LadyConstanze
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LL, eating disorders are very very difficult and being confrontational doesn't help. I'm not being snarky here, but it took a while to have my thyroid diagnosed, came from out of nowhere during my teenage days (well, a lot of steroids after a nasty accident possibly helped effing it up, but most of it is genetic), I was accused of sneak eating and stuff, the only option to stay in a shape that had the approval of my mom was really being bulemic, when I was 16 I got finally treatment. it took me close to 2 decades to not see food as an enemy, if I go shopping I usually automatically go to sizes 14 to 16 because that is what my body looks to me, then a shop assistant usually gently herds me back to 2/4/6 depending on the manufacturer. Logically I know, but subconsciousness often takes over. I actually need that livestrong ap to make sure I have regular meals, because once I start skipping them, I get the high from not eating and a vicious circle starts. Logically I know I'm not anywhere near obese, but I look in the mirror and I see all the flaws, I'm aware there is a disconnect but it took me almost 2 decades to actually deal with it in a reasonable way. I don't want to play the armchair shrink, but to me it seems as if dollparts is using the bulemic tendencies as a way of control, because her medical conditions have spiralled out of control, not helped by her being bulemic at all, when we are in desperate situations, we tend to grab every straw that lets us cling on to sanity. I hope she does get help and I hope she does it ASAP, but she needs to realize that her body is not her enemy. It's not something you just decide, sometimes people can't see the forest due to all the trees.
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