littleladybug
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ORIGINAL: littleladybug Honestly....if some guy says "hey beautiful, what's up?" as you're walking by...are you really physically threatened every time? Of course not. But you don't know which time you will be physically threatened if you do or don't respond. And this happens to every female once she's old enough to be in middle school. Yes it does. But, you know? Living in fear of those idiots that do it isn't the answer either. I learned early on just to continue to walk. Over 9 times out of 10, that will solve the issue. I believe that I'm far more likely to be accosted by someone who *doesn't* approach me in that way. The true predators....those people to really be "afraid of" don't have this MO. At least, that's my experience. The vast majority of these "cat callers" are idiots, to be sure...Boors with no social skills. And boors who, more than 9 times out of 10, will just leave things be if you turn and walk away. I grew up walking in the streets of NYC. I've seen all of this crap. And, without carrying a gun, I've made it through, just like the vast majority of females. I also grew up without fear. Yes, there were places you didn't go, especially at night...but you still went about your life (actually...back in my early days, you wouldn't tread into the subway....certainly things have changed...). I actually don't believe much else has really changed, with the exception of the response. And, I will go back to what I said earlier... ignoring and walking away. The tried and true method.
< Message edited by littleladybug -- 11/3/2014 4:59:48 PM >
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