Gauge
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ORIGINAL: domincalifornia Just because someone starts a thread doesn't mean they are obligated to respond to everyone who writes a comment to them. They can step out anytime they want, and stop talking to anyone anytime they want. Thanks for clearing that up for me. Of course that is the case, but for this thread in particular, where someone is taking a pot shot (and not their first one) at the community, perhaps sticking around would be a great idea so you can be heard. What precipitated this thread was a comment by the OP to the community that we ran off yet another new poster. I could link back to it, but all you have to do is search post history to find it. It is a pretty lofty indictment of the community as a whole to be told that we are intolerant of new people when the reality is that this community does pretty well overall. Do we have faults? Sure, but I do not see them as glaring ones, I see them as normal. New people pop up all the time, post once, shit stir and vanish... this says to me that they were never going to stick around in the first place. Others might shit stir and post a few times and get folks good and riled up, and vanish, not because they were treated poorly, but because I believe it is an outside effort to stir the community up, though not always. That last statement is not paranoia, we have had it happen more than once. quote:
My feeling is if you perceive someone is continually dodging questions and you don't enjoy engaging them in discussion, then it's on you to simply not bother to talk to them. There is a very short list of people that I do not bother engaging on this forum. However, I refuse to allow someone to spit in my oatmeal and I just take it without saying a word. If the OP wants to blast the community, then let's hear it. Fire away... this was why this thread was started, at least that is why I thought it was started.
< Message edited by Gauge -- 12/4/2014 11:40:58 PM >
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