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Popular BDSM educator/author arrested - 12/23/2015 12:29:53 PM   
Wayward5oul


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I just bought his coloring book to give to a friend. Ugh.
http://m.poststar.com/news/blotter/new-charge-filed-against-oklahoma-man-for-local-runaway/article_6afbc391-8e16-539e-b358-3b89dabbf3e3.html
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RE: Popular BDSM educator/author arrested - 12/23/2015 1:26:39 PM   
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Sucks to be american for him, i guess.
16 is the legal age here

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RE: Popular BDSM educator/author arrested - 12/24/2015 5:40:01 AM   
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The guy was an idiot. Somehow he managed to make a career for himself as a professional BDSM guy, despite his past. Since he was openly poly, he should have known that he'd be under heavy scrutiny. For him to have sex openly with an underage girl, one who ran away from home no less, was monumental stupidity.

On the other site, his slave was defending him, saying that the girl claimed to be 25 and blaming it all on the child.

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RE: Popular BDSM educator/author arrested - 12/24/2015 7:52:49 AM   
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The guy was an idiot. Somehow he managed to make a career for himself as a professional BDSM guy, despite his past. Since he was openly poly, he should have known that he'd be under heavy scrutiny. For him to have sex openly with an underage girl, one who ran away from home no less, was monumental stupidity.

On the other site, his slave was defending him, saying that the girl claimed to be 25 and blaming it all on the child.

I didn't find that one. I did find the event that had him scheduled to present in three weeks pulling the plug.

I'm not buying the 'he didn't know' claim. He thought she was 25, yet he had to go and pick her up? Just makes me want to tell people to pull the other leg. It's got bells on it.



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RE: Popular BDSM educator/author arrested - 12/27/2015 8:56:16 AM   
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I'm not buying the 'he didn't know' claim.

She was 17, which is pretty damn close to 18 when humans naturally reach sexual maturity about 5 years earlier than that.

However, 26 miles per hour is also pretty damn close but still over the 25mph speed limit, whether or not the 25 mph limit is physically reasonable.

So, the law does what the law does, however stupid both sides are.

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RE: Popular BDSM educator/author arrested - 1/4/2016 5:27:43 PM   
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Update.

There was just some documentation posted to the other site. There is now an order of detention pending trial.



AO 472 (Rev. 3/86) Order of Detention Pending Trial
United States District Court
WESTERN
DISTRICT OF OKLAHOMA
UNITED STATES OF AMERICA
v.
ORDER OF DETENTION PENDING TRIAL
XXXXXXX XXXXXXX XXXXXXX
CASE NUMBER: X-XX-XXX-X
Defendant
In accordance with the Bail Reform Act, 18 U.S.C. §3142(f), a detention hearing has been held. I conclude that the following facts require the detention of the defendant pending trial in this case.

Alternative Findings (A)
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(1) There is probable cause to believe that the defendant has committed an offense
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for which a maximum term of imprisonment of ten years or more is prescribed in
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under 18 U.S.C. §3142(e)(3)(E).
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(2) The defendant has not rebutted the presumption established by finding 1 that no condition or combination of conditions will reasonably assure the appearance of the defendant as required and the safety of the community.

Alternative Findings (B)
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(1) There is a serious risk that the defendant will not appear.
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(2) There is a serious risk that the defendant will endanger the safety of another person or the community.

Part II - Written Statement of Reasons for Detention

I find that the credible testimony and information submitted at the hearing establishes by a preponderance of the evidence that there is a serious risk the Defendant will not appear if released, and by clear and convincing evidence that if he is released there is a serious risk the Defendant will endanger the safety of the community. I further find that the release of the Defendant on a personal recognizance bond or an unsecured appearance bond would not reasonably assure the Defendant’s appearance in Court
as required and the safety of the community.

The Defendant has resided in Lawton, Oklahoma since 1995. He owns a home in which his wife resides and has offered as a residential option for Defendant if released, but he apparently does not reside there as they have been separated for two years and he was arrested at a different location. The Defendant initially gave conflicting information regarding his present residency and living situation. He was born in Japan and has a valid passport. He has traveled extensively outside the U.S. for military service and personal reasons and there is conflicting information as to his last trip outside the U.S. He maintains occasional contact with his immediate family, but has no contact with his only child due to a court order from a state criminal matter in Washington.

The Defendant’s income is derived from his free-lance writing and a military pension. The Defendant has no significant health or substance abuse history.

The Defendant's criminal history is noteworthy. In 2003, the Defendant was charged with Incest in the state of Washington. He eventually plead guilty to Assault With Intent to Commit a Felony and served imprisonment and supervised probation. He was required to register as a sex offender for the next ten years and has not been so required for the last two years. The Court notes this Washington conviction occurred at a time when Defendant was a resident of Lawton, Oklahoma.

Moreover, the Defendant was charged in Lawton, Oklahoma in 1996 with Aggravated Assault (Family), but the disposition of the matter is presently unknown.

This criminal history involving a child victim, sexual abuse and domestic violence is highly relevant in relation to the detention issue before the Court in the instant matter.

There is probable cause to believe the Defendant has committed the instant offense and the weight of the evidence is significant.

There is probable cause to believe Defendant committed an offense under 18 U.S.C. §3142(e)(3)(E).

Defendant has not rebutted the presumption by this finding that no condition or combination of conditions will reasonably assure Defendant’s appearance as required and the safety of the community.

And even if the Defendant has rebutted the presumption that no condition or combination of conditions will reasonably assure his appearance as required and the safety of the community because there is probable cause to believe he has committed an offense under 21 U.S.C. §3142(e)(3)(E), the Court finds by a preponderance of the evidence that there is no condition or combination of conditions of release that would reasonably assure Defendant’s further appearance in court and by clear and convincing evidence that there is no condition or combination of conditions of release that would reasonably assure the safety of the community.

Having considered the foregoing, the factors set out in 18 U.S.C. §3142(g) and the nature and circumstances of the instant offense, there is no condition or combination of conditions that will reasonably assure Defendant’s appearance in Court as required and the safety of the community. Therefore, Plaintiff’s Motion for Detention is GRANTED



Basically, enough evidence to be held without bond due to being determined a flight risk. Some dang interesting details in there, too.


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RE: Popular BDSM educator/author arrested - 1/4/2016 7:07:40 PM   
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Wow. I was wondering what it was that put him on the sexual offender registry. That would certainly apply.

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RE: Popular BDSM educator/author arrested - 1/4/2016 8:15:45 PM   
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Oh, it gets better. Not only is there the potential for him to get nailed for driving her to OK from NY, they've also now discovered a pic on her computer of both of them naked. He'd better hope to the heavens that he didn't take the picture, electronically send it to her computer, or keep a copy for himself because they can absolutely nail him on kiddie porn.


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RE: Popular BDSM educator/author arrested - 1/4/2016 8:42:13 PM   
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Nanako...............is the age of consent only 16 in Scotland or Britain ? That's interesting and thanks. I thought there was only one country in Europe that had 16 as the age of consent. The same country that has the highest crime rate per head of population *smile*.

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RE: Popular BDSM educator/author arrested - 1/4/2016 8:52:18 PM   
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Glad he got arrested!

These guys really need to stop preying on teenage girls.

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RE: Popular BDSM educator/author arrested - 1/4/2016 8:54:28 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

The guy was an idiot. Somehow he managed to make a career for himself as a professional BDSM guy, despite his past. Since he was openly poly, he should have known that he'd be under heavy scrutiny. For him to have sex openly with an underage girl, one who ran away from home no less, was monumental stupidity.

On the other site, his slave was defending him, saying that the girl claimed to be 25 and blaming it all on the child.


^That.

What an idiot, I mean sure girls that age do this kind of stuff and go looking for it, but the guy drove for 27hours to take her from her home... Urm... and I think his record shows he's not really in control or responsible in regards to his libido... I've had experience with this kind of thing before involving a family member too. Suffice it to say, the guy is in jail... And if this guy is the same kind of person, so should he be as well, because it's just going to keep happening.

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RE: Popular BDSM educator/author arrested - 1/4/2016 8:55:15 PM   
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On the other site, his slave was defending him, saying that the girl claimed to be 25 and blaming it all on the child.

Every single pedophile who preys on underage victims, uses this exact same excuse.
When my country broke an online child prostitution ring that used women as young as 13 to 14 yrs old. And like seriously, over here, they really look like 11 yr old at that age still.

All 50 over of them arrested for using these prostitutes, are regular family men, hold decent jobs and have daughters themselves. Are all like, the pimp claims all the girls are above 18. Our papers published all their faces and shamed them all. They deserved it!

But anyway, there were enough correspondences to pin on them that they specifically requested for underage.

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RE: Popular BDSM educator/author arrested - 1/5/2016 7:12:36 AM   
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The "excuse" isn't going to hold for long. In fact, it's already been debunked in the affidavit requesting the arrest warrant.

https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/10895088/1-main%20copy.pdf

Paragraph 20 relates that he told investigators that he knew the girl was underage. Paragraph 29 states the adult girlfriend was also aware of the fact before the trip to New York specifically because he had told her. There is also a number of statements related to actions while en route and also after arriving in OK that relate to specific attempts to avoid authorities being able to find the girl.

The adult girlfriend is currently out on $5,000 bond on charges brought against her. She's considered a material witness in Segaloff's case.


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RE: Popular BDSM educator/author arrested - 1/5/2016 11:38:47 AM   
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Nanako...............is the age of consent only 16 in Scotland or Britain ? That's interesting and thanks. I thought there was only one country in Europe that had 16 as the age of consent. The same country that has the highest crime rate per head of population *smile*.


Errr, most countries in Europe (can't think of one where it's not) the age of consent is 16 and has been for ages, in some it's actually 14

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RE: Popular BDSM educator/author arrested - 1/5/2016 11:48:07 AM   
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The "excuse" isn't going to hold for long. In fact, it's already been debunked in the affidavit requesting the arrest warrant.

https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/10895088/1-main%20copy.pdf

Paragraph 20 relates that he told investigators that he knew the girl was underage. Paragraph 29 states the adult girlfriend was also aware of the fact before the trip to New York specifically because he had told her. There is also a number of statements related to actions while en route and also after arriving in OK that relate to specific attempts to avoid authorities being able to find the girl.

The adult girlfriend is currently out on $5,000 bond on charges brought against her. She's considered a material witness in Segaloff's case.


DIdnt they find pics of him n her naked together?
I only just got to this topic...caught up on it last night.
people calling for his stuff to be deleted from amazon...


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RE: Popular BDSM educator/author arrested - 1/5/2016 11:49:16 AM   
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Nanako...............is the age of consent only 16 in Scotland or Britain ? That's interesting and thanks. I thought there was only one country in Europe that had 16 as the age of consent. The same country that has the highest crime rate per head of population *smile*.


Errr, most countries in Europe (can't think of one where it's not) the age of consent is 16 and has been for ages, in some it's actually 14

It has been 16 in the UK for as long as I can remember.

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RE: Popular BDSM educator/author arrested - 1/5/2016 12:28:10 PM   
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What they have busted him on is not her age in relation to being able to consent to sex. What he's been busted on is what is known as the Mann Act, previously known as the White Slavery Act. It's a federal law that says you can not transport non adults across state lines for the purposes of illicit sex acts.

There's a difference between the age of consent for sex and her being legally responsible for traveling with him. Being under eighteen, her parents are still held accountable for her. (From what I've read, her mother's been worried sick and I honestly feel for her.) Since she's not of legal age, she can't legally consent to go to Oklahoma with the defendant. She would have either a) traveled on her own by other means or b) have become emancipated.


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RE: Popular BDSM educator/author arrested - 1/5/2016 12:41:52 PM   
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THanks for that LP,
having been a 16 yr old teen and having my own, yes I completely get the mum is worried sick:)
I know vaguely about the mann act..but makes sense.
At 16 I was SOOOO not interested in men old enough to be my grandfather.
Mind you, my hubby IS 16 years older than me.
Clarification helped:)

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RE: Popular BDSM educator/author arrested - 1/5/2016 4:40:10 PM   
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At 16 I was SOOOO not interested in men old enough to be my grandfather.
Mind you, my hubby IS 16 years older than me.




Massive difference between 16 years older and 17 and 59 years old, 42 years age difference IS really a lot, I dated some older guys, but anybody the age of my dad or grandpa, I would really have been freaked out about, I guess I still would be, though Sean Connery did look pretty good for somebody who could easily be my grandpa...

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RE: Popular BDSM educator/author arrested - 1/5/2016 4:50:57 PM   
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yes, Lucy, my mistake..........I do apologise. The country I was thinking of actually has 12 as the age of consent and yes, it does have the highest crime rate per head of population in Europe.

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