AthenaSurrenders
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Honestly, I'd guess the people who are writing that in personal ads aren't getting many takers. Sounds like someone pretty unrealistic in their fantasies to me, not someone with much practical experience. Some folks don't need safewords because they play in such a way that ordinary communication isn't hampered - the sub can just say 'wait, something isn't right'. That's obviously not the case if the person is saying the safeword won't be 'honored'. Others might decide, once trust is built up, to dispense with safe words, but that's a risky game for anyone since there's always things you can't account for. Anyone who is saying they won't allow safewords from the beginning might as well just tattoo 'abuser' across their forehead, because they clearly don't care about the submissive's safety. In reality, if the sub withdraws consent by safewording and the dominant continues it becomes assault and/or rape. Edit: Lynnxz said it faster and better
< Message edited by AthenaSurrenders -- 3/20/2014 1:52:31 PM >
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