LadyConstanze
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ORIGINAL: CarpeComa
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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
Oh my heart bleeds for you, and apparently you can't wear a condom, which would solve most of those problems, or simply not fuck around. Why should she run the risks of having hormones in her system just because you want to dip your wick? Put something over it, it's really THAT simple.
If you worry about getting mugged or beaten up, well, don't fall asleep in the gutter.
Husband/boyfriend - yeah they are so going to find you in a hotel room....
Oh my heart bleeds for you, you can't get drunk around random people. You can't be on the pill or use a diaphragm of some kind.
If you worry about getting raped, well, don't go hanging out in the ghetto after dark.
If they are already suspicious, a significant other might find a hotel room.
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ORIGINAL: CarpeComa
As far as getting 'paid less for having ovaries'. When experience and career choices are taken into account, the discrepancy between male and female salaries is almost nil. (2%-5%, which is within the typical margin of error and may represent a risk premium on the part of the employer).
Colour of the sky on your planet? http://www.jstor.org/stable/146021?seq=1#page_scan_tab_contents
That abstract makes no mention of controlling for experience, only generally controlling for occupation. Unless you work for a university or are currently a student, it seems unlikely that you have read this to verify the contents and I'm not shelling out $20 to review a random study. Try something ungated. Plus this research is almost 30 years old. Now I am the first to say that just because research is old doesn't make it invalid, but it is clear and common knowledge that the job market has changed significantly since the 1980s.
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You have heard about that magical invention, they are called CONDOMS and they let a guy take an ACTIVE part in birth control, let me tell you how it works, you purchase condoms, you put them over your dick, that's the whole magic, if you can't do that, maybe you shouldn't fuck!
Haven't you heard of this magical invention called water? If you can't hold your liquor, maybe you shouldn't go drinking around strange people! How is you having to take reasonable precautions is too onerous, but me having to take them is fine? That is no less than bigoted behavior placing unilateral expectations.
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ORIGINAL: CarpeComa
Again, what's the colour of the sky on your planet? You mean because your knuckled drag on the floor we are all stuck swinging from tree to tree?
Do you have a specific claim you wish to dispute the validity of? Or just fling ad hominems?
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You mean you think you should be allowed to behave like a primate and women should put up with it. matey, wake up, smell the coffee. No what I was proposing is that if you think it might make somebody uncomfy, don't do it, it's called respect and living in a society, of course since you seem to be living in cave you might not get the principle.
Amazing, that isn't what I said at all. My point is that your standard creates problems if applied and is not based on a reasonable understanding of human behavior. I cannot control how I make other people subjectively feel. I can control what I objectively do. Your refusing to have sex with me is making me uncomfortable, so drop your pants.
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If you take into consideration more than the use of direct physical force, the numbers are fairly close. There is some disparity, but it isn't dramatic. If you don't allow for that, then you have to throw away all the date rape statistics and rape then becomes quite rare.
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Wow, just let's ignore all facts, you know like that over 90% of all rape victims are women, the numbers are close to the same, but let us ignore facts and evidence so we take the word of the internet dude who has a problem with women and can't figure out how to use a condom... Yeah that makes sense
And you are wrong. See, you don't want facts, you just want to confirm your bias. You made a claim you felt was safe, but were wrong. http://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/nisvs_report2010-a.pdf pages 18 & 19.
12 month prevalence rounded to the nearest 100K:
All forms of sexual violence: women 7.9 million. Men 6 million.
Forced Sex: Women 1.3 million, Men 1.3 million.
Seems pretty darn close to me.
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Really? Been there? You may want to talk to the police about it, you call up and you tell them you've been rape as a guy, they are there like a flash and drive you to the doctor ASAP. Or did it happen to you and your experience was different? Or are you just talking out of your arse again?
Have you been there? Have you seen a guy attempt to report a rape? Or are you talking out of your arse?
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Translation is, I'm a big muscular guy who gets offers, but because I'm not a woman I do not worry about rape...
We got a lot of gay friends, oddly enough gay men don't tend to turn into animals and rape other guys, how come they can control themselves but straight dudes often can't?
Strawman. You aren't getting randomly raped by men turning into animals nor is that related to what I was referencing. You are being intellectually dishonest. You would be jumping down my throat if I tried something like that, shame on you.
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Btw have you seen a doctor about your pathological fear of wearing a condom?
Should I call you awarness or respectmen?
I must be one hell of a dedicated sock then. Profile has been here for 5+ years and is fleshed out. Do you have any rational argument to make or are you just a font of ad hominem?
Are you really such a clueless wankbunny as you make out?
You think falling asleep on a sofa after a night out is the same as getting drunk around random people and of course in your world rape only happens in the ghetto and women should always be on birth control to avoid getting pregnant if a stranger rapes them. Lay of the drugs dude!
If you worry about the husband or boyfriend, don't fuck the girl, simple, unless you're the guy who can only get laid by a random stranger because no woman will do it twice with you.
The career market has changed significantly since the 80's however there is still a massive discrepancy in income between men and women.
Try Forbes and a statistic from 2013, where women usually earn 77 cents to the dollar
http://www.forbes.com/sites/meghancasserly/2013/09/19/the-geography-of-the-gender-pay-gap-womens-earnings-by-state/
So you argue everything is the woman's fault, just you don't want to use a condom? As I said you must have a death wish because there are also STDS out there and anybody with an IQ above room temperature would try to prevent them, especially if he picks up random women for random sex, that should worry you a hell lot more than the irate bf or husband.
Apart from the fact that if you don't want to become a father, you can do something yourself, you know, man up, take responsibility and use that condom (and yes, I do think they make them in XS)
As for the whole BS argument that men are just as likely to get raped (you really are a few fries short of a happy meal)
How many women have been raped?
1 out of every 6 American women has been the victim of an attempted or completed rape in her lifetime (14.8% completed rape; 2.8% attempted rape). 17.7 million American women have been victims of attempted or completed rape. 9 of every 10 rape victims were female in 2003.
About 3% of American men — or 1 in 33 — have experienced an attempted or completed rape in their lifetime. In 2003, 1 in every ten rape victims were male. 2.78 million men in the U.S. have been victims of sexual assault or rape.
You can check the statistics with www.rainn.org
The statistics you quoted don't come from rape victims, they come from random phone calls placed by the institute, oddly enough their numbers seem to be significantly different than all the other statistics, isn't that strange?
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T
he National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey
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2010 Summary Report
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for monitoring and responding
to sexual violence, stalking, and
intimate partner violence (CDC,
2000); and a pilot methods study
that was conducted in 2007. The
pilot study was designed to help
address information gaps and
inform the development of a
national intimate partner, sexual
violence, and stalking surveil
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lance system. In 2007, the CDC
also convened an expert panel to
discuss findings from the 2007 pilot
study and to make recommenda
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tions on the design of the NISVS
.
Methods
The National Intimate Partner and
Sexual Violence Survey is a national
random digit dial (RDD) telephone
survey of the non-institutionalized
English and/or Spanish-speaking
U.S. population aged 18 or older.
NISVS uses a dual-frame sampling
strategy that includes both
landline and cell phones. The
survey was conducted in 50 states
and the District of Columbia and
was administered from January
22, 2010 through December 31,
2010. In 2010, a total of 18,049
interviews were conducted (9,970
women and 8,079 men) in the U.S.
general population. This includes
16,507 completed and 1,542
partially completed interviews. A
total of 9,086 females and 7,421
males completed the survey.
Approximately 45.2% of inter
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views were conducted by landline
telephone and 54.8% of interviews
were conducted using a respon
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dent’s cell phone
Obviously you are also aware of the fact that male rape is something feminism takes quite seriously and due to the redefinition of rape (and effort of feminism) men can now report rape...
Here are some more facts from the Rape Crisis Center, obviously you won't like them
http://www.rccmsc.org/resources/get-the-facts.aspx
Here are some more from the National Violence Resource Center
http://www.nsvrc.org/sites/default/files/publications_nsvrc_factsheet_media-packet_statistics-about-sexual-violence_0.pdf
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One in five women and one in 71 men will be raped
at some point in their lives
As for your profile, I have seen it, it actually breaks up, it's not even fleshed out, it screams "I am an insecure dude who wants control and I hope you think I'm really some catch because I mention that I'm friends with important people and they value privacy..." Like you share your CM profile with them? And you crave control, well then learn some control first, nobody is going to hand it over to a dude who has no idea about STDs and condoms, women don't want to fuck a guy who's very likely to give them a disease or doesn't want to take an active part in birth control.
As for your other argument that the guy still has to work, yeah I do consider getting degrees as work, I wouldn't want somebody who's a couch potato and does nothing all day long, and nor would he, but in case he would decide to give up his well paying job tomorrow because he doesn't like it anymore, I would support him and I wouldn't care how much he earns, I just wouldn't put up with somebody who does nothing all day long, but again, he feels the same way. He wouldn't be happy with a lazy partner and nor would I, but when we met, he had just gone back to university to get a few more specialized degrees, he had no assets, I was still dating him, because I tend to date people and not wallets, I absolutely had no issue to pick up the tab when we went out. I just couldn't live with a person who's whole focus on life is watching daytime TV, I expect a bit of intellectual stimulation out of a relationship as well.
And for the record, in the past few years there have been times where I was working in the US for 3 to 6 months stretches, sometimes he took a few weeks or months off and stayed at home to look after the dogs and cats full time (which I considered work), sometimes he decided the contract he was offered was too lucrative and we got a dog walker in. I can assure you that if I would just sit on the sofa and not do anything, he'd also kick my arse to the curb.
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