polarized' Man I look at a person and see their potential vs there present state, I route for the underdog.

I have heard all the excuses, " I have diabetes" ... " I have arthritis" ... " It is genetic" ... " I have chronic fatigue syndrome" ... "I have bad knees" , flat feet etc...etc...

Truth is, that 'physically' is it a matter of mathematics, calories in and stored vs calories out and burned.

Example: anyone who goes to a Nazi concentration camp for 1 year no matter how morbidly obese will be slim as an NBA center forward it's al math baby lol.
The sticky wicket is your inner emotions, the problem is in your mind and psyche.

Many obese people eat to comfort themselves to replace the mother they never had or lost , they are their own mom.

Many obese women are heavy as a self defense protection from the gross sexual attention and advances from sexually abusive selfish male pig's ( beauty & sexual attractiveness has a definite down side ) as any Master / Dominant Man knows that the so called "perfect 10 " female sub can hide a HUGE ego and never wish to be truly tamed and surrender to Master.

Beautiful women can many times be like left a handed fighter and tennis player, they get more attention and score more points for some thing they did not even work for and more ego support than is healthy and they can be monstrously narcissistic and make crappy shallow parents and life partners.

Digressing: when some obese women reach adulthood they can miss some of the rote ego support through sexual attention they never got that they wish they had in moderation they end up being VERY promiscuous in order to gain back some of what they never had.

Some obese women become total sluts to 'get back' at men and have some control of the men who never loved them by trying to become a fix / fixation to the men and get close to the handsome guys they know will never marry them.

This can get real deep and perhaps is not for this forum ?

Please excuse me if I talk about obese sub's as a clinical 'thing' and not as a precious individual human being , ok.

I look at the true submissive ( obese for sure ) differently than I do a vanilla obese sub, and defiantly different that a Dominant person, I see that they in a positive way they NEED guidance , training, discipline, self discipline, leadership, an example etc.... more so than any Dominant Woman or Man, and so this is My job much like the Marines take a sad sack soft ball of goo and strip away the civilian laissez faire malaise to reveal the highly tuned machine .

Many times the obese person needs to be injected with self confidence by proxy.

Conversely most of the time they tend to look for a savior to save them from their own self pity and chronic doubt and I shy away from ANY sub looking for Me to save them because when a person puts You up on a pedestal and then they see that You are not the perfect person Man God that they made You out to be they will try to break down the altar they put You on it's called love - hate )

Jesus saves You 'from' what you are, the Marines demand you to be the best you 'can' be , and Master is some were in the middle , lol.

Wrapping this up, ti do not reject the sincere BBW or obese Male, but I am VERY strict and picky I have to be I only have one life and so much time to put into any sub to be my eventual slave.

I hope this rant has been helpful to all the BBW's who are looking for guidance and a friendly "U Go Girl"