CarpeComa
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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
Oh my heart bleeds for you, and apparently you can't wear a condom, which would solve most of those problems, or simply not fuck around. Why should she run the risks of having hormones in her system just because you want to dip your wick? Put something over it, it's really THAT simple.
If you worry about getting mugged or beaten up, well, don't fall asleep in the gutter.
Husband/boyfriend - yeah they are so going to find you in a hotel room....
Oh my heart bleeds for you, you can't get drunk around random people. You can't be on the pill or use a diaphragm of some kind.
If you worry about getting raped, well, don't go hanging out in the ghetto after dark.
If they are already suspicious, a significant other might find a hotel room.
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ORIGINAL: CarpeComa
As far as getting 'paid less for having ovaries'. When experience and career choices are taken into account, the discrepancy between male and female salaries is almost nil. (2%-5%, which is within the typical margin of error and may represent a risk premium on the part of the employer).
Colour of the sky on your planet? http://www.jstor.org/stable/146021?seq=1#page_scan_tab_contents
That abstract makes no mention of controlling for experience, only generally controlling for occupation. Unless you work for a university or are currently a student, it seems unlikely that you have read this to verify the contents and I'm not shelling out $20 to review a random study. Try something ungated. Plus this research is almost 30 years old. Now I am the first to say that just because research is old doesn't make it invalid, but it is clear and common knowledge that the job market has changed significantly since the 1980s.
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You have heard about that magical invention, they are called CONDOMS and they let a guy take an ACTIVE part in birth control, let me tell you how it works, you purchase condoms, you put them over your dick, that's the whole magic, if you can't do that, maybe you shouldn't fuck!
Haven't you heard of this magical invention called water? If you can't hold your liquor, maybe you shouldn't go drinking around strange people! How is you having to take reasonable precautions is too onerous, but me having to take them is fine? That is no less than bigoted behavior placing unilateral expectations.
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ORIGINAL: CarpeComa
Again, what's the colour of the sky on your planet? You mean because your knuckled drag on the floor we are all stuck swinging from tree to tree?
Do you have a specific claim you wish to dispute the validity of? Or just fling ad hominems?
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You mean you think you should be allowed to behave like a primate and women should put up with it. matey, wake up, smell the coffee. No what I was proposing is that if you think it might make somebody uncomfy, don't do it, it's called respect and living in a society, of course since you seem to be living in cave you might not get the principle.
Amazing, that isn't what I said at all. My point is that your standard creates problems if applied and is not based on a reasonable understanding of human behavior. I cannot control how I make other people subjectively feel. I can control what I objectively do. Your refusing to have sex with me is making me uncomfortable, so drop your pants.
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ORIGINAL: CarpeComa
If you take into consideration more than the use of direct physical force, the numbers are fairly close. There is some disparity, but it isn't dramatic. If you don't allow for that, then you have to throw away all the date rape statistics and rape then becomes quite rare.
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Wow, just let's ignore all facts, you know like that over 90% of all rape victims are women, the numbers are close to the same, but let us ignore facts and evidence so we take the word of the internet dude who has a problem with women and can't figure out how to use a condom... Yeah that makes sense
And you are wrong. See, you don't want facts, you just want to confirm your bias. You made a claim you felt was safe, but were wrong. http://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/nisvs_report2010-a.pdf pages 18 & 19.
12 month prevalence rounded to the nearest 100K:
All forms of sexual violence: women 7.9 million. Men 6 million.
Forced Sex: Women 1.3 million, Men 1.3 million.
Seems pretty darn close to me.
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Really? Been there? You may want to talk to the police about it, you call up and you tell them you've been rape as a guy, they are there like a flash and drive you to the doctor ASAP. Or did it happen to you and your experience was different? Or are you just talking out of your arse again?
Have you been there? Have you seen a guy attempt to report a rape? Or are you talking out of your arse?
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Translation is, I'm a big muscular guy who gets offers, but because I'm not a woman I do not worry about rape...
We got a lot of gay friends, oddly enough gay men don't tend to turn into animals and rape other guys, how come they can control themselves but straight dudes often can't?
Strawman. You aren't getting randomly raped by men turning into animals nor is that related to what I was referencing. You are being intellectually dishonest. You would be jumping down my throat if I tried something like that, shame on you.
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Btw have you seen a doctor about your pathological fear of wearing a condom?
Should I call you awarness or respectmen?
I must be one hell of a dedicated sock then. Profile has been here for 5+ years and is fleshed out. Do you have any rational argument to make or are you just a font of ad hominem?
< Message edited by CarpeComa -- 11/28/2015 3:31:34 PM >
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