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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ
You want more honesty: my guess is that your sex life is limited because you are a lousy lay.

There are all kinds of strategies to deal with asthma.
Asthma while having sex falls under the exercise induced type and that is manageable.

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ORIGINAL: deliriuminabox

Wow. Seriously?

Please tell me this is a terrible attempt at trolling. I promise I'll laugh.

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ORIGINAL: trustandesire

Why is it so difficult to find a younger, serious sub/slave on here? My profile is honest and sincere. I don't seek the extreme, unusual or impossible. I simply want to find a local who fits any one of my several desires. If anyone reads this, can you at least tell me what I am doing wrong?

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ORIGINAL: trustandesire

I am a straight Dominant man. Not much experience. My wife is 100% vanilla, .01% bi. Totally old school. We have very limited sex life due to her asthma and other issues. Both 50 yrs old. How do I get her to suggest or welcome a younger slave into our marriage of 30+ years. I'm looking for simple dominance, a sex / domestic slave who obeys. My wife has no idea of my desires of dominance but knows I am dominant as she also is. She has no idea of this lifestyle or that a "slave" even exists.

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ORIGINAL: OvrThRainbow

I've been reading the forums for quite a while and one thing that stands out are the married men who come here to look for sex. The assumption is that women on a kink site are loose and immoral and are lining up to satisfy old men who blame their wives for a sexless marriage. Of course, they (the men) want to keep the security of staying married while willy-boy has a good time.
The tone of the posts is "poor me, my wife won't have sex with me. She won't indulge my kinks. What else can I do but cheat?"
Then, they get annoyed when the hot, young subbies don't want to give them a whirl.

As Spock would say:

Fascinating.

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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ
You want more honesty: my guess is that your sex life is limited because you are a lousy lay.

There are all kinds of strategies to deal with asthma.
Asthma while having sex falls under the exercise induced type and that is manageable.

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ORIGINAL: FrostedFlake

Hire a pro.

Edit to remove the word : Idiot.

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So stop dreaming, don't tell your wife, and stop being such a selfish prick (both with your wife, as well as this hypothetical woman you're looking for you're being a selfish prick) because as long as you keep being a man who thinks that the world revolves around his dick, you will be so fundamentally undeserving of having any woman in your life that you'll never make one happy, let alone two.

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Because you're not offering anything that would be even remotely appealing to the type of woman who would want to be a slave.

You're wanting a sex kitten to be at your beck and call, whenever you want her, but for you to be completely unavailable for her when she needs you, because it all needs to fit in with lying to your wife.

Women who look to be slaves usually look to do so because they feel that being in a M/s will give them the opportunity to be closer to their mate, rely on him more, have more of his time and guidance, have more of his attention, have more of his interaction, have more involvement of him in her life and activities, have more of his direction, than a vanilla relationship offers.

Women who look to be slaves don't look for relationships in which they can be more independent from their partner than they would be in a vanilla relationship. They don't look to be single, and have a sex play mate on the side, so that they can maintain independence and freedom and focus on their career, like some -very few- vanilla women do want.

Everything you've even remotely trying to offer to this girl is the absolute OPPOSITE of what a woman with slave-tendencies would be looking for in a relationship.