cariad
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Joined: 9/25/2004 From: Calgary, Alberta Status: offline
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"As novice submissives, many of us are/were so eager for approval and trusting that we'd allow ourselves to get talked into stupid situations." how very true that is.......i (yes i've changed from girl to i, me, mine and my) remember when i was new to the lifestyle and got talked into many a stupid situatioin where i ended up having my heart broken or far too many bruises for my liking.... i took my Mentors advice this time around and have gone to Him with many a question when i wasn't sure of the answer and was glad that i did so. yes i am a mature adult that can simply say no, dump those that need it into the ignore bin, and block emails, however there is a time when trying to put one's foot down that we need help from someone outside the situation at hand. if my Mentor were to tell me every time i got an email that i couldn't talk to so and so because He felt they weren't going to give me anything but grief (and yes i am going through that right now but that's a different subject for a different time) i wouldn't have gotten to do half the stuff i have done recently. at any rate it's been one of those days i wish i had a never ending fountain of chocolate and some Ben and Gerry's Ice Cream to drown my problems in. good luck and Blessed Be
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